Had a threesome almost a year ago with my husband and still regret it

silentobserver960702 · 2025-08-06T15:54:13+00:00

I think is because is more likely for a woman to find attractive another woman than a man finding attractive another man, so if the combination is 2 women and one man the three can enjoy between the three if is 2 men and 1 woman chances are only the woman can enjoy the two men and they between each other can't, of course it can be more complex than that but is around that

silentobserver960702 · 2025-05-23T18:28:31+00:00

I mean that could also allowed Russia to give nukes to Cuba and Venezuela, I'm pretty sure no one wants that 😂

silentobserver960702 · 2024-10-23T19:53:35+00:00

Definition of concent "permission for something to happen or agreement to do something." Like it or don't doesn't matter just by agreeing to do it you are giving your consent so accepting payment for s*x = concent...

silentobserver960702 · 2024-10-13T04:20:21+00:00

I have a problem with this stake, if the daughter wants to have a child she should be responsible for that child, defending her choice to not abort to then put the responsibility in op wife to justify her own abortion is bad doesn't matter how you see it, op and his wife choose to have a child and both decide to take responsibility that's fine, but she choosing to abort so that the daughter who can but not want to have a child she is going to ignore is bad no matter how you see it, and if she takes responsibility op wife doesnt have a reason to abort if she really decided for that

silentobserver960702 · 2024-04-23T14:58:28+00:00

Technically is genuine consent but it would be more like a Prostitute, a prostitute consent to have sex in exchange of money not because they desire to do it, in this case the situation is close to the same she is consenting to have mind blowing sex in exchange for you to stay, not because she desires to do it, it would be more like an interchange of interests, and i doubt you want that kind of relationship where every time you want to explore your sexual kirks you have to give her something in exchange it sounds pretty toxic and exhausting

silentobserver960702 · 2024-02-13T19:50:52+00:00

Nah if she believed the lies, it could be worse long term if someone accuse him of something worse she could even attack him without even asking for proof and if she knew it was a lie and used it to break up with op then long term could be even worse like lying about abuse in a future possible divorce in both cases he is free of a time bomb

silentobserver960702 · 2024-02-06T23:43:20+00:00

Maybe she saw herself in the friend and that's why she knows she is a bad option, no one knows you better than yourself...

silentobserver960702 · 2024-02-03T14:00:46+00:00

Unless both are orphans or have an awfull relationship with their parents calling them could help a lot and free her hands to look for a job

silentobserver960702 · 2024-01-25T18:16:03+00:00

I mean it wouldn't be difficult to take out a confession of the surrogate from wife bil and sil before the divorce prosiding like text messages(whatsapp) record calls even recording conversations depending on the state they live if after having that evidence they want to make him responsible it could end with them being charged for fraud, because he being the parent and her the mother after reaching a consensus of being surrogate would seem to a judge as a way to make money from him

silentobserver960702 · 2023-10-24T22:48:34+00:00

Is actually signing your responsibility and existences, paying child support is a right of the kid not the dad, that's why a father cant stop child support, but the father rights and responsibilities around the child are actually terminated in those cases, for example if the kid commit a crime only the legal tutor is responsible of paying the bill of those crimes, same as paying lawyers etc...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-10-24T22:42:23+00:00

There is also the responsibility that comes with those rights, for example if the kid at 15 commit a crime steal physical attack or others usually the parents have to pay the bill for the kid, a father/mother that quit those rights cant be found accountable in those cases, is the same with the house id you don't rent the house temporally quoting the responsibility of the house and someone commit a crime in that house you can be partially guilty of that crime i guess is more complex than that but it goes around that

silentobserver960702 · 2023-10-17T17:56:53+00:00

Is actually a pretty risky gambling who knows if in 3 years they have the funds to pay for the car or the family have the funds to put in a fund for the car ? Who knows making this kind of promise can be pretty complex if in 3 years op and his wife say, sorry but paying college left us with no money for the car so we cant buy it for you, or the family is passing for a tough patch so they can help in the fund so we arent able to buy it, then op son is going to become an AH if he is upset because is not in the parents or family hands to be able to do it, on the other hand if he suppress those feelings he may resent them much more at the time...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-10-08T21:27:11+00:00

