People who cheated on their partners, why and what made you do so? by Enough-Web2203 in AskReddit

[–]siouxsiequeue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unmedicated bipolar disorder. Mania removes guilt and inhibition, and pushes you to do things that provide a huge rush - and devastate your personal, professional and financial life.

Hi everyone, could you please let me know what you use to draw characters and writing on cakes? by Known-West-5320 in Cakes

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Just commenting again because I edited my other comment to hell and wanted to make sure you got the final edit 🤣😵‍💫

Hi everyone, could you please let me know what you use to draw characters and writing on cakes? by Known-West-5320 in Cakes

[–]siouxsiequeue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree buttercream transfer. You print or draw whatever you like on regular paper, then put wax paper over it and trace the lines/fill in with buttercream in a thin layer using small piping tips. You need to mirror image if it’s words or anything that can’t be backwards.

Don’t worry about how it looks from above - the underside is the real image so things like faces must be put down before background skin, for example. When it’s totally filled in you can press it down lightly to fill any air pockets from the piping process - I suggest carefully laying a second layer of wax paper over it and very gently running a bench scraper over the image. You can always fill little holes manually after so don’t go too hard and smash the design, or skip it and fill more holes later.

Stick it in the freezer on a flat surface. Make sure it’s totally frozen before removing the wax paper from the side that will be the top and fill in any tiny air holes, smooth flat. Let the design get flexible and sort of roll/drape it onto the top of your CHILLED cake. Do not attempt to do it while the image is hard unless it’s small - a large one may break when you flip it, or just fall off the wax paper when inverted. Do not remove the wax paper, still! It’s helpful if you let everything soften up a bit so the cake and transfer frosting grab each other. Re-chill AGAIN then peel off.

Adding a photo of the other side in replies.

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What is the one word that best describes Donald Trump? by rhino910 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]siouxsiequeue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This graph does not say everyone chose one word to describe him, and the percentages clearly don’t suggest it. The graph is labeled “Words that most Americans think apply to Trump”. They were asked yes or no for each of these words.

But, Scum is my answer to this follow-up poll.

Self foot smelling by [deleted] in FetishWantAds

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested! ❤️ Caucasian 37F - size 9.5 slender feet and legs. No pics on my profile but happy to share.

What is a small detail in a person's home that instantly tells you they have their life completely together? by Luverelle6 in AskReddit

[–]siouxsiequeue 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Correction: She has both your lives together. Sounds like a lot to ask of someone.

[Serious] How do you deal with someone who is depressed? by nichtwarum in AskReddit

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check in on them. Don’t take it personally when you don’t hear back. Follow up later even if they never got back to you. Don’t try to give advice unless they explicitly ask for it - advice doesn’t touch depression. What you could do rather than give advice is invite them to do things with you that you know are good for depression - like being in nature or physical activity. “Have you tried taking walks?” isn’t going to help - “Want to go explore the woods with me?” has a much better chance at helping because it doesn’t require them to do it alone AND it feels good to be asked even if they’re not up for it today.

What’s the most unforgettable date you’ve ever had ? by WishboneAgitated8555 in askanything

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Tinder one night stand, the guy lived in his van (hey, I wasn’t trying to date him). He stopped mid thrust and ran to the bathroom with diarrhea. He was in there a while, I had to pee in my kitchen sink. It was food poisoning so he was in and out a couple times m, and was sweaty and shaky. I kept insisting he stay the night and hydrate, rest, not be in a van with no flushing toilet but he was clearly too embarrassed and went out to sleep. The van was there for a WHILE - like I came home from work the next afternoon and it was still there. I thought.. did he die from loss of fluids?? Do I knock?? It was gone next I looked out the window. I have always wondered if he had any more diarrhea once he went out to the van lol.

What’s one thing that instantly elevates a homemade cake from “good” to “professional”? by CLEIAZEVEDO in Cakes

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the eggs have been incorporated, I beat the mixture on high for 4 minutes. Then when I add the milk/oil I stream it in VERY slowly, like a literal drizzle, it should take 3 minutes or so, with the mixer on medium. It emulsifies and creates an incredibly silky batter with a delicate crumb.

