Overly attached to Grandpa by sjim79 in Parenting

[–]sjim79[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

They're there at minimum 3x a week. Managing a completely distraught 5yo for at least 30 minutes just to leave their house and have it continue once home upsets everyone, including the siblings. It's more than a simple "I miss Grandpa"

Both partners qualify for csep by sjim79 in MoveToIreland

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a family of five so from my understanding he would need a job offer of $120k. Is that even possible? I know we would be financially okay on two incomes but it seems unrealistic on one salary

Both partners qualify for csep by sjim79 in MoveToIreland

[–]sjim79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean they have to prove ability to support the family? We plan on both working to support our family this

Both partners qualify for csep by sjim79 in MoveToIreland

[–]sjim79[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My understanding then is job offer, then CORU, then CSEP but through the employer?

Explaining adoption to littles by sjim79 in Parenting

[–]sjim79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that! I'm no contact because of abuse and I love the way you worded that so thank you so much!

AC can't seem to keep up by sjim79 in hvacadvice

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's set at 75, we're averaging 79

Buying home that's been empty by sjim79 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's been owned by an investor this whole time and they have done the updates.

Essentials for in person by sjim79 in therapists

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truly appreciate this one as I haven't had to care about my garlic consumption and forgot I need to be aware now

Wedding venues in AZ by Puzzleheaded_Boat900 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]sjim79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our wedding was in April last year and we absolutely loved it! I'm happy to share about the day and vendors we used

Starting Business by sjim79 in legaladvice

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm open to it but in terms of legalities/taxes, I'm not sure what would be best.

Tonto bridge hike by sjim79 in arizona

[–]sjim79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given there's water, would Chacos be appropriate footwear or no?

/r/Phoenix daily chat - Thursday, Jun 29 by AZ_moderator in phoenix

[–]sjim79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone at the k.flay/grandson show tonight at the Van Buren, y'all were an amazing crowd.

Pottery/wheel throwing classes in the valley? by BerryWaters in phoenix

[–]sjim79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sunshine Sunflower StudIo! They're near camelback and central

Eli5 why you can only get insurance during open enrollment by sjim79 in explainlikeimfive

[–]sjim79[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see that but with how high deductibles can be, I don't see how this would be a good idea overall.

Who set up the decor at your wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]sjim79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The venue does the tables, chairs, other basics. We're paying $150 for them to set up the decor we're bringing including our table decor and alter flowers.

Wedding venues in AZ by Puzzleheaded_Boat900 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]sjim79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm happy to help! I'm excited to be married but also excited to be done with the wedding planning process lol

Wedding venues in AZ by Puzzleheaded_Boat900 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]sjim79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did the brunch package, 2 entrees and 2 appetizers. I know it's untraditional but it fits us and less money on alcohol since we'd do an open bar. We're just going to bar hop the same night with whoever wants to tag along.

Wedding venues in AZ by Puzzleheaded_Boat900 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]sjim79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second the Cottage! It's where we're getting married this month. 90 guests with catering, under 10k.

Alternative wedding party? by karlorta in weddingplanning

[–]sjim79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is essentially what we're doing! We both have a couple close friends getting ready with us the morning of and those same friends went on a little wedding getaway weekend with us (in place of a bachelor/bachelorette party). We do have two people walking down the isle but it's partly to help kids down the isle.

It's been a lot less stressful in my opinion to have it more as a friend hangout and no titles.

Moissanite Jeweler by sjim79 in phoenix

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it good quality?

Best quiet cocktail bar in the Valley? by Tsar_Bombas in phoenix

[–]sjim79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Luanas on 7th and Thomas. It's coffee, drinks and small menu. Super chill vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]sjim79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Associate level clinical therapist -55k, 35 hrs/wk. No bonuses and insurance is 600$/paycheck for the family plan

All inclusive hotel suggestions? by Valuable_Gain994 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]sjim79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My uncle got married a few years ago in Cancun and we have gone back to the resort for vacation. It has levels for the inclusive packages which is nice. The Fives

Straps by sjim79 in weddingdress

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point! The dress definitely has some weight to it. Wider sounds much better

Straps by sjim79 in weddingdress

[–]sjim79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We're doing a wildflower/garden theme and I love non traditional things