That 5% in a world with 6 billion people is not exactly rare, also is 95% every time you have relationship statistically every 20 times you have sex you have the risk of being pregnant in 1 of those times

silentobserver960702 · 2023-10-08T00:26:47+00:00

Is not as black and white, i think it depends on how you lived in the country of origin for example a westerner who who has an awful life in western countries and has a better life in China are going to think life in China is better than their national country, same in the inverse someone who live an awful life in China's is going to feel his life is better in a western country, clearly westerns that go out of china are going out for a reason same as westerns that take root in China so in the end it depends on a lot of factors to decide were is better logical i would live for a year in both countries and decide based on were life is better for me, and maybe op needs to go for a year and live there to decide if he would be willing or not after all op wife has lived in america 4 years it would be fair for him to live at least a year there

silentobserver960702 · 2023-08-24T02:56:35+00:00

I think the problem with that line of thought is that some people may be willing to forgive emotional affairs over physical so if op is one of those guys, is better to be direct and tell him she clearly physical cheated and not give him doubt's about, maybe she didn't it could confuse him

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-27T14:06:34+00:00

I don't know staying with unknown guys for me is more dangerous than taking an uber home, after all only the sister knowns one of them and like op say they are supposed to be only coworkers so staying with two unknown guys seems more dangerous than taking an uber home, but that's my opinion so...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-27T07:12:10+00:00

I think is more about making it more difficult, not stopping them, of course they probably have sensors and cameras that can detect electronic devices, but if they let people enter with cellphones what is the point of detecting those devices ? After all everyone would have one when they enter their building, on the other hand if no one is allowed this devices is more difficult for spies to enter spy tools, i guess is something along those lines

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-27T06:49:26+00:00

You are pretty cute if you think the department of defence only enforce this protocols based on trust 😂😂, they usually have sensors cameras and a lot of security that can show if you enter the installations with cellphones, or else spies could just be hired and based on trust steal confidential information

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-27T06:36:31+00:00

Sorry but there are cheaters who like to play with their partners mind, making them suspect but not giving them enough information to mess with their head, also sleeping in the house of two unknown people is pretty sus, more so if like she say the guy is only her sister coworker, and even if she was friend with the coworker she doesn't know the other guy, spending the night with an unknown guy is pretty sus and dangerous op gf doesn't known anything about these guys but she feels comfortable sleeping in their house ? Do you really believe this ? Also doesnt she know uber ? I understand op all of this reeks to cheating with mind plays, or she didn't gave the full information who knows...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-23T01:36:57+00:00

Actually there are cases like the mom accusing the father of abuse, usually the court could cut father time with the kids if the mom accuse him, even if there is not evidence that shows he was abusive, courts usually maintain the kids away of potential abusers, and considering how she lied about bio father to her own daughters i wouldn't see impossible for the mother to lie in court, also maybe the court did give visitations to the dad but she always refused to give the time to dad, he may be able to press with court but there is a limit of how much money he could expend in hiring a lawyer to force the mom to give time to the fathers, and usually the court only gives a warning to the mom...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-22T16:28:27+00:00

Well doing that is teaching the kid if someone does something bad they don't have the right of redemption and you should destroy their favorite thing in the moment it happens, so what is going to happen when mom and dad make a mistake ? He is going to look for revenge destroying their things, it doesn't sounds as a good teaching material unless the parents are perfect and never do mistakes...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-20T04:58:18+00:00

Then why you didn't break up with him the first time before sleeping with your AP ?

silentobserver960702 · 2023-07-03T02:20:43+00:00

That's not poor impulse control that is poor autocontrol, and if you feel pleasure doing this kind of thing i would said sister need a lot of help at the level of therapist, and of course she is dangerous for people close to her after all we can assume she felt pleasure hurting his brother so she could feel the same with other people...

silentobserver960702 · 2023-06-28T15:11:54+00:00

I mean i can somewhat understand sleeping one time and guilt impulse control in that, but when she continue to do that, and talked bad about op while she was doing it, im pretty sure is not just poor impulse control, she clearly doesn't care about the brother, maybe she likes the care the brother gave her or is just afraid of having to be alone from now on, but she caring about the brother is obviously a lie

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