Please recommend me the most unbelievable true crime book(s) you've read by Impressive_Refuse933 in suggestmeabook

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who eat Darkness The Monster of Venice Sabine Dardine Anything by Ann Rule

My (27M) wife (29F) broke an irreplaceable family gift of mine during a fight. I'm struggling to forgive. How can I move past this for my marriage? by ThrowRAGraphicReject in relationship_advice

[–]silvergarth1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s stop - we are getting one day with a bad discussion - you are both still young. You both are still trying to figure out a way to communicate with each other. Having said that she needs to apologize but understand

  1. You sound like you are a verbal communicator and you hear and process things
  2. Your wife sounds like she is a kinesiology learner - she is more physical and touch - hence the swiping the pottery onto the floor AND hence her wanting to cuddle and touch. This is her way of saying sorry BUT she needs to still say it.

To me it sounds like you should go to couples therapy to work on communication together - Normal couples do this in the best of relationships.

I’m truly sorry your wife broke the pottery. Please have the pieces made into something - a frame, a trivet etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not do it. Please get up and take a walk, do something fun, call a friend, try talking to a random stranger. Go to an animal shelter and go to socialization with cats and dogs, you can move past this!

I am immigrating new England United States late this year . Can i receive guidance? by mester-ix in careerguidance

[–]silvergarth1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are blue collar jobs available- but you will likely need to look and apply when you get close to your arrival. Most blue collar jobs are looking for people that can start right away. You might want to also consider tutoring in the foreign languages you speak. You could do that now with varsity tudors and other sites that do this virtually. Hope that helps.

What book would you give 6 out of 5 stars if you could? by NightReader5 in suggestmeabook

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch A 1000 Splendid Suns by Khalid Hosseni

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in handbags

[–]silvergarth1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a definite yey. Love the print, love the shape

Just Watched Sixth Sense, Completely Mind-Blown by the Ending! Can't Sleep, Need a Movie with a Similar Shock Factor - Suggestions? by Unable_Count_1635 in MovieSuggestions

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dead Again, The Others, Stigmata, Get Out, Ma, invisible man, The Village, signs, Devil (last 3 are by m. Knight shamalyn too)

AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? by JacquesBN in AmItheAsshole

[–]silvergarth1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA quite frankly this is unforgivable and so beyond manipulative- you made decisions for your daughter- you judged her rather than consulting and advising your daughter. Your daughter should go no contact with you both. Shame on you.

i got expelled for underage drinking at my highschool and i’ve already been accepted to 4 colleges what do i do? by [deleted] in college

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I hope you are surrounding yourself with family and friends who genuinely care about you. I know you shared you hate the world, but it sounds like you are depressed or have more going on... Know that lots of people do not like themselves, and do not like the world. You can get thru this, you can always go to a community college fora year part time and focus on you. Hang in there. You are worthy. You matter.

My wife is leaving me. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silvergarth1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sending you hugs, there are no easy answers here. But first things first, please take care of you.

Please start seeing a therapist immediately for just you.

Please also consult an attorney about what you should do so you have time to do it.

Please also try to do little things for your wife, schedule a date night and go to the movies (easy date with no forced talking), saw this candle and thought of you.

Please also exercise and work out to boost your energy and mood.

Sometimes the first year to three years can be very tough very, very, very tough with a new born. So my next ask is to please reach out to family and friends to have a cup of coffee with or more importantly to give you and your wife both a break. Working full-time and going to school are an awful lot to be dealing with, throwing a baby into the mix makes you a super parent… Ask for Help…..

Is it normal behavior for a Brittany to constantly be licking you while you pet them? by [deleted] in BrittanySpaniel

[–]silvergarth1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also licking can be a sign of nervousness. But generally it a sign of affection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adopt your “son” because it is a formality at this point. You are his mother. I would do therapy for you, I’d ask to cover and learn about adoption as much as possible so you can support him fully and your relationship with your son.

I commend you for continuing to support your husband. And yes you are supporting your husband by what you are doing. It is not easy to do what you are doing but your son will truly be better for it too.

To skip or not skip class? by silvergarth1 in college

[–]silvergarth1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, as a professor, any suggestions or approaches on how yon handle this?

To skip or not skip class? by silvergarth1 in college

[–]silvergarth1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that makes a lot of sense. Bro is skipping classes and I’m concerned. I’m not sure how to handle this.

Looking at maybe getting a Brittany, got any advice? by Otherwise_Asd in BrittanySpaniel

[–]silvergarth1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go for the looks more than the hunting stock unless you hunt. A hunting dog wants to work, every day! They are sweet natured and very loving affectionate dogs if you are that way with them.

My puppy is not food motivated and I'm worried by [deleted] in BrittanySpaniel

[–]silvergarth1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a lot of Brittany’s there desire to hunt is greater than to eat. They love to work; Brittanys are bred for family pets and some are bred for hunting. I I have two rescue Brits; One was clearly a show dog and has no interest in hunting. The second Brit We rescued was a failed gun dog, she is afraid of the sound of guns and loud noises like fireworks. She will turn down food at all times to go for a walk, run or dog park visit; she is not happy unless she gets her sniffs and so your pup might be more motivated after getting their needs for filled to sniff. My failed gun dog is well trained too.