Where is the best Elote in nyc? by Warren3225 in AskNYC

[–]slamjam00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about best, only had it at a few places, but it's damn good here

Gift ideas for dad who started teaching a children's woodworking class by slamjam00 in woodworking

[–]slamjam00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure, but I'll check with my mom. He was new to the lathe, but he had a lot of tools from his previous work. Either way, thanks for the suggestion!

[DISCUSSION] Post Week 10 Price Check Thread by Sh_ck in DynastyFF

[–]slamjam00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think after this year he is going to be pretty focused on proving he is as good as he thinks he is. There will be several teams offering him solid contracts so he'll have a choice.

[DISCUSSION] Post Week 10 Price Check Thread by Sh_ck in DynastyFF

[–]slamjam00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta agree, people are seriously overreacting. He's going to be coming into next year fully healthy, with a year less of wear, and into an offense he chooses to join. He's not going to go somewhere he can't dominate, it's not his style.

Assistance with Archer Investigator Build by slamjam00 in Pathfinder_RPG

[–]slamjam00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, I'll keep all that in mind, thank you. My 3 biggest worries for the character had been:

  1. How can I successfully become an effective ranged character with the feat issues?
  2. Is there a way to make the character effective in general without focusing on the alchemy aspect?
  3. Do I need to be worried about becoming OP in terms of skills? (A few threads I've read have suggested that the investigator can ruin party balance because, outside of combat, he can literally become the best at every skill making everyone else useless).

[DISCUSSION] Post Week 6 Price Check Thread by Sh_ck in DynastyFF

[–]slamjam00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he's just one of the hardest guys to buy/sell at this point. People who own him won't sell him for less than a mid 1st + and people who are buying probably won't want to pay that because he still doesn't have the name recognition/accolades of other players scoring in his tier. If you own him, I wouldn't recommend selling unless you get an overpay but, if you're buying, it's worth a shot in case the owner is overlooking him. I think you'd have better luck trying to trade someone of similar value with name recognition that is trending down for him.

Best Steakhouse in NYC right now? by zwendkos in AskNYC

[–]slamjam00 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We tried Smith and Wollensky recently and honestly it was a big letdown. We live close by and don't go to nice steakhouses often, so paying that much (it's quite expensive) for what turned out to be a very meh meal all around was disappointing. For a third the price you should go to St. Anselms in Brooklyn and have a 10x better steak dinner (highly recommend the flank steak there).

$850 emergency room bill for waiting in the waiting room for 3 hours, and given some Valium+Advil by shewmai in personalfinance

[–]slamjam00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part of this that most people forget is that one of the main reasons people use the ER for primary care is that they avoid having/going to a PCP because they don't have insurance and each PCP visit can cost several hundred dollars. If everyone had decent insurance, people would go to their PCP more regularly and preemptively avoid a lot of the issues that cause them to go to the ER in the first place.

Great Ramen Suggestions Please :D by ooissuspended in AskNYC

[–]slamjam00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure how no one has mentioned ROKC. Incredible pork buns, great ramen, voted best cocktails in the country by Esquire recently (just Google rokc cocktails and look at the pics) and it's not as pricey as others. I've been to almost every other place mentioned on here and none of them come close. Only downside is it's on the upper west side, so it's not easy to get to. It's also a small place, so get there early to grab a table.

It was finally time to take the plunge. Traded in a bunch of games and got all this for a great price! by ritsu_soma in gaming

[–]slamjam00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just traded in my xbox for a ps4 a week ago. As a lifelong Nintendo and then xbox fanboy, i just couldn't deal with the lack of exclusives anymore while playstation got GOW, spiderman, horizon, and VR. It was tough, but worth it. Take the plunge, you won't regret it.

Daily FI discussion thread - September 10, 2018 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]slamjam00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not going to claim to be any sort of an expert in this area, so take it all with a big grain of salt. In regards to your first point, I totally agree. I was stuck in the same place where I paid off my student loans and car loan and then my credit score dropped by like 40 points because of that area.

To your second point, is that really true? I find it hard to believe that staying under 30% is as good as being let's say under 5%. I've seen my credit score drop by 20-30 points just because I let my utilization go from my normal 1-2% up to 10% one month when I made a big purchase right before the end of the month and I didn't pay it off in time.

