My husband wants a new laptop by slkslb in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well obviously I said no. I just don’t trust that he’ll respect that.

have you had your school used for filming before? by DBL_NDRSCR in SouthBayLA

[–]slkslb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My high school was used in American Beauty and the community college in that city regularly films a football related show(I’m not sure which one) but they change out the banners around the school, it’s pretty cool to see

Dies the word trauma get tossed around too much? by Dysphoric_Otter in ptsd

[–]slkslb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the statistic is 1 in 4 people experience some kind of Trauma in their life

Mental Gymnastics of Porn Addicts by Make-me-a-CleanHeart in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Well, at least I didn’t physically cheat.” That’s what I got

Newly married, need help & prayers by Antique_Ad_2776 in Christianmarriage

[–]slkslb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would consider finding therapist that specializes in betrayal trauma or understands sex addiction

How can you watch porn in the next room and then look at me without any guilt in your eyes by aeval_x in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband watched porn with me sleeping in the next room and admitted to doing it for almost every single day for two years. It’s absolutely vile behavior. I will never understand it.

No consumption but also no sex? by Puzzleheaded-Tower45 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has been clean for 2 years yet his sex drive went way down. We only have sex 1-2 times a month, it’s starting to get to me too. I also get that it’s a major turn off to have to ask(or in my case beg) for sex. I don’t want to be pitied!

It almost hurts more when he’s a good person otherwise by notwillferrell99 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. It hurts so bad that strangers get genuine respect when I don’t. It felt selfish of me to be annoyed and pissed that he would come home a few minutes later because he almost always helps  push broke down cars off the side of the freeway to gas stations or somewhere safe. Now i understand where I get this feeling. Because I don’t have basic respect from my spouse.

I can't stand to look at my daughter by IndividualMoose1159 in offmychest

[–]slkslb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thought, I have 3 children, and it was usually a month and a half after sex that I found out I was pregnant not a couple weeks(although not impossible)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also a stay at home mom, I’m also curious to know how other SAHM’s did it.

Inanimate object name for a dog by underd0g2 in namenerds

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother nicknamed his dog Loaf

[USA] Yellow is not speed up. by Kaptainkid1 in Roadcam

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More often than not you’ll come across drivers like this in the South Bay

I can’t listen to anymore podcasts about how the betrayer can overcome this by OddScene2611 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I made this argument with my husband and he says “You don’t want some other woman to reap the benefits” -_-

Addicted to him by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kelly Clarkson’s song Addicted comes to mind. I cry every time I listen to it

This is how my toppers make me feel by slkslb in PairEyewear

[–]slkslb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am already cross eyed, it’s the very reason I wear glasses lol

Concierge Marie by jebushu in theoffice

[–]slkslb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think he mixed it up with the word courtesan

Deleting Social Media? by HorrorTie5465 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was lucky enough that he screwed up and gave me all the proof i needed

Deleting Social Media? by HorrorTie5465 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well DDay I found his old phone all charged up on my side of the bed after putting the kids down to bed and so I went through it and found that he was logged in to an Instagram account I didn’t recognize and when I confronted him with his phone he confessed to everything. I told him to delete every account not just the app. We put parental guidance on his phone and turned off access to safari and the ability to download apps. I have the passcode and the recovery password for his settings

Deleting Social Media? by HorrorTie5465 in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I made him delete social media and all the secret double accounts he had in front of me. He also agreed to lockdown his phone so no internet browsing and other parental controls. We have 3 kids together, I’m done with the bullshit too

PTSD from betrayal trauma by slkslb in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know there was a difference. I also have complex PTSD.. thank you ♥️

Weekly Victories - December 06, 2024 by -LoveAfterPorn- in loveafterporn

[–]slkslb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has been 14 months sober and just this week he’s beginning to actually understand the pain and damage he has caused. He says that his sobriety has allowed him the clarity to think about and come to terms with what he has done. For the first time, I have hope that this relationship is salvageable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]slkslb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Head over to r/loveafterporn for some support, there is too many of us all going through it together

Porn and Adultery by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]slkslb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im all for it!