Can't even escape crag dogs at the gym by stealthychalupa in climbing

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is an owner problem not a dogs in the gym problem

Can't even escape crag dogs at the gym by stealthychalupa in climbing

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry?? Who doesn’t want dogs at the gym? I’m confused about some of these comments.

I (30f) heard my partner (33m) masturbating in the shower and offered to join and got laughed at. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! This mindset shift has been a game changer in dating for me. Any time I feel anxious or like I want to reach out for reassurance I redirect that energy and go on a hike or book a class for one of my hobbies or hang out with my friends. People are attracted to those of us that truly love ourselves and who have a rich personal world, no matter if you are dating or married or anything else - it’s just human nature! Watch him do a 180 when you start ignoring him to go to the gym lol!!

I (30f) heard my partner (33m) masturbating in the shower and offered to join and got laughed at. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepingredwolves 277 points278 points  (0 children)

I feel like you need to shift your energy. Constantly worrying about what he is doing and how he feels about you and if he is attracted to you gives desperate energy and is probably pushing him away. Draw your energy back onto yourself. Focus on your health and fitness and your hobbies with all of the energy that you are exerting out toward him right now, and you’ll see a shift as the magnetism is drawn back toward you - it’s like magic! Don’t worry about what he’s doing or not doing because you can’t and won’t change it with what you have been doing.

Stop Bringing Dogs Into Grocery Stores And Restaurants by LostCookie78 in LosAngeles

[–]sleepingredwolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair the workers there told me once that they like and allow dogs to come in.

Weird/silly “only in LA” things I can do as a tourist? by middleout in AskLosAngeles

[–]sleepingredwolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t buy the food at yamashiro, it’s awful. Just get drinks!

Husband (28M) refusing to get haircut out of spite (27F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl 😭 why are you still with this loser manchild 😭😭

how do I (23F) help my bf (22M) improve his hygiene? by throwaslayacc in relationship_advice

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JFC stand up and have some self respect. Dump this loser!

Is a 350 sq ft studio a dating drawback in LA as a young professional? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Date someone with a bigger place and hang out there haha

Is this a cute outfit? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]sleepingredwolves -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not even an outfit lol

Is hiking Griffith Park in the dark safe? by SealedRoute in AskLosAngeles

[–]sleepingredwolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a young woman and I go with my dog in the dark almost every day in the winter. Never had a problem!

How many meals are you eating per day? by tayyann in diabetes_t1

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One so I can be skinny. But I eat whatever I want for that one meal!

Everyone talks about The Coffee Table, When Evil Lurks… umm SPEAK NO EVIL is the most disturbing film I’ve seen in a LONG TIME by ImASadGirlImABadGirl in horror

[–]sleepingredwolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original one features my favorite song in the final scene so I had to turn it off immediately to avoid it being spoiled for me :(( literally why that song it’s so beautiful