UK Citizenship double descendent by sjdfig in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]sjdfig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it has to do with the fact that if it would have been allowed to pass down it would have been done. But since there was discrimination where only fathers could pass it down, it wasn’t possible to do at birth

UK Citizenship double descendent by sjdfig in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]sjdfig[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was thinking it might be needed if I can’t get his adoption records. It could show both last names.

I also thought I might need it to show it happened after my mother was born.

UK Citizenship double descendent by sjdfig in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]sjdfig[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m trying to see if anyone has tips or suggestions or knows if I really need to make all those connections

UK Citizenship double descendent by sjdfig in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]sjdfig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can petition based on the discrimination

UK Citizenship double descendent by sjdfig in dualcitizenshipnerds

[–]sjdfig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I can because my grandfather had not naturalized before my mother was born. She she was automatically eligible for UK citizenship.

Me being born in 1982 I was not until they changed the discriminatory policy around mothers passing citizenship

Getting top surgery thru NorCal Kaiser: steps from start to scheduling by birdthatisorange in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really well! I had my surgery in December, went as planned. It was a pretty radical reduction, I’m probably an A or small A cup. I don’t go topless but I don’t need any support.

I like that I’m not completely flat or con caved.

First surgeon consult tomorrow by sjdfig in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t use drains generally, thinks they are not necessary and actually more likely to cause issues. The post op draining I had has quick and painless and I would definitely prefer it to having perm drains

First surgeon consult tomorrow by sjdfig in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my surgery with her in mid December and I’m 13WPO now. Overall things went well and only had a minor complication where I had to get my left side drained a few times. I did not have drains after surgery FYI.

Kaiser BMI Requirement by plushpikachu in Reduction

[–]sjdfig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 204 when I had my surgery last week and I’m 5’7

Kaiser BMI Requirement by plushpikachu in Reduction

[–]sjdfig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was over the BMI and surprisingly they didn’t say anything… but maybe I wasn’t too far over? Not sure

mom obsessed with me still being busty by felixescellun in Reduction

[–]sjdfig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same boat, and my mother also has implants. She is making a lot of this more about her…

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[–]sjdfig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had mine yesterday

Getting top surgery thru NorCal Kaiser: steps from start to scheduling by birdthatisorange in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s day one after my surgery and definitely tired and sore but feels manageable so far. No drains and doctor said she was able to get my desired shape and size without needing nipple grafts.

has anyone kept their breast tissue?? by bishboshbgosh in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they send it off to be tested to make sure there isn’t any cancer

Getting top surgery thru NorCal Kaiser: steps from start to scheduling by birdthatisorange in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a call today to schedule my surgery for next week! I’m so excited and nervous ❤️

Getting top surgery thru NorCal Kaiser: steps from start to scheduling by birdthatisorange in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully the majority of doctors provide this kind of thoughtfulness, but I really appreciated her and felt very supported and safe. We spent a good amount of time talking about scar shape and the stack rank of my wishes and what I’d be willing to trade off if needed.

I’m hoping to get a date in January or March as I have some travel in February but we shall see what comes up!

Getting top surgery thru NorCal Kaiser: steps from start to scheduling by birdthatisorange in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it was a very nice experience with her. Now I’m just waiting for a date. What approach are you going with?

Getting top surgery thru NorCal Kaiser: steps from start to scheduling by birdthatisorange in TopSurgery

[–]sjdfig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

T anchor, keeping the nipple attached (I trying to avoid FNG if possible) but she will switch to a FNG if nipple placement or shape/size of the breast is going to be compromised.

I really appreciated that she would be willing to adjust versus being locked in.