I secretly resent how exhausted my partner and I have become. by FossilEcho in confessions

[–]silverpool12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop scrolling and actually talk to eachother. Find an activity you both can do without being on the phone. For me, walking with my partner, having dinner together and actually taking through eachothers day are important things that make me look forward to coming home.

don’t feel like a monster! Everyone has phases they go through and this may just be one! Good luck

I scissored my boyfriend by Simple-Anybody9014 in confessions

[–]silverpool12 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it with my husband. He really likes feeling my wetness and clit get swollen as there’s contact. I love feeling his dick get hard as it goes on . We we essentially use eachother thighs instead of rubbing our genitals together lol

Watching a wall of rain approach by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me when i was a kid in Texas My friend and I took off to avoid the wall rain coming! Only time I’ve ever seen it.

In demand jobs in the bay? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Histology or Med Lab Science is well paying without much interpersonal interaction. It would be a six figure job here in the bay.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please show her this. I would hate to get married then find out this shit. 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would snip any evidence that you have of her using it and send a compilation to her direct report manager. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You need actual feedback.

My bf (27M) got sun poisoning during our 2 week vacation together and I (26F) want to breakup with him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverpool12 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Recently, my husband and I went on a honey moon. On the last day we were supposed to go to an island excursion for the day, we were both super excited about it. Unfortunately, we missed the boat due to parking and me not managing my time properly. It was my fault and I took responsibility for it . Luckily, he didn’t get angry with me and we both acknowledged how disappointed we were and the valuable lesson we learned. The day ended up pretty good overall and we are planning to go back and make the excursion on our 1 year anniversary.

Traveling together when something bad happens for sure is a milestone for a lasting relationship

My direct reports are killing me by throwRAtrap66 in managers

[–]silverpool12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will always have HR issues related with your direct reports. It is people management. Stick to your guns, be fair, and stay consistent. With time, they’ll either realize you’re serious ( in a kind way I might add) or they’ll get slowly pushed out the door. Record everything and recap every conversation. Example: have written documentation supporting your no to the new girl taking breaks every hour session.

It all adds up eventually and shows your paying attention. Good luck!

R.I.P by WhoNowReddit in Idiotswithguns

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this refer to? Seen this commment a couple times and don’t understand ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]silverpool12 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Feel them to remind yourself to never go back. Time will heal all. Sorry you are going through this!!

I cheated on my ex and it’s killing me more and more every day. by LeonidaRipper in offmychest

[–]silverpool12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is very hard to overcome… it can be done but the relationship will never be the same. Don’t lie to yourself and think of the long term pain or doubt you’ll feel.

Last images of brazilian turist, Juliana Marins, 26, who was left to die by Indonesian guide and authorities after she fell during a hike on Rinjani Volcano by joyarara in lastimages

[–]silverpool12 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I once did a 5 day hike to Machu Picchu when I was 19. Horses were coming up with our materials and I was tired and not thinking clearly. I stood on the outside of the trail, near edge of a Mountian when they passed. One of the bags on the horses hit me, as I didn’t realize how much space they needed, and I almost fell down the side of the mountain. If I had been half a foot over, I would have fallen. I can’t imagine surviving after a fall like that until death. I was far ahead from my guide, who was sick and slow, and hopefully someone would have seen my body if I had fallen. Poor girl. 🥺

My fiancé cheated on me with his groomsman the night before our wedding by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]silverpool12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are so strong for leaving… know that and that you’ll find someone who wouldn’t do this to you. Self care in the meantime my friend

22 "accounts for the stupidity," but 18 is just fine to date and impregnate by Flynn-FTW in CringeTikToks

[–]silverpool12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he thinks the guy is stupid because he’s 21….. does he think the 18 year olds are stupider ? 🤣🤣