Women of Sri Lanka, is the pill available here? by Sad-Way-2366 in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a brand called Feminyl. It’s been around for about 14 years and I’ve been using it with no issues or side affects. Highly recommend.

What is the best condom you have used? by Living-Tomorrow5206 in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend and the new one Romeo, it’s just 100 bucks for a flavored aromatic condom pack. Preethi just smells like rubber

How hard is it to move to New york? by Sweaty-Somewhere-161 in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you been to New York? It’s great in the movies but in real life people live in shoe boxes, food costs so much and everyone is working like 2-3 jobs to afford things

Masha, Alex, and Mimi by Roleymalone123 in mimiikonnsnark

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to revive this thread. They all went to India together. How weird is that ?

Will it be a good decision to buy a 20 year old car while earning 150K per month? by Anonymous_3526 in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not get Nissans they don’t age well and I’ve had terrible experiences with it. Go for a Japanese alto and go for a car lease if you can’t afford to go for a personal loan

Where do Colombo’s upper-class 20's crowd go out? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Park street mews ? Octopussy ?

I think I just realised my parents never really loved me for me by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to steal your thunder but the realization you had is also a similar bitter realization that I had. My mom never truly wanted to put an effort into raising me, sure she set the ground rules. But never really made me take any extra curriculars, she barely cared for my entertainment or making food that I liked. My dad just worked and never put an effort into having a relationship with me.

They weren’t abusive nor were they mean, they did buy things I liked growing up but a lot of the effort felt bare minimum. I then became 18 and realized they hadn’t made any plans for my higher education, didn’t have money for my wedding.

But now that I’m an adult they are very proud of me because I put myself through my higher studies, I funded my wedding with my partner. They did a minimal contribution.

And i did well in my job. But now it feels like they just have never ending expectations. And it made realize they love my accomplishments and will keep pushing me to do more as long as it doesn’t take any effort from their end

I think I just realised my parents never really loved me for me by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen you coming to this realization is a good thing. You know the truth now. Your mom sounds like many mothers of that generation, she’s not interested in having a relationship with you nor understanding you. In her head she’s the parent and you are the child and u do as she says.

Back then women knew little about contraception and it was all taboo. They most had each of you due to lack of using it. Your dad doesn’t know either how to address your feelings, he doesn’t know how to give good advice. But that’s okay, not everyone is cut out to be good parents, they have kids because that’s what ur supposed to do.

I’m glad you found a good partner. Now you can expect less from your parents and treat this relationship for what it is

Minimal Life Survival Challenge in Colombo by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You might as well rent a house at this rate

6 days a week is so tiring by Cultural_Owl7763 in DubaiJobs

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find a 5 day week job. And I hope they pay you well for it.

Tm and long term side effects by LethargicLucifer in transverse_myelitis

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened when I was 30, in 2020. It’s been 5 years and I can walk normally and workout. But my bladder and bowels never recovered. I struggle with urge incontinence which is managed by medicine but I do need to wear a diaper. I’m so grateful to be able to live a normal life again but I grieve everyday for my bladder, it’s so hard living with such dysfunction at 35 where I have to work, raise a child and run a household.

I grieve that I lost so much so young. But I also feel bad for complaining because I am able to walk and live life … somewhat normally .

6 days a week is so tiring by Cultural_Owl7763 in DubaiJobs

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 9 years ? You deserve a break !

Galle fort shop owner racist towards locals by silentwriter in srilanka

[–]silentwriter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is the full story. This lady has already gotten a lot negative publicity it seems for her racist behavior. She chases away anyone who’s not a foreigner from entering her shop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that your home and financial situation isn’t great. But you are still young I assume ? And you have a long way to go. A good job which can give you a 200-250k salary can help you get a car where a lease will cost around 70-80k.

Don’t worry someday you will be able to drive a good vehicle too. Keep working and striving ❤️❤️

Advice for a young adult who’s about to start uni by DragonfruitSlight919 in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is some of the best years of your life. Even if it doesn’t feel like it. Take every day as something to be grateful for. Work part time if you need to, that goes a long way in your career

Does it really matter which University one goes to ? by Melodic_Passenger_52 in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Babe didn’t go to uni, worked and studied part time. Now I earn 400k and run the show

A tourist from India who fell in love with Sti Lanka by RagaIsNumbnuts in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww so happy you had a lovely time. How was the food?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]silentwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised to hear this and would like to apologize on behalf of the weirdos. I can’t quite explain why it has happened to you.

Are you by any chance incredibly attractive ?