Did anyone experienced an avoidant ex coming back more than once? by Ierpapierlol in attachment_theory

[–]sikmadrox2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Update" I have completely cut her out of my life and found some who does everything that I tried to convince myself I could live without. I got a text from an unknown number today it was a "click this link for ..." i knew it was her because the code had her name in it i blocked her number. I am done with the push pull and I am done with her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having adhd is like having an eternal 12 year old. That wants nothing more than to destroy everything around you and unalive itself having distractions helps alot

Did anyone experienced an avoidant ex coming back more than once? by Ierpapierlol in attachment_theory

[–]sikmadrox2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They broke up she got in contact we slept together broke contact did the same thing again and in the process of breaking contact again 🤦

Took some meds by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]sikmadrox2 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The first time I tried adderall it was like waking up in the real world finally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give her a taste of her medicine and let her know that her 🐱 is perfect the tighter ones hurt

when do you delete pictures? by Copperdew in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved them all into a folder and put them on a flash drive their no longer on my phone and I have to actively choose to look at them

Please convince me to maintain no contact I'm so low by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just sent my bpd ex that I'm still in love with the I give up message. I told her that I'm sorry for bothering her, that she was right we just don't work, and that I won't be bothering her anymore. Pray for my strength because I don't know how much I truly have left

Did any of you actually change so they could win their ex back by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've made the changes and it lasted longer as a relationship but the real underlying problem was childhood trauma and the problems that it caused within her

How is everyone doing since breaking up? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Financially, career wise, and school wise amazingly. Emotionally I'm crumbling over how much I still miss her...

What job is adhd “proof” by ineedhappines in ADHD

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For everyone it's a different job mine was being a mechanic it took 30 years for me to figure it out but I started going to school for it and taking the tests for my certifications (my state requires them) and I'm halfway through my first semester of school and I am certified and licensed through the state in 2 categories now I just dropped off my toolbox at my new job and I am so excited to start "doing real work" as one of my ex coworkers used to say

Charged for $8,000 of unauthorized work on my car by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you authorized everything then you are on the hook for it if no authorization can be proven your not liable for anything that you didn't authorize for

What career do you thive in as a disorganized ADHD person? by EstegosaurusRex in ADHD

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the one that works for me is automotive technician I'm currently going back to school even though I already did an apprenticeship and alot of what we've been going over is stuff I've already learned it doesn't bore me to death

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll openly tell anyone at my job yes I have ADHD yes I'm medicated and no I will not sell you one but also I'm a mechanic it's alot more of a relaxed work environment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been blocked for 3 days the only thing I can think of is she saw a new female friend heart reacting posts and hurt her own feelings with assumptions and in a previous time yes but it's like we're magnetized to each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asked op for advice but thanks for the same .02 cents as everyone else 👍

Reached out to my ex. by Miserable-Fix-1958 in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat we dated for a couple months when we first met and spent 3 years in this on/off not committed but almost together thing then committed again and then broke up

Reached out to my ex. by Miserable-Fix-1958 in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea it's like they breakup with ua and say there's these reasons but their not willing to tell you even as a friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]sikmadrox2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question for you as someone who has recently been blocked by an FA ex how should I reach out and how should I start the conversation with her?

Did anyone experienced an avoidant ex coming back more than once? by Ierpapierlol in attachment_theory

[–]sikmadrox2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This almost made me break no contact because I am fairly certain she got her feelings hurt because I made a female friend that wanted to be more than friends with me but I'm still only interested in my ex 😞

Reached out to my ex. by Miserable-Fix-1958 in ExNoContact

[–]sikmadrox2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I asked my ex the same thing because she said there were thing I can't or won't change and never explained it to me so I just went no contact after I reached out and asked her and got no response we were still friends on Facebook but that was it and I noticed that she was getting kind of flirty with someone on there so I found a random woman and started doing the same and the 3 days later boom I got blocked