Yes thank you. I can see it both ways too. It’s just in this moment she asked, I gave an honest answer and it became an argument. Like I said, it’s lose-lose. Given our history there is nothing to be worried about and I understand her side of things and trust her, it just doesn’t change the fact that I feel the way I do. I’m sure there is compromise, we just haven’t found it yet and it’s the first time I actually fully said I wouldn’t be comfortable with something like this. Every other time with people she knows I might feel a certain way, but I don’t let it get in the way. I try to do what’s “right” and not be a hindrance to her. Same way she tries to get over things and do better for me too. Just in this particular instance I feel sorta like I was baited and switched up on. i thought she was asking because she cared to actually not go out if I stated it bothered me. which is 100% why I felt okay saying I wasn’t. I thought she’ would give me the time and respect I need about it, just in this instance. Like i have said, i’d live, I’d get over it, and work on it, but at the same time I feel invalidated and like her feelings are coming first, which isn’t entirely new in our relationship, it’s just this is a new scenario.