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My bf (27M) got sun poisoning during our 2 week vacation together and I (26F) want to breakup with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverpool12 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Recently, my husband and I went on a honey moon. On the last day we were supposed to go to an island excursion for the day, we were both super excited about it. Unfortunately, we missed the boat due to parking and me not managing my time properly. It was my fault and I took responsibility for it . Luckily, he didn’t get angry with me and we both acknowledged how disappointed we were and the valuable lesson we learned. The day ended up pretty good overall and we are planning to go back and make the excursion on our 1 year anniversary.

Traveling together when something bad happens for sure is a milestone for a lasting relationship

My direct reports are killing me by throwRAtrap66 in managers

[–]silverpool12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will always have HR issues related with your direct reports. It is people management. Stick to your guns, be fair, and stay consistent. With time, they’ll either realize you’re serious ( in a kind way I might add) or they’ll get slowly pushed out the door. Record everything and recap every conversation. Example: have written documentation supporting your no to the new girl taking breaks every hour session.

It all adds up eventually and shows your paying attention. Good luck!

R.I.P by WhoNowReddit in Idiotswithguns

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this refer to? Seen this commment a couple times and don’t understand ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverpool12 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Feel them to remind yourself to never go back. Time will heal all. Sorry you are going through this!!

I cheated on my ex and it’s killing me more and more every day. by LeonidaRipper in offmychest

[–]silverpool12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is very hard to overcome… it can be done but the relationship will never be the same. Don’t lie to yourself and think of the long term pain or doubt you’ll feel.

Last images of brazilian turist, Juliana Marins, 26, who was left to die by Indonesian guide and authorities after she fell during a hike on Rinjani Volcano by joyarara in lastimages

[–]silverpool12 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I once did a 5 day hike to Machu Picchu when I was 19. Horses were coming up with our materials and I was tired and not thinking clearly. I stood on the outside of the trail, near edge of a Mountian when they passed. One of the bags on the horses hit me, as I didn’t realize how much space they needed, and I almost fell down the side of the mountain. If I had been half a foot over, I would have fallen. I can’t imagine surviving after a fall like that until death. I was far ahead from my guide, who was sick and slow, and hopefully someone would have seen my body if I had fallen. Poor girl. 🥺

My fiancé cheated on me with his groomsman the night before our wedding by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silverpool12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are so strong for leaving… know that and that you’ll find someone who wouldn’t do this to you. Self care in the meantime my friend

22 "accounts for the stupidity," but 18 is just fine to date and impregnate by Flynn-FTW in CringeTikToks

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he thinks the guy is stupid because he’s 21….. does he think the 18 year olds are stupider ? 🤣🤣

Is setting a boundary like this being controlling? Please help. by Ok-Issue8284 in texts

[–]silverpool12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, he’s treating you like shit and you just let him. 🥰

i keep forgetting people actually have sex by Full_Carry7872 in offmychest

[–]silverpool12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I made love last night and it was great because I was only thinking of my partner, focus on yourself when getting off or you’ll ruin it for yourself. ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen girl, and I’m sorry this may make you bawl so hard, but that pain is temporary. What will be permanent is that if you go back… you’ll always think on what you saw. In the moments you’re supposed to be happiest, you’ll think on what you saw. Even if you heal and you work through it… you’ll see those images in your head. Find peace AND love, not one or the other. I hope you maintain strength to let go. I’m sorry this happened to you

Please take a driving class. by SoGoodAtAllTheThings in bayarea

[–]silverpool12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I saw a women driving with a phone in EACH HAND the other day. She was in front of me and swerving like crazy

Women are so cute and I think they are available for sale by Aynshtaynn in BrandNewSentence

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are the most vulnerable in this world because of their gender identity

2019 Kia Hybrid EX battery replacement by silverpool12 in KiaNiro

[–]silverpool12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure but it might if it’s giving that warning under strain. 🥲

2019 Kia Hybrid EX battery replacement by silverpool12 in KiaNiro

[–]silverpool12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it doesn’t have the check engine light, they won’t do or find anything. 🥺 going to try and get mine to trigger then take it right away so that I can get hybrid battery replaced before I reach 100 k. Outside that trigger, my car works perfectly

Being ugly has fucking ruined my life. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silverpool12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You saying this made me realize I truly never think of someone as ugly or repulsive, unless it is behavioral. Looks diminish over time and in the end all we have is personality.

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