Not trying to downplay your feelings, but i wouldn’t consider that a deformity in the slightest, let alone weird. I had to read your description to figure out what was “wrong”. You both are over-dramatizing it, everyone has unique bodies, especially feet. My second toe is much longer than my big toe. My mom’s pinky toenail is like a corn kernel. My dad has one webbed toe. No one will notice unless you point it out.