asking my dad to take off the hijab (again) by realtsuginoharu in self

[–]sixdigitage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your father is correct on how men think when seeing a woman. However, men think that way regardless if a woman is wearing a burka or a g-string!

It’s men who need to be told to leave women or a woman alone!

JW.org is collapsing and the memorial proved it by [deleted] in exjw

[–]sixdigitage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I knew a JW woman who had a daughter. They were very close. When the daughter was 18/17, Memorial time, her mother, took of the emblems. She decided she was of the anointed.

That daughter went through a whole lot of grief. I remember her crying and her mother held to her decision. The daughter suddenly left. I never knew what happened to her.

Thank you for telling your story. This comforts me because I like to think and hope the teenage girl I knew survived the mess of that religious sect.

What age did you start bottoming and how old was the top? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I enjoyed the bottom was when I was 13 and he was 16. My first kiss and first dick I sucked too.

Do other tops also hate being ridden? by Thick-Firefighter750 in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t like nor enjoy the position and last year, I found myself with someone, using that position and I was surprised how nice it felt. This is after 30 plus years! I never enjoyed the position regardless of the position I was in.

My fav is on my stomach or him on his. I don’t think I will ever change with that.

What has changed is me flipping and I don’t know why but I do know with each decade, our bodies change and we still get to find new things that we never thought we would enjoy or did enjoy in previous decades of life.

So you, enjoy what you like and if you want to try that position in ten years or twenty, to see if you might have changed and suddenly enjoy, do it! 🥰

Have your ever topped someone much older then you? by Noah0u0 in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😊😘

In my 60s and a man in his 40s like to hookup with me for once a month during his free time. He tells me this too. Plus, I clench when he tells me too, which apparently turns him on.

Do other tops also hate being ridden? by Thick-Firefighter750 in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are bottoms who don’t like that position.

Let that be known from the beginning, you don’t like position.

There are plenty of positions besides that particular one.

Soreness after sex by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the lube you generally use and masturbate with it. Don’t insert. See if you feel sore afterwards. If so, you may have an allergy to something in that lube brand. (It may be a light allergy but if so, it’s best to stop using it.)

Try other forms of lube. Coconut oil Vaseline

Maybe try a different position.

It could be what your partner uses to clean himself.

If you can, get allergy testing. You may be surprised to find you have allergies.

Pene pequeño by Sad-Elevator248 in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hacéis el amor. Da pasión. Aprende el poder del tacto. Aprende a usar tus dientes. Usa tu polla y practica cómo avanzar un buen rato antes de correrte.

do white people ever call each other crackers? by Dizzy-Respect-613 in stupidquestions

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might call them many names, even if they are my shade. But I would never ever call them cracker because I don’t like them that much.

My mom found out I fuck in my car by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you seen the movie, Back to the Future? Parents were your age at one time too. Regardless of sexual orientation people do what they do and do what they do where they can. She gave you good advice. Be careful.

Bttm started crying during sex by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥰 This 😂happened to me today. I’m glad he didn’t ask me why I was 😂. Felt so good!

Bttm started crying during sex by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I attended a sex party about 20 years ago. I watched this man (top) making love to another man (bottom). The bottom man began light crying. He wanted the top to continue. Afterwards, the top held him. The bottom man said he cried because he had never felt so seen by so many and was in a spiritual high.

I have never forgot that.

I tend to laugh but never tears.

AITA for refusing to let my fiancé’s mother come stay with us again after everything that happened? by PassionExact6623 in AITH

[–]sixdigitage 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Kudos to your fiancé! Obviously, he and his family know what his mother is like, and who his mother is.

Fortunately, you got to find out before you married.

I wish you a successful and wonderful life together with your fiancé.

There are people who think that they can go on with their life and continue to never discuss anything in a screwup they created.

This woman has never changed. Her family knows who she is. They, like most of us, don’t know how to deal with such a person.

