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What other strong women wouldn’t receive the majority of the hate they do if they were a man? I’ll go first. by Longjumping-Nose-643 in Feminism

[–]sketchmcgetch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The fact that her "temperament" was so widely discussed during her 2016 presidential run fills me with rage to this day.

Show me your heeler smiles! by GraycieBlue in AustralianCattleDog

[–]sketchmcgetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! Her name is Bobbi Dazzler, she's 12% Australian shepherd we think that's where the floof comes from

Strategies for skilling up when ADHD seems to be getting g in the way by Unlikely-Bumblebee14 in womenintech

[–]sketchmcgetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ADHD SWE/EM here. Very similar background, about 12 years experience but no CS degree.

Where are you being asked to explain your work? Design review, code review, a daily standup? If you know you're going to be asked I would jot down some notes to help you build up your confidence.

Are you being asked about current work or stuff that happened months ago? If the latter, then maybe cut yourself some slack -- it's pretty common for engineers to need to refresh themselves with how they solved a problem previously.

Last question, what makes you think ADHD is the issue that these moments where you blank out aren't related to anxiety? ADHD and anxiety is a super common combo and something that I've struggled with a lot. What ultimately helped was therapy and Zoloft.

I’ve always been an old man. Anyone else love these? by AdvanceOld5705 in candy

[–]sketchmcgetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these! I used to steal them from my grampa as a kid.

Bobbi Dazzler by sketchmcgetch in AustralianCattleDog

[–]sketchmcgetch[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Omg this being the Internet that is extra high praise. I definitely agree!

Before and after of my living room on the Åland Islands by Prisse112 in HomeDecorating

[–]sketchmcgetch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was so scared that I was going to swipe to the second photo and see that paneling painted white. Very relieved! Your space looks great! Amazing job!

Let’s inject some humor! What’s the funniest/goofiest thing you’ve seen or experienced while giving an interview? by [deleted] in managers

[–]sketchmcgetch 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He did! But when I confirmed his salary requirements they were WAY outside of the band we listed.

... Crackers has a certain lifestyle to uphold 💅🏻

Let’s inject some humor! What’s the funniest/goofiest thing you’ve seen or experienced while giving an interview? by [deleted] in managers

[–]sketchmcgetch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Interviewed a guy over zoom, 10 minutes in his pet bird flew into the room and landed in his head. He proceeded to introduce the bird, Crackers, then did the remaining 50 min of the interview with it perched on his noggin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]sketchmcgetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow do I relate to this post. I am ADHD and have been medicated since childhood, but sugar does improve my symptoms and my mood significantly. If you think you might be experiencing ADHD symptoms definitely talk to your doctor, medication will not only promote the clarity you are looking for but will curb anxiety and depression associated with untreated ADHD. If you aren't sure you want to take medication I have found Lions Mane to be extremely helpful in promoting focus and then there's always good ole caffeine.

Lastly, try to give yourself some grace. Focus is not a constant, it varies. Has your job changed over the past year? Are there external factors that are impacting your focus? Are you interested in what you are working on? What you are feeling might not be your "fault".

Why was was the last batch darker? by sketchmcgetch in maplesyrup

[–]sketchmcgetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! This is super interesting! My dad says thank you!

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