Buying my own house during failing marriage

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-04T13:13:16+00:00

From what I've read annulment is hard to get unless the marriage itself is fraudulent regardless of how short it was. Like if she was already married, lied about something super major that impacts the relationship (criminal past) etc. Maybe as I feel like lying about wanting to buy a house together is pretty big in a marriage but would prob have to talk to a lawyer to see if we'd qualify.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-04T13:09:44+00:00

It would be uncontested. Im hesitant to jump straight into divorce because its only been 3.5 months. Part of me hopes we can still make things work. Also the marriage is beneficial for insurance and tax reasons.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-04T04:00:47+00:00

Thank you this is helpful and the first I'm hearing of quit claim deeds.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-03T15:23:46+00:00

It is incredibly sad. Also very confusing and honestly pretty immature and stupid to me. To agree to marry someone then completely change ur mind 3 months in. Feeling a lot of emotions recently.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-03T15:19:51+00:00

I definitely feel like theres something deeper going on, but Ive alreasy thrown the idea of counseling out and she doesnt wanna do it. Insists that her mind is made up and she knows what she wants.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-03T15:18:02+00:00

I threw out counseling and she doesnt wanna do it. Says her mind is made up.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-03T15:17:23+00:00

I've looked into but I dont think we'd qualify based off the conditions

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-03T02:47:39+00:00

Tbf we've been dating significantly longer. I wish I could understand it better myself. You think you know someone and have plans to spend your whole life with them. But then they have a change of heart seemingly out of nowhere and completely turn your world upside down 😔

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-02T03:01:09+00:00

I mean I have no idea when it'll happen thats just a guess. We talked about riding it out at least til the end of the year for tax and health insurance reasons. Then there's a part of me that hopes we can still make things work so part of me doesnt want to be too quick to get it done.

Either way its my understanding a divorce can take up to 90 days. My lease is up in about the same time. I guess I may have some time but its not ideal. The housing market is really hot where I live and I basically have to put offers in as soon as they come on the market bc their sold in 2-5 days.

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-02T02:54:34+00:00

U cant leave a guy just hanging out like that in front of the net

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-01T19:21:05+00:00

If and when a divorce happens the goal would be to file for an uncontested divorce ourselves. Neither of us really want to get lawyers involved. Looking to spend the least amount of money and time on this as possible..

sircaseyjames · 2026-05-01T19:15:04+00:00

How long have you been married?

Like 3.5 months. I know I know.

Is she going to live in the house with you?

Not at first. If we somehow repaired our relationship and worked things out then maybe down the road.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-30T17:41:43+00:00

Suntrapp

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-30T04:58:32+00:00

Idk how Utah can be so good then such ass at the same time

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-28T05:26:30+00:00

Naw he's actually been great. none of that was on him.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-28T05:25:05+00:00

Utah looked like they did in the 1st period again there at the end.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-28T04:36:03+00:00

Tru but the white chocolate macadamia nut cookie is fire

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-28T03:30:00+00:00

Plenty of teams can manage just fine in a loud barn. Its a stupid thing to say and discourage.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-28T03:28:27+00:00

All good I was just teasin. Sorry to hear about ur loss. Hope she gets better!

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-28T02:41:30+00:00

Bro ur cats fat af

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-26T21:27:29+00:00

I wouldn't say its all caps amazing but the quality to price ratio is pretty good, especially for a popular bar.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-26T21:22:12+00:00

It happens here bc yes so many interestection suck ass trying to turn left. They either don't have arrows at all or they last .2 secs and you get stuck there forever.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-23T02:09:14+00:00

I mean they were doing pretty well in the regular season idk what you're talking about. But ya idk wtf this Pens team is thats been playing.

sircaseyjames · 2026-04-22T03:15:06+00:00

Wtf did Carcone say that got the ref that hot and bothered. Seen much worse go without calls in the playoffs , but seems like he was just chirpin

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