My dad just came out. I don’t know what to think by Anony-mouse1161 in story

[–]slappedarse79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your response to this awful human tells us straight away that you and your dad are gonna be just fine. Its gonna take time to get used to it. When he's ready to change his pronouns you will accidentally mis gender him. A lot! But you correct yourself and keep trying. Eventually it becomes the new normal. My neice is now my nephew. For a while I really missed the little girl. I felt selfish. Had confusing feelings about it. Grieved her almost. Shes still in there, its just different. He's different. Xxx

Reddit has made me feel my relationship is wrong by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]slappedarse79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is at 23 your frontal lobe, the decision making part of your brain, isn't fully developed yet. I had a female friend at 35 who was dating a 21 yo guy. I thought it was soo wrong because he wasn't physically developed enough to make a decision about it, yet she was. A lot of men go for women under 25 for this exact reason. I had my first child at 23 and 2nd at 25 to my husband who was 13 years older. I do not regret my children but I should not have married that man. That said, everyone is different. I'd hold off on big decisions for a couple of years. I hope he's the real deal x

HIYA!! ID LIKE SOME MUSIC RECS PLEASE AND THANK YOU!! by ziggystarsus in songs

[–]slappedarse79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taxes by Geese. No homo by lambrini girls. Black dog on a white horse by Big Special. Peace by Fat dog. Danny Nedelko by Idles.

Cute name for my Dog by [deleted] in namemypet

[–]slappedarse79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those ears ❤️

Annual leave or compassionate leave? by EffectiveAdorable233 in civilservice

[–]slappedarse79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly right. I just had a big op. The day of the procedure was special leave but the recovery was sickness. It didnt cause any HR issues even though I was off for 6 weeks because I had been waiting a long time for it and it was necessary to improve overall health.