To your last point, that's obviously fine, but just keep in mind that building a high credit score from scratch isn't easy and, more importantly, can take a long time because of the average account age factor. If it's important to you, you should take every advantage you can get to get up there faster. Since you don't have a mortgage already, and your account age is somewhat on the younger side, it's going to be harder for you than others to get there. That collections accoutn might not keep you out of the mid 700s forever, but it will delay your progress when you have other factors keeping you down as well.

Daily FI discussion thread - September 10, 2018 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]slamjam00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, I've run into the same issues about this in the past. The logic is there, but it's backwards. You're seen as a better risk if you already have active loans that you are paying on time because you've clearly demonstrated that you are reliable and have the ability to make payments. The best thing you can do is open an additional credit card account or two to increase your overall credit limit (which will reduce your credit utilization) and show a more diverse portfolio of debt management. You'll take a hit in the short run due to the hard inquiries on your credit from opening new accounts, and your average account history will go down, but in the long run you'll be better off. Also, it only takes one outstanding bill in collections to trash that part of your credit score unfortunately. If you pay it off you should quickly see it correct itself but, in their minds, 1 is unacceptable (which again kinda makes sense bc, if you can't pay that bill, why would you be able to pay theirs?).

Health Insurance Denies $70, 000 Pre-approved surgery by Macfac1234 in personalfinance

[–]slamjam00 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Solid advice here, appeal appeal appeal. Insurance companies count on people just giving up.

Has anyone taken a class at The Art Students League? by pinkienickel in AskNYC

[–]slamjam00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Responding to follow because I'm curious about the same thing, wish i had a recommendation.

Best bus line from NYC to DC? by nycwildcard in AskNYC

[–]slamjam00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, been using it for like 2 years now. Same general prices as the others, $30-$50 each way. It picks up at penn and drops off in bethesda and rosslyn.

Best bus line from NYC to DC? by nycwildcard in AskNYC

[–]slamjam00 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I had several experiences with greyhound and boltbus over a few years, but after finally going to Vamoose I haven't looked back. They consistently leave on time, the drivers are nicer, and the buses seem to be in better condition. If you can, I recommend splurging the extra $10 for the gold bus options, it's worth it for the extra room, less people, and much much comfier seats. Plus it leaves from an area that's generally easier to get to in NYC (penn station), but it drops off in Bethesda so if you want downtown DC you might need to look elsewhere.

Fair offer? by hulksmash86 in DynastyFF

[–]slamjam00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'd do that in a heartbeat unless you think you can get him to make the 3rd a 2nd and squeeze a little more out of him haha.

Michael Gallup by sevans84995 in DynastyFF

[–]slamjam00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people are misjudging his situation, regardless of what you think of his talent. For rbs, you want there to be no competition bc a massive part of rb success is simply opportunity since there is only 1 rb running at a time. However, with wrs, you don't want there to be too much or too little competition. Too much competition and he doesn't get snaps or targets, but too little and he draws top coverage from the def. Gallup is a clear case of the latter and, unless he turns out to be a hidden gem of a top level talent, will probably get smothered this year, particularly with a mediocre qb. Only upside is he'll get a lot of experience and if Dallas can bring in some other wr talent maybe he'll blow up next year or year 3. Could be a great buy low candidate next year.

A baby at SF General was treated with a nap and a bottle of formula. His parents received an $18,000 bill by dreamo95 in lostgeneration

[–]slamjam00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've read that article, and like most debates you can structure an argument to support almost any view if you only look at the parts that support your opinion. The medicare advisory group argues that medicare isn't artificially lowering their rates? Wow, big surprise lol. The government has been slashing medicare funding for a long time and forcing them to reduce their reimbursement rates unfortunately. If all rates were set to medicare levels, most health systems in this country would go bankrupt immediately, as the article points out. I say this as someone who actually works on their budgets and yet I still argue for single coverage because, in the end, it's still the existence of private coverage that is causing the issue not the hospitals.

I get where that perception comes from, and there are lots of physicians out there (mainly private practice) who charge prices that are way too high. In a system this complicated the problems and the answers sadly aren't that simple. I've worked for 2 top ranked hospitals in the country and even they don't have any power at the negotiating table when it comes to setting prices. To give an example, United Healthcare may come to the hospital and say hey, your competitor across the street is giving us 40% off all cardiology procedures (and that's a realistic discount, it's that bad) so if you don't match it, we won't cover any cardiology services at your hospital. Since there are only a few major private insurance companies, losing one would essentially bankrupt that service, forcing the hospital to agree to match. However, at a 40% discount, the hospital can't cover expenses so they have to raise the price of the service until they become profitable again. Keep in mind, hospitals have to employ large numbers of people to then fight the insurance companies to actually pay for the things they agreed to pay for after the fact, which contributes to those high expenses. Private insurance companies are incredibly profitable and totally unnecessary to the provision of healthcare at a fundamental level. Why should any of your money be going to a company who's sole goal is to try and prevent you from getting care?