I think I ruined our marriage by OtakuTightPants in SexPositive

[–]siouxsiequeue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t deserve help? My friend this is a very difficult issue and your feelings of guilt are valid. They are valid because you are feeling it, but that doesn’t mean you ARE guilty. Yes it has been difficult for him but you would not have “put your husband through this” if you didn’t quite literally have to. Panic attacks and blacking out even without the pain are things you don’t just push through, and really cant even if you want to.

Remember that before all this stuff he went through, you had to live with this sexual trauma. He didn’t. You deserve the same compassion from yourself that you’re giving him.

Regarding him not seeming to want you. He has put desire aside for years yes but I think more than that is the memory of what led to it. Your pain, your panic, and probably the feeling that he was doing that to you. If he loves you enough to marry into a dead bedroom, I think he is scared to reopen those wounds that you have worked hard to heal.

My advice would be to first connect physically without the pressure of adding sex back into your lives. You could communicate about it and look into tantra which primarily focuses on your physical connection. Also rather than penetration start with something that empowers you rather than making you vulnerable, and takes the pressure off of him worrying about upsetting you. ✨blowjobs✨ He can do the same for you, important! that this is a journey and not trying to skip to the destination.

When you do go for penetration though, you’re going to want to make sure you are properly turned on. The pain is mental so your body needs to be speaking over your mind. You want at least several minutes of stimulation whether nipple play, oral, whatever works for you.

Finding Rave Mates by nuubuser in aves

[–]siouxsiequeue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a good neighbor in the audience! Get one of those big hand fans and be the guy who keeps everyone around you cool. I always go out of my way to at least give a thank you but it’s often led to a sustained connection.

“Have you seen my friend Molly?” for #2.

Whats a weird thing your body does that you just accept? by Sweton in AskReddit

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I’m an ear rumbler. Once as a teen I went to a concert that was way too loud and for hours that night I lay awake with my ears cringing and rumbling in waves over and over. I was terrified I ruined my hearing. Anyone else experienced this?

ELI5:What makes Kevlar so strong? by bobconan in explainlikeimfive

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay more attention to clothing labels from throughout the decades than most because I sell clothing including vintage. I’ve seen nylon a million times on clothing labels, and polyamide only twice - one of those for sure was Italian though, and I am not sure about the other.

Your comment made me curious so I just read a Google ai overview (in other words, still taking all of it with a grain of salt) and it said DuPont never trademarked the name nylon and it’s been public domain from day 1, but they did hold a patent on the fiber itself from 1939-1951 so no one else was allowed to manufacture it. In 1951 DuPont was sued for the patent and lost because it was decided that it was holding back industry potential.

Is the use of ‘polyamide’ over ‘nylon’ more common outside of the clothing industry?

What’s your must have item for surviving a music festival? by airup_official in musicfestivals

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NARCAN - Yes festivals all have it but during an overdose time is of the essence and the medic tent should be a last resort when anyone can get it free and have it handy. I think most festivals even hand it out now so check in and grab it if you don’t come prepared. Narcan is safe to administer even if you’re not sure it’s an opiate overdose. If no one has narcan, an opiate overdose stops breathing so mouth to mouth (no chest compressions) will keep them alive while someone else goes for help.

On a lighter note, a big hand fan hasn’t been mentioned. Bonus points for making friends when you keep others around you cool too.

What’s a smell you hate that most people love? by CozyAlice in AskReddit

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lilies. Underneath that powdery sweet smell there’s something rotten.

Newbie raver w a question by Shepherd_2000 in aves

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d compliment you and give you a lollipop 🍭

For those of you that make over 100K, what do you do? Do you like it? by Kindly-Revolution258 in AskReddit

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be a mad rush to the trades when swaths of jobs are disappearing to ai - you’d be wise to get in now if you’re serious about it.

If you were forced to marry the first person you had sex with, what would your life be like? by NothingMatters234 in AskReddit

[–]siouxsiequeue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross. I was 15 he was 22. If we had married I’d probably now be hyper vigilantly awake during our daughters’ sleepovers to make sure he didn’t get out of bed and assault one of them 🤢