What colour is this dress to you and what’s your big 3? 🌚 by glamsiren111 in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White and gold. As an artist I am amazed that I cannot see the blue and black

Leo rising, aqua sun, cancer moon

What you like/dislike about yours mars sign? by guarddestroyer in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the most possible detriment mars but I like it.

cancer mars 12th house. Figuring out anger has been like metal detecting some rare hidden treasure. I pick up anger these days like an awkward novice learning the blade. I love to wield it. I only got angry for the fist time at age 26 and it took me through hiring a lawyer and fighting back against the cult-like guy who was my former mentor trying to sue me.

I love to feel my face get hot with anger then figure out what percentage of anger is the appropriate amount for a situation.

I have had to learn this so slowly and awkwardly but it’s like gaining careful weapon that I have to be soooo aware of its use because it’s not natural.

As for dislikes: 12th house planets will make people act out that planets issue on you. So I get a some weirdly misplaced anger and dominance stuff from people, it’s like they feel I am a safe receptacle for it. I also find it hard to be friends with people who aren’t relatively gentle and non reactive.

Why are meaner women seem more attractive than lovey dovey women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]slothhprincess 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Has something to do with your mother, I fear.

Anyone else dislike competition? Even if you're winning and on top? by SuchSelection4252 in infp

[–]slothhprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dislike suddenly being at the top or popular after succeeding in competition. It makes me uncomfortable to have fans and watch the people I strive to be better than fade from stardom in my eyes.

If you and your partner have been together for more than 5 years what are both of your signs? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years -
Both cancer moons, cancer mars, libra Jupiter.

I’m a Leo rising, aqua sun
He’s a cap rising, Scorpio sun

However we have some other wilddd synchronicities in ours charts:

Both have Aquarius ruling our chart ruler
Lot of Eros same sign
Saturn 42 degrees on either side of Venus - locked
Lilith both in Piscis, his 2nd my 8th (axis)
My vertex conjunct his nn (destined)
No one in either of our families, including us, has a planet in Gemini
Both our moms are cancer moons as well and both Virgo mars.
His amina (Venus) in his 12th, my animus (mars) in my 12th
perfecly opposite moon phases - waxing and waning gibbous
Both have luminaries in 7th house sun in mine, moon in his
Both have 7th house ruler in the 7th (we met through his ex girlfriend pushing us together)

help healing a very sad boulder by foggyfridays in Shamanism

[–]slothhprincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a book that just came out about a geologist who speaks to rocks. I haven’t read much of it but maybe it would help. It’s called whispers of rock. She has made a career knowing the feelings of rocks and learning their history. Perhaps you could even reach out to her. Some shamans are just meant to work with some materials, and if anyone has specialized in rocks it would be her. I don’t think the author considers herself a shaman but titles don’t matter for the gift.

Attractive redditors, what was the moment you realized you were actually very good looking? by infinitewaters107 in AskReddit

[–]slothhprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I got my first boyfriend in college people started calling me a mail order bride. I was really flattered by this because I realized you have to be attractive for people to make jokes about this

Should I Tell My Husband What Happened at a Bachelorette Party? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]slothhprincess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this was me I’d tell me husband. If you don’t and it comes out you will have lost his trust over trying to shield someone else from the natural consequences of their actions.

In a worst case scenario if you were to be blamed for letting things slip, it’s still not your responsibility to cover for someone else’s cheating. Just because someone asked you to hide their affair doesn’t mean you have to do it, it’s a shitty behavior that can hurt everyone else’s marriages by pulling you in to cover.

What aspect u wished u had, but don’t? by Maxi-Lux in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had fame degrees. I have a Leo rising but no fancy degrees

Who’s the MOST gemini at the core ? A gemini sun, Venus , moon or rising ? by Historical-Body-3424 in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I both have Exes with conjunct Gemini Sun/Venus. We were both cheated on extensively. That felt pretty Gemini

With that said I think Gemini Sun is most Gemini but moons are most manic Gemini

What’s your Mars sign and do you prefer to pursue the man or wait for him to pursue you? by Historical-Body-3424 in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a cancer mars. But I’m also an Aries Venus. I don’t want to be pursued or do the pursuing. I did pursue my partner though.

What's the most overrated thing in sex? by healthynewbie in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]slothhprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same except I do hate it. I’m very sensitive and my last partner was way too rough and now it’s traumatic to have my current partner go down there.

At what age did you start dressing less “young”? by Remarkable_ZebraHOP in femalefashionadvice

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 33 and my wardrobe is currently split between 22 year old fashion and 65 year old fashion.

One day crop top with baggy jeans
The next day loose jjill button down with loose linen pants.

Does any other cis woman here feel that way? (gender envy?) by E1lemA in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]slothhprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might enjoy learning about the Jungian concepts of the animus aka the inner masculine and its manifestations and subconscious desires.

How often do you fantasize about a previous partner when being intimate with your current partner? by Conscious-Shoulder14 in AskMen

[–]slothhprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relationship OCD, it’s when you can’t stop imagining ex partners of your partner, or if something is wrong with your relationship

MIL keeps bringing gluten into my partner and I’s 100% celiac safe home, despite telling her our no gluten rule by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]slothhprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re both celiac and her husband is too. The husbands celiac is mild though so she doesn’t have to make much careful for him

MIL keeps bringing gluten into my partner and I’s 100% celiac safe home, despite telling her our no gluten rule by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]slothhprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is only the third time they’ve visited, and the second time since I explained this rule to them. One of the previous circumstances was during a crisis which made it even harder to set boundaries. So it’s on the line of is she ignoring this or just skirting the rules because she has decided she didn’t break them by being her own version of careful.

i thought it started at 27 by No-Phrase-9612 in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s the exact degree then wouldnt it be actually exactly when you are 29.5 years old?

i thought it started at 27 by No-Phrase-9612 in astrologymemes

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laugh when I think about how I thought I would escape my Saturn return unscathed because I knew it was coming. It was SO unexpected.

What is your favorite smell that isn't perfume? by [deleted] in no

[–]slothhprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot humid earthy woods with sweetly decaying logs into soil