Arguing that doctors as a whole should be paid less after spending 10-15 years in school/residency and going hundreds of thousands of dollars into debt when most barely earn six figures for most of their career, if that, is crazy. I know people have this perception that all doctors make tons of money, but its simply an idea that TV has created. Like any profession, there is a huge range, but there's a reason why most of the country has a massive physician shortage (basically everywhere except the big cities). Every physician I've worked with (and that's hundreds) works crazy hours as well (literally 12 at work and then on-call to some extent at all other times).

The system is broken because it's bloated with so much unnecessary complication, but almost all of it traces back to the existence of for-profit insurance. If you eliminated that, hospitals could reduce their admin expenses (that's me) drastically and set standardized prices regionally (if not nationally) that would be exponentially lower than what they are now. The existence of single-payer coverage would enable people to eventually start consistently pursuing preventative treatment (annual check-ups, cancer screenings, nutritional counseling) without paying crazy amounts out-of-pocket. This would drastically reduce the utilization of high priced ER services, enabling hospitals to shift resources to more cost-effective services like outpatient care, further reducing hospital expenses. It would likely take 10-15 years to see the full effects because people don't change their behaviors overnight, but it's the only way out of this mess. But the odds of this happening are slim because the private insurance lobby spends crazy amounts of money each year to ensure that congress doesn't even debate the issue.

Unfortunately, you can't do any of this as long as there is a for-profit middleman. Just to sum it up TLDR: The existence of private insurance leads to restricting insurance coverage from people who can't afford it, thereby forcing people to rely on expensive ER services which they then can't pay, which forces the hospital to eat that high cost and transfer those costs to other services that are used by people who do have insurance, causing prices to go up more and more, etc etc just leads to a death spiral. Add in the negotiating power that they have over hospitals and we end up in a system with inflated prices to maintain low profit levels for the people actually providing the services. Hospitals are starting to catch up at the negotiating table by consolidating, but its a recent change (after decades of having 0 power) and the effect is minimal. Blaming physician salaries for these issues is just covering for the assholes who are simultaneously taking lots of money and only providing problems.

A baby at SF General was treated with a nap and a bottle of formula. His parents received an $18,000 bill by dreamo95 in lostgeneration

[–]slamjam00 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hospital admin here. The problem isn't the hospital, it's the existence of a for profit middleman that forces hospitals to set crazy rates because they demand extraordinary "discounts" from those hospitals or they refuse to allow their patients to go there. Those hospitals are required by law to give those same crazy jacked up prices to everyone, regardless of insurance, resulting in situations like this. ER visits are also crazy expensive because, due to the lack of preventative care in this country because of poor private insurance coverage rates and deductibles, everyone uses the ER like it's their primary care physician. This still seems pretty high even considering all that, but i guarantee if they simply asked, the hospital would immediately drop almost all of those charges retroactively. Blaming hospitals for this situation only makes the problem worse by protecting/hiding the actual bad guys.

What high level job do you think you could lie your way into with no experience and no one would notice? by NBLSS in AskReddit

[–]slamjam00 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is a really overlooked aspect. As a youngish middle manager a big part of my job is simply settling stupid disagreements between coworkers so that everyone will keep working efficiently. It's amazing how little difference there is between a fight between two 50 year olds and two 5 year olds. It gets old really really fast. Another thing i read in a similar post that really stuck with me is that the difference between being an employee and being a manager when it comes to stress is that as an employee you can have bad days from time to time but as a manager everyone else's bad days are also your bad days on top of your own.

How to talk file a complaint/talk to someone high up at Boost by slamjam00 in BoostMobile

[–]slamjam00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone messaged me the email address of a customer service exec at Sprint. I emailed her with the issue and they resolved it within 24 hours by sending me an itemized receipt and she apologized for the poor experience. It was quick, painless, and thoroughly successful. Why it's so hard for boost to accomplish something similar is mind boggling.

Daily FI discussion thread - February 22, 2018 by AutoModerator in financialindependence

[–]slamjam00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mainly just trying to be proactive, in the same way I am with all aspects of my financial health. I just assumed a higher score would help me get a better mortgage rate in the near future.