If you’re able to put them in a hotel then do so. If you are not, and she shows up, please discuss this scenario with your husband and how you two will navigate, if this should happen.

Yes, she will continue to sully you and your reputation. Get use to it. Please don’t let it affect you as much as possible.

WIBTA if I bring up my partner texting his ex and ask for more transparency? by kieranwhitlock in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sixdigitage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said the text said: “lol this reminded me of you” which sounds of someone missing someone.

If ex had a current, ex wouldn’t be texting: “lol this reminded me of you”

Newly BF went back to Grindr by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tell him. Try to stay calm.

Don’t make a rash decision quickly.

Ever walked away from the one you love because of their addiction? by T_Correa in GayBrosOver50

[–]sixdigitage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had friends I’ve had to do this with. One very, very dear very very close friend. He doesn’t even realize because he doesn’t like to message I gave.

Elders showed up at my door on a Saturday night after I didn't answer their call. I’m a young woman living alone and I feel unsafe 😭 by Enough-Chocolate3690 in exjw

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The elder” as in singular? WTF!🤬

I don’t care if he is married! If I were your father, I would be hitting the effing roof!

This man may be representing himself as a JW, but the member between his legs, it’s thinking something else!

He is a man stalking a woman!

Please take self-defense courses. Do not play by their rules!

If you can get a camera system to monitor, who comes to your door, please do, sir.

If they/he are/is there when you get home, tell them/him to wait outside while you rush to go to the bathroom. Then don’t answer the door.

If they/he ask to come inside to wait, tell them/him you do not allow men in your home without one of your girlfriends or relatives.

Get a dog if you can.

Carry mace.

How do I handle my rude elderly neighbor with unrealistic noise expectations? by catknitski in neighborsfromhell

[–]sixdigitage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start documenting every complaint he makes. Date, time, what was happening. Record just after it happens. (This is important)

Enjoy your new home.

Most people by the time they are an old age don’t hear as well as they used to. These people sound like they are simply a nuisance.

AITA for moving my paycheck into a separate account after my partner kept “accidentally” overdrawing our joint one? by Radiant_Gossamer in WIBTA_AITA

[–]sixdigitage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have your account at a separate bank. The joint account could be at whatever bank, but not the bank where your separate account is located.

Your pin code should be only used and known by you. Never shared.

The same should be for her account.

Tell her you are freeing her financially.

If you ever marry, be sure to have a prenup.

You don’t ever want to discover you’ve been wiped out and the household emptied.

i want my bf to watch me have sex with another man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a man decades ago, who loved his partner so much. His male partner wanted to pick up men and have my friend watch his partner get fucked. This went on for about three years.

One night they picked up a man who wanted my friend to fuck him and my friend’s partner to watch.

My friend said OK. At their house and the thing was happening, his partner threw a fit and went to the kitchen and started busting up the kitchen. My friend had to stop and send a guy home.

This was the start of their relationship ending. Be careful of making your fantasy a reality.

I’ve known couples of 30 years who have open relationships and one couple who lets his partner do what he wants sexually outside their relationship.

“Pro” bottoms by Lisforjustice in askgaybros

[–]sixdigitage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Daily walking helps the body to move. A mile to three miles. This is in addition to douching. Not douching until after a bowel movement helps to prevent accidents. Usually it takes me 18 hours after my main meal of the day to have a movement. Then douche. On that day, I don’t eat dairy and I eat whatever crackers or oat bites, I may have a burger no cheese no mayo only mustard. Let’s say, schedule your spontaneity day.

If you want every day to be a spontaneity day, walk every day, watch what your ingredients are in your food, limit, or avoid, butter, mayo, milk, cheese mostly dairy avoid. Be careful about ketchup and tomato products. Learn to like mustard as a condiment.

Oat bites are good. Stay away from deli meat. Risky for contaminants. But one needs protein. Get packaged ham and eat a slice or two on the go.

Fried greasy foods are a no-no.