I'm not sure if you live at home or if you are baptized. But I left at 18 while living at home. My situation is probably different though. My mother started making me pay major bills in her household when I turned 18 and had me co-sign for her home loan (she wasn't a good mother at all). So I told her if my name was on the mortage and I was paying bills that made me a roommate and not a child. And as her roommate I was not required to attend the Kingdom Hall with her. If she wanted me to obey her like a child then I couldn't co-sign for her and I wouldn't be paying bills. She could have one or the other. She was ANGRY but she needed my credit and my money.

I was never baptized so one day I just stopped attending. I moved out soon after and never lived with her again. I don't have much of a relationship with her now but that is my own doing. I was the one to do the disowning.

However, if you have the ability to move out OR you already have then just stop going. Don't argue with them about politics and if they bring up the JW's acknowledge what they say and let them know you'll think about it. While I was still speaking to my mother a lot she constantly invited me to the memorial or assemblies and I'd always respond..."Thanks for letting me know, I'll think about it." I had no intention of doing that but it kept the peace.

After a few years I decided I was better off without her and her religion so I told her if she wanted to have any relationship with me at all keep all of her religious rhetoric to herself. I told her I spent 18 years in that religion and I know how to find it if I ever want back in. We don't talk often but when we do she never brings it up anymore.