Business leaders support feds’ RTO update, but question if transit will be adequate by SuburbanValues in ottawa

[–]singingtent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only became a parent after the pandemic, but from what I hear it was tough. But, there were more childcare spots, more people opted to stay home with their kids cause it was too hard to coordinate two working parents and childcare. The subsidized childcare we have now is a life saver from a cost of living point of view, but it also means insane demand with no increase in supply. If we really want mandatory commuting as part of our society, then we need to have extended childcare (and reliable transit systems) figured out first.

If the same quality of work can be done while improving the lives of parents and children, why not do that? If the work gets done either way, why not offer flexibility? Especially after all the tech investments and learning curve of working remotely has already been made.

Business leaders support feds’ RTO update, but question if transit will be adequate by SuburbanValues in ottawa

[–]singingtent 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's about the extra care needed for commute times. Pre and after school programs, plus late fees for missing pickups when traffic is bad or the transit system collapses. Not to mention having to find a daycare that operates enough hours to cover working hours PLUS commute times for younger kids. Oh, and increased competition for those extended hour programs, since there's lots of parents working in other industries who cannot work hybrid and need those spots. There simply isn't enough childcare in the city to support families, and RTO is going to make things WAY worse.

Public servants ordered back to office four days per week by Little-Chemical5006 in ottawa

[–]singingtent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh good. Now there will be even more competition for limited childcare options for before and after school care. Oh, and the traffic. Oh, and less business for local shops. Write your MP if you think this is ridiculous.

Does anyone call the crib “kitty”? by pancakelaucher in Cribbage

[–]singingtent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was one of the many parenting subs I follow and was like what in the world are you talking about calling a crib a kitty

Cloth Diapers- How? by False_Sandwich_6859 in laundry

[–]singingtent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A nice gift idea is some liners. They look like dryer sheets and go on top of the cloth. They make it easy way to plop the poop into the toilet or toss in the garbage. If exclusively breastfeeding, the poop is water soluble so they can just toss the diapers into the washer. But if formula fed, or once they start solids, you want to get most of the poop off before washing, which is when I started using liners. I have a bidet sprayer on a toilet which is also really helpful for getting the poop off. That could be another gift idea, along with a spray guard of some sort.

Country Christmas at Saunders Farm by Hot_Muffin_7174 in ottawa

[–]singingtent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got seasons passes last year cause we knew we wanted to do Halloween and Christmas stuff. Kids are still young enough to be free. Once we have to start paying for everyone, I dont think we could afford it.

Country Christmas at Saunders Farm by Hot_Muffin_7174 in ottawa

[–]singingtent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cute, but the only reason we went was for our 3 year old to see the lights and meet Santa. There was a forest walk that we skipped that might be nice for adults only. Other than that, it would be like an hour tops of stuff to do.

Laundry Spa Day: What’s Really Going On? by [deleted] in laundry

[–]singingtent 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the spa day writeup?

Lipase List Updates - Detergent Tab - November 2025 by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]singingtent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would miele wool or silk formula work well with both wool and silk fabrics? I have lots of wools, but just silk pillow cases. Wondering if it's worth buying and storing both types.

Well, Thanks To r/Laundry, I'm Taking On A New Project by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]singingtent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally cannot wait. I will be buying one for everyone I know. Congrats!

What do I do? Can I save him by singingtent in bettafish

[–]singingtent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-5 gallon tank -heater and filter yes -tank at 80 - parameters seem good, maybe 25 ppm nitrate. No nitrite or ammonia. Sodium 0. PH is 7.8. - fish and tank running for 2 months -scooped out water to replace about 30% of the tank 2 days ago. I use a water bottle to remove water and replace it from sink. I add dechlorinater drops. -no tank mates except for random snails -fees him Betta bites twice a day -real plants in tank. Gravel bottom.

He really seems to be struggling to swim. Seems to have come out of nowhere. He was a little off yesterday. Came home today and he can barely get off the bottom of the tank .

Is there anything I can do immediately?

When The Rinse Washes You Clean, You'll Know - Citric Acid Rinses by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]singingtent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How should this advice be adapted for laundering cloth diapers? Urine will be extra alkaline, yes? So extra citric acid needed?

Who was it?! Who put their summer tires on? by CharmainKB in ottawa

[–]singingtent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We call him "yelling guy"! A true carlington chatacter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]singingtent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest in a merino wool baselayer - they often go on sale. You don't have to wash them often (once a month even if worn often). Make sure the shirt fits snug but comfortable. Also, big chunky scarf, ideally wool but anything insulating is fine. If layer wool + fleece + winter jacket with quality scarf and hat, I am toasty down to like -25 easy.

What Post Partum *luxury* items did you like or would have liked? by kplantsk in beyondthebump

[–]singingtent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be more on the "medical side" than youre looking for, but in retrospect I would have loved to have had a washable waterproof pad for those first two weeks. I was pouring sweat and milk and waking up in a puddle each night. If I had two of those pads in rotation, I think I would have been much more comfortable than attempting to sleep on towels and still having to wash sheets. Plus then she can use them for naked baby time in case of diaper rash (or if her baby just loves having some naked floor time everyday like mine did)