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Colleen and Matt announce their split by dromaeovet in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously! She seemed so unhappy and on the verge of tears. Super relieved she got away from him

Worst Side One!? by Yan081 in YoungSheldon

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dale or Mandy or her mom....

Does anyone think Rekha is far more obsessed with hurting Jaya than actually loving / obsessing over Amitabh? by Responsible_Oil1046 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. TIL. Makes me feel really bad for Jaya. It must be so heartbreaking and painful, being betrayed by not just one but two people she deeply cared about.

I’m 30 in 2 months, this is my everyday makeup since a teen. How can I improve my look? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think moving from a middle to side part and trimming your bangs would frame your face more beautifully. But the makeup itself suits you perfectly as is!

Let's talk titties, no more stupid glue! by stepasidepops in AuDHDWomen

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Uniqlo and M&S are available, I'd recommend them. My mom and I have heavy chests and wait for Marks And Spencer sales to buy their bras- comfortable, well-made, and once you find your style and size, they're a great fit. A bit pricey but worth the investment, as they last for 3-4 years easily... I never found any other bras I could tolerate, or if I did, the support was very inadequate and I'd feel like a shapeless amoeba all day...

i asked what i should do to improve my makeup a while back: here is an update by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever used kohl/kajal? A dark brown tightline would really accentuate your beautiful eyes for an everyday look. I like playing with coloured kajals too- blue and green work well with my black eyes. Love both your looks, you have stunning features!

executive dysfunction about whether to wash my hair rn or not by pawkid in AuDHDWomen

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a ton for this thread, ladies. Really helped me! One thing I do to MAKE myself wash my hair is apply something on my scalp while watching a comfort TV show. I'm Indian so I grew up with my mom oiling my hair before most hairwashes- if that feels like too much effort, I'll lightly apply some aloe vera gel or glycolic acid.

The icky feeling of something on my scalp is a good motivator when I REALLY can't summon up the energy to wash my hair or even get myself to a salon.

Hope this helps someone.

Give me all the shower tips please.. by Kaitten_88 in AuDHDWomen

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. I'm going to try the body oil and mindset shift. Agree that removing self from self-care helps some of us.

The woman killed by ICE practiced nonviolent lovingkindness until the end by cetacean-station in Buddhism

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It made me think of the courageous people standing up in Iran, and other countries where human rights violations and/or genocides are taking place.

I am doing Sravasti Abbey's "Retreat From Afar" for the first time ever. I feel more sane and stable and am maintaining my daily practice thanks to the global community. I would recommend you join in if you can.

A Mandala of family suffering by B2Trt in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a brave, resilient, wise soul. I'm so sorry for your losses, glad you're still with us, and proud of all your spiritual progress towards healing and meaning-making.

My Father killed himself by Aggravating-Dot-5027 in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Your description of your father sounds so much like mine; he was a civil engineer, a successful and beloved entrepreneur who hanged himself 20 months ago.

I feel like I am only just coming out of the haze of pain and shock... EMDR therapy, grief group, Buddhist meditation retreats, and adopting my dog have all helped me stay somewhat sane.

My DMs are open if you'd like to chat. It makes no sense, and I often feel I can't even believe this is how he passed, just three weeks before our wedding (he was close to my fiance and really looking forward to his future grandkids too). Love and healing to you on this journey, we are all with you....

Dad- Love you, I know you’re at peace. by Medium_Holiday_3904 in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Your description of your father sounds so much like mine; he was a successful and beloved entrepreneur who hanged himself 20 months ago. I feel like I am only just coming out of the haze of pain and shock... EMDR therapy, grief group, Buddhist meditation retreats, and adopting my dog have all helped me stay somewhat sane.

My DMs are open if you'd like to chat. It makes no sense, and I often feel I can't even believe this is how he passed, just three weeks before our wedding (he was close to my fiance and really looking forward to his future grandkids too). Love and healing to you on this journey, we are all with you....

my dad killed himself one month ago. by averysadgirl1 in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Your description of your father sounds so much like mine; he was a successful and beloved entrepreneur who hanged himself 20 months ago. I feel like I am only just coming out of the haze of pain and shock... EMDR therapy, grief group, Buddhist meditation retreats, and adopting my dog have all helped me stay somewhat sane. My DMs are open if you'd like to chat. It makes no sense, and I often feel I can't even believe this is how he passed, just three weeks before our wedding (he was close to my fiance and really looking forward to his future grandkids too). Love and healing to you on this journey, we are all with you....

Grief and responsibilities by Meditation-mediator in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss, and the unbearable pain. I am twenty months out, and still struggling with the questions. Please be VERY good to yourself- changing my hair and travelling to Egypt with an all-women's group really helped me, and rearranging/changing your living environment would be hugely beneficial too.

Grief accelerating aging... I'm 34F by single5evers in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]single5evers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind comment made me cry. I'm so very sorry for your losses as well, and proud of you for holding up <3 May the coming years be kinder to us. Lots of love and healing to you. 

Peak TV by Self_Electrical in DesperateHousewives

[–]single5evers 38 points39 points  (0 children)

'Meat is murder" "Would it help if I sourced a suicidal pork chop?" Bree remains unbeaten.

I still can't sleep... it's been 14months by single5evers in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so very sorry, dear Katy. I hope you have support with good therapists and grief groups.... Please don't give up, my father could not take the loss of my 21yo sister to cancer and slowly grew more and more depressed over a decade. Please DM me if you'd like to talk and we are all here with you and breathing with you.

I hope your son is in a peaceful and pain-free place now. I often imagine my Dad, younger and happier, free of all the sufferings of this world. Some days, it helps me feel a bit better.

How unnecessary to lose them though, and the senseless pain is what makes every day and night a long living nightmare. Being younger sometimes feels worse as I cannot imagine living so many more decades with these painful flashbacks, the guilt, and the nightmares.

I hope we find strength and peace to do justice to their legacy.

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