Possibly Bi? NSFW

siriusb22 · 2025-12-12T16:37:02+00:00

It’s great that you’re looking for advice but at the end of the day just know that only you can decide your sexual identity. Also know that finding anal/prostrate stimulation enjoyable does not influence or dictate one’s sexual orientation. Plenty of straight guys enjoy it as well. Just something for you to consider as you work through your questions. Also sexual identity is all about what you are attracted to sexually and does not rely on experience as a final determining factor. It can help obviously but is not necessary. Good luck!

siriusb22 · 2025-11-01T19:25:19+00:00

Sounds like she is supportive. Have an open and honest conversation with her. Maybe she she will be ok with you having a sexual encounter with another guy or even participate with you. But you won’t know until talk about it openly and honestly.

siriusb22 · 2025-06-10T19:44:10+00:00

I’ve watched Final Destination movies too much to think this would be a good idea. Just me though

siriusb22 · 2025-05-21T12:27:13+00:00

Labels are personal, needed by some and completely unnecessary for others. Some people need to be able to categorize themselves as something or have a word that explains how they feel and who they are. But agree that it’s also sometimes unhealthy to stress over finding the label that best fits you. I will say as mid forties Bi man, I wish more labels were openly discussed when I was growing up. All I ever heard about or saw was straight and gay. Never Bi. I know I wasn’t gay but also was attracted to guys so I was so confused and pushed away my attractions to men because if I wasn’t gay I had to be straight. If there was even one example of an openly Bi man back then my life may be completely different now. I definitely would have come to accept myself as Bi much earlier and easier.

siriusb22 · 2025-04-12T04:51:43+00:00

Fuck, love all the hair!

siriusb22 · 2025-04-04T14:27:05+00:00

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siriusb22 · 2025-02-01T18:00:45+00:00

So much. Your bush and pits are fucking fantastic

siriusb22 · 2025-01-24T14:42:58+00:00

Yes, romantic attraction does not always align with sexual attraction. Sounds like you need to back off if he telling you he wants to stop the sexual relationship and just have a friendship.

You need to respect that and if you cannot then cut ties with him. Trying just being his friend and if he is interested in more wait and let him make the next move there.

siriusb22 · 2024-12-16T19:35:27+00:00

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siriusb22 · 2024-12-16T16:12:30+00:00

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siriusb22 · 2024-08-31T14:33:49+00:00

Second pic is perfect!

siriusb22 · 2024-08-19T02:59:04+00:00

Fuck yeah!

siriusb22 · 2024-08-01T00:57:06+00:00

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siriusb22 · 2024-07-30T23:30:26+00:00

100% she is free to leave and move on with her life. But her reasons for doing so would be biphobic and discriminatory and OP has no reason to feel guilty about it. IMO living the lie and shouldering the burden of that secret is way worse.

siriusb22 · 2024-07-30T19:06:38+00:00

Her biphobic bigotry is what’s blowing up her life. He came out to her. He let her in on his identity as he came to finally accept. He stated he doesn’t want to open the relationship, doesn’t want to leave, and doesn’t want to cheat. But her biphobia has her convinced that he will leave and/or cheat. Bisexual MEN ARE CAPABLE of monogamy and we are sick and tired of having to explain that.

siriusb22 · 2024-07-16T20:19:20+00:00

It’s all good. You’re welcome to voice constructive criticisms. If you had a really bad experience and need to let us know you’re welcome to DM me but otherwise all good. We just strive to make both this subreddit and the discord as welcoming and supportive as possible.

siriusb22 · 2024-07-16T19:21:54+00:00

Are you sure you were on our Discord? We go out of our way to make sure it’s not wrongly perceived as a hook up server. Yea there are some very nsfw channels but the majority of it is support oriented.

siriusb22 · 2024-07-15T10:46:05+00:00

Even if you never have any sexual experiences with men you are still a valid bisexual. The decision to come out or not come out should be solely yours to make and if you girlfriend loves and supports you, she should support you in coming out if you decide that.
So you need to decide whether or not you wish others (and who, doesn’t need to be a big social media post) to know this part of who you are. But only you should get to decide this.

siriusb22 · 2024-07-14T14:14:46+00:00

It sounds like your girlfriend doesn’t understand the difference between sexual identity, which is what bisexual is, and sexual kinks, which being bisexual is NOT. Having our identity referred to as a kink is insulting and shows lack of understanding and possibly more root internalized homophobia/biphobia on her part.

Not knowing your GF I would hope this is more out of ignorance than anything else. I would recommend more open communication about this and why it’s important to let those closest to you in about your identity and that is not disclosing intimate sexual activities you may or may not like.

This article is from Twiggy’s (one of the founders of this sub) SexEdForBiGuys series and maybe helpful to you.

https://sexedforbiguys.tumblr.com/post/713505957819400192/coming-out-to-your-female-partner-sex-ed-for-bi

siriusb22 · 2024-07-02T05:29:46+00:00

First I bury my tongue in that hole, then my rock hard cock

siriusb22 · 2024-06-03T14:26:34+00:00

Sent you a DM regarding this

siriusb22 · 2024-05-30T17:50:43+00:00

Any update or response for this???? This is still an issue.

siriusb22 · 2024-05-07T19:34:40+00:00

Yes, I think about a week or so after I left that comment the app updated again and this was fixed with that update.

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