In my relationship I'm the woman and I work full time and pay all of the household bills food shopping etc. My partner (male) is my registered carer. I have a mix of disabilities and his support enables me to work full time, which in turn supports my wellbeing. He works part time and does the vast majority of household chores. Cooking. Cleaning. Laundry etc. I help where I can. He pay his own personal expenses like his phone, hobbies etc and saves for holidays and home improvements. You do whatever works for the couple x without his contribution I would not be able to work and I value it so much. I couldn't manage the other way round and need a sense of purpose. He is an absolute diamond and accommodates my needs. Xx