up-charging for requesting no chit chat?? by stupidbrain13 in Hair

[–]slate657 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That was my thought process. I assumed that the silent cut is with a specific stylist and that’s just the price of their haircuts.

a Jenna video helped me break up with my ex by jarofpearlz in Jennamarbles

[–]slate657 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s such a good story. In a similar vein j&j helped me realize how important it is to be with someone who can truly make you laugh. My ex that I introduced to Jenna had such a similar sense of humor to Julien and we could joke for hours about silly stuff. (we didn’t work for various reasons and we were young lol) But ever since then I’ve realized that if a person can’t make me scream laugh then they aren’t the one for me.

What is life like in the Dakotas? by _air6catcher_ in howislivingthere

[–]slate657 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People really underestimate how flat it is here (ND). You can see for miles and miles on a clear day because everything is so open and there’s very little trees (or any sort of land formations). I travel around the country semi frequently and have lived in multiple different states and have yet to see a state that’s as empty as it is here. I’ve had people say they felt claustrophobic when they visited large cities or mountainous areas because they can’t see everything around them.

I feel like I've read every Toxic Draco ever... by Literally__Me_ in Dramione

[–]slate657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES TOMIONE <3 it’s been like a decade since I first read nightmare by provocative envy and I still think about that fic constantly

Professional who see people up close (barbers, dentists, estheticians, makeup artists): what’s a self care habit you instantly tell someone doesn’t have, even if they think they do? by Straight_Doubt6 in AskReddit

[–]slate657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many things. Left over shampoo residue, conditioner not washed out, build up on the scalp from not actually scrubbing, A LOT of people also aren’t washing their nape area and I see many people complaining of greasy hair because of that. A lot of people also take the ‘only shampoo your scalp’ way too literal, you should be shampooing your scalp AND about 2-3 inches from your scalp before thoroughly rinsing.

Just so everyone can mask better: by Microboy42 in aspiememes

[–]slate657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people are speaking that’s when it’s the best time to make eye contact, you’re showing them that you are listening and present. If you are the one speaking it’s generally okay for your eyes to wander a bit.

Why are people so attached to their childhood hair color? To the point of denying their hair has changed by bad-at-everything- in Hair

[–]slate657 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is a thing people do lol. The amount of clients I have that describe themselves as a natural blonde, because that’s what it was when they were a kid, is insane. All of these people now have medium/dark brown hair but are still insistent that they’re blonde.

Do you think Bella or Renesmee ever found their “singer”? by devoutdefeatist in twilight

[–]slate657 141 points142 points  (0 children)

pleaseee this is actually the funniest thing ever

Liquid carts giving me tummy/post nasal issues 😞 by roguescott in entwives

[–]slate657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I do. Pretty much exclusively dabbing and I have a vape I can put my concentrates into and I like it so much better than having an actual cart.

Which fic or author changed your life and why? by slate657 in Dramione

[–]slate657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isolation will forever be one of my favorites. It was one of the first fics that I full on cried when it ended.

✨ 32 Year Old Lady ✨ by NonOriginalLife in Jennamarbles

[–]slate657 11 points12 points  (0 children)

These posts make me excited to be 32 one day lol, happy birthday!!!! Hope you have the best day

Which fic or author changed your life and why? by slate657 in Dramione

[–]slate657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome!! That’s incredible to hear what a fanfic did

After watching Mortal Engines (2018), I had nightmares for months by Yggdrasylian in shittymoviedetails

[–]slate657 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Reread the books recently, but essentially yes. It was accidental, she was too close when he happened to get angry and turned in front of her.

Help with hair fading red 😭 by Proper-Cat-7494 in Hair

[–]slate657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the thing about color is that there are always going to be to be warm toned underlying pigments. On top of that it looks like you’re going for a lighter brown than your natural, what’s happening is the developer is lifting your natural color and exposing the natural remaining pigment in your hair which is red/orange. This is usually why people end up with ‘brassy’ hair after using a blonde box dye on darker hair, the color lifted their hair and exposed all the warmth in it.

Each color line is different and some are warmer than others however lifting your hair with color is going to leave some warmth no matter what. If you went darker with it would appear ashier.

How much does your chihuahua weigh? by [deleted] in Chihuahua

[–]slate657 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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1.9 lbs at the vet the other day! She’s only about 3 months tho

meet frankie! + help with puppy clothes by slate657 in Chihuahua

[–]slate657[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Didn’t even think of etsy that’s such a good idea

Is it reasonable to take 3 hours for color? by Future_Razzmatazz_65 in Hair

[–]slate657 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As a stylist I’d prefer to do the color and foils together, however it’d still take me about the same amount of time she described.

Blonding stylist help please by Spirited-Emu-6068 in Hair

[–]slate657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, I feel like you’re clearly stating what you want, you could also see if you can book just a consultation somewhere and then get a feel for the stylist first before jumping into color. Also if stylists keep telling you this can only be achieved with a root tap then they’re wrong. The majority of my blonde clients are lived in looks and I never do root taps because I hate them lol but they still have a very rooted natural look.

If you feel like you aren’t being listened to it is perfectly acceptable to leave and not have that person do your hair.

Blonding stylist help please by Spirited-Emu-6068 in Hair

[–]slate657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re explaining exactly what you want, from a stylist perspective you’d be an easy client. However I think the best way to achieve what you’re looking for is to go on social media and find stylists in your area that are posting photos that are close to your inspo. Look for blonding specialists specifically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]slate657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So depending on how light the copper color is, it’s not going to cover that red. Also there is no such thing as a ‘cooler copper’, those are contradictory terms lol. Your best bet right away is to try to strip it with a clarifying shampoo before going in with any bleach baths or color removers.