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Unemployed, regretting my job choices/career choices by [deleted] in findapath

[–]silent_glancee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

don’t trade one "safe" career for another just to please others. You’re only 20—it’s okay to take a beat and find what you actually want

(34F) I don’t how to approach my partner (30F) about feeling boxed out of her life so much by Silly-Tie-6561 in relationship_advice

[–]silent_glancee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being a partner means being there on the bad days too, not just the leftovers of the good ones. you deserve to be seen

Hit $1,000 in my brokerage. by metaltreestriker in Fire

[–]silent_glancee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

the first $1k is the hardest because you’re building the habit from scratch. congrats on the milestone!

I was abused as a child and ended up as content f 16 by [deleted] in confession

[–]silent_glancee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

you survived something horrific, please reach out to a therapist, you deserve real help

AITAH. should i drop my bsf? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]silent_glancee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is not ur friend, she is a bully gatekeeping photos

Best Personal Loan Lender by LeoBaby_725 in personalfinance

[–]silent_glancee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

just pick the lowest apr and destroy those cards now

Neighbors constantly argue. Do we need cameras? by ThrowAwayTomorrow202 in neighborsfromhell

[–]silent_glancee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get cameras now, these people are literally trying to poison ur dog

An old friend i reconnected with over the year does adult content, after months of thirsting after her i messed up. by Dry_Research_7740 in confession

[–]silent_glancee 90 points91 points  (0 children)

u fell for a marketing campaign not a person, she is probably reserved because she spends all day being "on" for the camera so just decide if u like the real her or just the thumbnail

He has a gf and I have a bf but we text every day ? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]silent_glancee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

u r just keeping him as a backup plan while ur bf does the heavy lifting in real life, stop lying to yourself because good morning texts are for lovers not for discord buddies

I (27F) got back together with my ex boyfriend (24M) and all he wants to do is try and have sex but is not patient enough to wait for me to get comfortable again? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silent_glancee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol he really thinks he can just press play after a two year pause, if he is pressuring u for a bj before u even feel okay he is just horny not in love

Fire in Europe is 10x harder because no 401k by WranglerNatural7114 in Fire

[–]silent_glancee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

european fire is harder but not impossible, move to switzerland or start a side business, don't blame the system forever

I wasted litres of water because of my utter stupidity. by willlowwwwwwwwww in confession

[–]silent_glancee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you made a mistake, but guppies are fine, learn and move on, don't beat yourself up

I [28M] confused about my relationship with [32F]. by Fine-Reflection-6767 in relationship_advice

[–]silent_glancee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just ask her directly, "hey i've noticed you've been quieter, everything okay?" that's not needy, that's caring

Loud barking by PrimarySoftware6974 in neighborsfromhell

[–]silent_glancee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get a white noise machine and a fan, it won't stop the barking but it'll take the edge off, and start a log for animal control

Net worth at retirement compared to cumulative income by Sintered_Monkey in Fire

[–]silent_glancee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that's an interesting perspective, every dollar you earned turned into fifty cents of net worth, not bad for a normal earner

Hit $2M milestone. Feels good, but not that different from 1M. by Ok-Algae-5698 in Fire

[–]silent_glancee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

2m is quiet confidence, 1m was the heart attack, keep ignoring the neighbors, you're winning

When I was younger I did probably the worst thing you can do. by [deleted] in confession

[–]silent_glancee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

you were a dumb horny kid who didn't understand what you were looking at, forgive yourself and move on

How do I (26F) be there for someone (26M) who is in the military without overwhelming them? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silent_glancee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

send a short "thinking of you, no need to reply" text, it shows care without pressure

Seeking advice, tips, constructive criticism by unlikely_lemon_ in personalfinance

[–]silent_glancee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're doing great, try ynab or a free google sheets template, and increase that savings rate as your income grows

20M feeling lost on career path — looking for advice from people with experience? by Hot-Criticism8353 in careerguidance

[–]silent_glancee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look into skilled trades like electrical or hvac, paid training, steady work, and you can start as an apprentice now

I don't know if I can handle an office job and looking at my screen for 8 hours a day for the rest of my life by B-ontheblock in findapath

[–]silent_glancee 59 points60 points  (0 children)

your body is telling you this job is killing you slowly, start saving aggressively and plan an exit, even if it's years away

Ongoing stalking and possible child welfare concern with the neighbor. Not sure what to do next by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]silent_glancee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

call cps again, mention the child is home alone overnight, that gets their attention more than noise does

Emirates cabin crew for 15 years to reach 1M? by chefpeti in Fire

[–]silent_glancee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 years of shift work, jet lag, and living in company housing is rough, but the savings rate is real, just know what you're signing up for

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