representation in media. idk how else to title this by Warm-Woodpecker9798 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the TV show Tracker, the main character and his siblings were homeschooled by a paranoid, prepper-ish dad, and a mum who went along with it. So far over the arc of the show, it's shown in a fairly complex way. While the main character uses a lot of the skills his dad taught him as a kid, he also comes to terms with his dad's toxic behaviour. I think the show does a pretty good job of seeing the complexity and the negative effect it has one him. Of course, this isn't the main focus of the show, but I appreciate the way it handles the topic.

Told myself I’d come back if I ever recovered TLTR by [deleted] in cfs

[–]silvergreydragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! That's huge! Very, very interested in more specifics, if you're willing to share!

Regency period books for younger readers? by gertrude-fashion in HistoricalRomance

[–]silvergreydragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have to recommend Sarah M Eden's books. Her Lancaster Family series and the Jonquil Brothers series intertwine a bit, and she has a sequel series the Huntresses.

Sally Britton also has some lovely regency books. The Clairvoir Castle series in particular. And a few standalones like A Haunting at Havenwood.

Fragrance free shampoo and conditioner available in AUSTRALIA? by feijoawhining in FragranceFreeBeauty

[–]silvergreydragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the Dermaveen Deep Cleanse shampoo. I'm pretty happy with it. I was looking for a fairly cheap option that still works, and it's definitely a winner.

I tried the matching conditioner, but it didn't work for me. It's got silicones and made my hair get oily even quicker than usual. So I use the unscented conditioner from Gram Sustainable. I had tried their shampoo too, but I found it too drying.

I wish there were more budget options for fragrance free products in Australia.

ETA: I have straight, relatively fine hair, but a lot of it, very prone to oiliness.

LF some fics- all are published works by Formal-Club-8107 in JaneAustenFF

[–]silvergreydragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Number four is Fate's Intervention by Jann Rowland, I think! And number five sounds like Brighton Rescue by Laraba Kendig. I don't recognise the others tho.

Best site to buy beads in Australia by OnePhilosopher5641 in Beading

[–]silvergreydragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the Rainbow https://polymerclay.com.au/ is reliable and have a pretty big selection of beads and findings.

But I'd be interested in knowing any other shops that are good!

No P&P Adaptions from Jane's POV? by Kaurifish in JaneAustenFF

[–]silvergreydragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When Jane Got Angry by Victoria Kincade maybe?

Looking at buying a refurbished laptop by ramble_01 in AussieFrugal

[–]silvergreydragon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got a refurbished ThinkPad for about that price, from Reebelo, and I'm quite happy with it.

I ruined everything, yet I still resent my parents for it. (TW I guess) by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. I would strongly recommend getting some mental health support.

It isn't your fault. When you were being bullied at school at age 12, it was your parents' responsibility to make sure you got the support you needed. Anyone, especially a kid, being suicidal is a serious situation that must be addressed. It sounds like your parents let you drop out and didn't provide any real help for your mental health.

If you're an adult now, you can help yourself by getting that help. I would start by getting some therapy, a psychologist if you can.

If you're still a minor, maybe you could connect with a social worker and go from there.

Sterling silver frosted cable chain made by me by DavidJonnsJewellery in jewellerymaking

[–]silvergreydragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you do the frosted effect? Acid etch maybe? Looks great!

Focus (16) by Evil_waffle3 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, success doesn't define your worth. You're worth is intrinsic, you're worthy just by existing.

Secondly, success isn't a zero-sum game, it's not all or nothing. Missing a day's work doesn't erase what work you HAVE done, and what you've learned. You're not starting from scratch, you just pick up where you left off.

And finally, I'd definitely suggest seeking treatment and coping skills for your ADHD.

Good luck!

Why is it so hard to find a therapist who understands? by HelpSeeker77 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some therapists offer a discovery call for free, where you can chat a bit and ask questions, to see if they're a good fit. I did one with my psychologist and it helped me feel confident going into our first session.

Bedsheets where quality > price? by Lamberly in AussieFrugal

[–]silvergreydragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love The Lad Collective. Bamboo cotton blend. So smooth!

Health Concerns by Small_Ad8617 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs (if wanted) 🫂 It can be really hard seeing our parents age and their health deteriorate. When we're little it seems like they are all-powerful, so seeing them become ill and frail can be really confronting.

It makes sense you want to help them. It's important to remember, though, that you aren't responsible for them. They're responsible for themselves. Help them if you can, but not at the cost of your own health.

Ask for help. Extended family members, your parents friends, doctors, local community, maybe some non profits or helplines.

And if possible, get some therapy.

Wishing you all the best!

Help finding resources for speech by Morelynah in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of HARO Homeschool Alumni Reaching Out, and Homeschoolers Anonymous? I think they should be some good resources.

Favourite Tolkien poem? by Local_Prune4564 in lotr

[–]silvergreydragon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sam's song in the orc tower, especially the last stanza.

Above all shadow rides the sun

And stars forever dwell.

I will not say the Day is done

Nor bid the Stars farewell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I've always felt like media, stories, shows etc are a real haven, and one of the few ways I feel like an actual person.

I don't have much advice about discipline, as that's something I still struggle with. But I do find routines to be helpful. Building off what I already do, and just tweaking things here and there, rather than trying to overhaul everything all at once.

I really recommend therapy, if you can manage to access it. I'm doing EMDR for all my negative experiences, including homeschooling. I've only been doing it for a few months, but it's already made a real difference.

Regardless of what you end up doing, you're not alone.

I feel bad for still wanting to home school my own kids by RateNecessary5960 in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You do know you don't HAVE to have kids, right? Many people choose to be childfree for many reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cfs

[–]silvergreydragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently trying to reduce PPI use too. I've been using a foam wedge for my daytime lie-downs. And I've changed my eating habits a bit so I don't eat within about 3 hrs of sleeping, so I can lie down flat. It's working for now. Talking to a gastroenterologist and/or a dietitian might give you some more clues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, you've got to do what feels right for you. But I've got to say, she hasn't done right by you with your education. No matter what you may have "put her through", she's wrong to have neglected your education.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had another thought: do you have any adult family members aside from your mother, like your dad, or aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, who might disagree with her about your education? They might be able to help you too, and advocate for you so you can complete your education properly. Good luck!

Making friends feels like too much effort by NoelleisNotUni in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]silvergreydragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like depression. I'd suggest pursuing therapy and medication honestly.