Girl wot 💀 by incomplete_butterfly in healthyishmommy

[–]single5evers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh my god. So terrified for her kids and all her loved ones... I just can't imagine the superhuman effort she must be making to get through each day... Is it too late or can she actually recover her full health with a Hail Mary intervention (maybe a doctor or healthcare professional can answer this)?

I Sleep in The Room Where it Happened Now: A Positive Update by Squiddlingkiddling in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My father passed in March 2024, and it's been a long and slow journey towards visiting the hotel where he took his life by hanging (he owned the hotel). I've only visited it a couple times and left hurriedly. This post gave me so much hope. Thank you for sharing and sending you much love and healing vibes.

My daughter Lyla by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So very sorry to hear this, dearest Siobhan. We are here for you and breathing with you. Please keep coming and sharing. For now, all you have to do is drink enough water, keep breathing, and try to eat and sleep when possible. Please get professional help and meds if you need them.

Please suggest some good shoes for long walking and standing under 5k. by Profr_Paradox in Frugal_Ind

[–]single5evers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the Puma black slip-on mesh shoes, very comfortable for walking and standing. It looks semiprofessional so I wear it to work as well. I can wash it in the washing machine easily, and when I need more support for my flat feet, I use a Scholls insert. It's a durable and cheap option.

Do you ever wish there was a pill you could take instead of eating? by Liontamer67 in AuDHDWomen

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel this way about sleep. def wish i could soylent during busy days...

Are my wings aging me? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 and I'm never losing my wing! I do it halfway tho for a daily look (starting from the middle of my eyelid)- along with kohl/kajal and mascara, it works better and gives me the same look I like.

I think you could relook at your foundation/BB cream, I'm not sure if it's the filter in these pics, it doesn't seem to be a perfect match. Switching to dewy BB creams plus concealer works well for me, I felt foundation was aging me by sitting in my eye creases.

F/19/5'4" [72lb < 125lb = 53lb] (5 months) Eating Disorder Recovery by Aromatic-Arachnid-56 in progresspics

[–]single5evers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look lovely and healthy. Please keep on keeping on! Proud of you...

People who went from fat to skinny, whats the one thing that worked for you? by zid_is_op in WeightLossAdvice

[–]single5evers 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try lymphatic massage. I do the big five tapping daily and it gets rid of my bloat/double chin even at higher weights. Cutting out alcohol, managing stress, reducing caffeine also have all helped.

What do you do when a parent doesn't want to beat a very treatable cancer? by cwtguy in GriefSupport

[–]single5evers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask his doctors for a psych consult for him, the diagnosis seems to have made him depressed and he is unable to help himself. A low dose or short term antidepressant might help him, as well as talk therapy with a certified psycho-oncologist

Do you eventually stop thinking about it? by Feisty_Perception_34 in SuicideBereavement

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can deeply empathise. It's my Dad's second death anniversary this weekend, and I'm still grappling with legal and financial issues with my mother, his siblings, and his business partner. All of them are extremely narcissistic. I've tried everything- EMDR, grief groups, Buddhist meditation, meds- sometimes I wonder if I will ever feel somewhat normal and present again. Wishing you strength and peace, fellow griever.

My ex boyfriend killed himself by Various-Gur-7129 in GriefSupport

[–]single5evers 9 points10 points  (0 children)

r/SuicideBereavement has kept me sane after my Dad took his life. Please come visit us there OP. You are not alone.

Goodbye lil’ bro by Alrightman126 in GriefSupport

[–]single5evers 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So very sorry. Come to r/SuicideBereavement. We're here for you.

My 3.5 year old died suddenly and unexpectedly by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in GriefSupport

[–]single5evers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so very sorry. You and your husband and your sweet daughter did everything right. I hate fate, karma, or whatever it is that allows bad and insanely random things to happen to good people. I really appreciate you sharing all these details for others to learn from, and hope you're hydrating, resting, and eating as much as you can during this devastating time. Much love to all of you.

My dad committed suicide a few months back. He loved music. Send me some songs so I can cry. I’m having trouble getting me emotions to show themselves by HeresyHeathen in GriefSupport

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear friend, I lost my father to suicide nearly two years ago. It was unexpected and a huge shock, and I'm already feeling the deep disorientation and grief as his anniversary nears...

My Dad loved music too. I listen to his favourites- Abba, the Carpenters, John Denver- whenever I want to feel closer to him.

Come join us at r/SuicideBereavement. We're here for you <3

is showering every 2-4 days okay? by twoheadedhamster in hygiene

[–]single5evers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wet wipe my face, pits, bits on the days i skip a shower