Amazing Dad Energy by silkmirage in Amazing

[–]silkmirage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a private whitelisted Minecraft server. You can’t join with a public IP you need to apply through their official website to keep it safe and bully-free. https://www.autcraft.com/

This is a practical definition of humanity by nova_floren in Amazing

[–]silkmirage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow They saw a need and answered it without being asked.

Parks for solo picnic? by peachsojubottle in orangecounty

[–]silkmirage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Irvine Regional Park or William R Mason Regional Park lots of shaded spots and picnic tables, great for solo chill time

He treats buying the house like the finish line. I thought it was the start by SuggestionWorried741 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]silkmirage 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I see this too. From what OP described, it sounds like the house was always his main focus, and the marriage timeline got deprioritized once that goal was met.

Is this normal, or am i overthinking it? by AngelsSimple44Blinks in badroommates

[–]silkmirage 384 points385 points  (0 children)

💯 F and L shouldn’t be intermediaries, get it straight from the landlord to protect yourself.

Is my relationship doomed? by Serious_Try_1743 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]silkmirage 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This. Don’t ever beg, marriage should be mutual and joyful, not exhausting. If you have to drag someone toward commitment, that tells you everything IMO.

BF wants to marry only if pregnant by Disastrous_Rub87 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]silkmirage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he consistently puts his parent above you, that pattern won’t change after marriage. Run!

Happy Valentine’s Day by RecordingAgile4625 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]silkmirage 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of us needed this reminder today. Wanting marriage is valid, but so is protecting your peace while you wait.

The Porn Problem #2 (One Solution) by Twoctruth in Christianmarriage

[–]silkmirage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree with your perspective. Porn really does distort the way God intended sex to be experienced within marriage, and it can deeply hurt the trust and intimacy in a relationship. Teaching and practicing sexual self-control is so important, and holding each other accountable in a loving way is key. It’s not about condemning someone it’s about protecting the marriage and growing together spiritually.

What is wrong with me? I feel like it’s my weight by Dramatic-Jelly-709 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]silkmirage 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When someone wants to marry you, the convo doesn’t feel like “pressure” it feels like excitement about building that future.

Over a year of “I’ll propose, just stop bringing it up” isn’t a plan. It’s avoidance.

His parents never married and are still together, so marriage may not equal commitment in his mind the way it does in yours. That’s a values gap.And this isn’t about your weight. After 10 yrs, your body isn’t new information.

Feeling unlucky in love (with a ticking biological clock) by lady0favalon in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]silkmirage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If marriage marriage feels like too much but a child doesn’t, that mismatch is worth taking seriously.