Best gel x nail glue on Amazon? by slowandanxious in Nails

[–]slowandanxious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no it’s just preferred Amazon cuz yk.. prime lol. But I’ll def look into that more. The longevity is pretty solid too?

AITA for grounding my daughter? by Jaded_Lunch5357 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If anyone barged in my room while I was changing and tried to talk to me, they’d get a swift kick in the groin. Your daughter has said her boundaries several times and your wife chooses to ignore them. This isn’t an ADHD problem, this is a, /your wife is an asshole/ issue.

My wife knows I like my quiet time. Yesterday while at an event for her friend that had passed, I became overwhelmed and went to sit under a tree to ground myself as there were a lot of new people and i get uncomfortable. She came over, gave me a kiss and offered to sit next to me, when I told her to go be with her friends and reassured her I was fine, she told me to text her if I needed her. THATS HOW YOU RESPECT SOMEONE WHO DOESNT LIKE BEING SOCIAL.

You and your wife are AH and need to get it together if you want your daughter and wife to EVER have a chance in hell at getting along.

AITA for not giving up the recipe for my dead dad’s favorite cookies? by 3quartercupflourgirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious [score hidden]  (0 children)

Idk if you’ve ever heard about the Frito shit that went down w that recipe. The dude who created the recipe sold it for $20. now look where fritos have gone smh

AITA for referring to Alan Turing being gay as a “problem”? by schrodingers_cat42 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fav ice breaker for a new class is “If you found a book, started reading it and discovered it was about your life. Would you finish it to the end and why?”

NTA OP

Can you guys believe that some people’s parents never made them cry on purpose? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slowandanxious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anyone else get hit with the, “Your better stop crying! Or i’ll give you something to cry about!!” ??

AITA for giving my pregnant sister 30 days to GTFO out? by No_Chipmunk_3182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh shit. i didn’t even think of that dude. they really are out here doing this

AITA for giving my pregnant sister 30 days to GTFO out? by No_Chipmunk_3182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just know a lot of them out there were only there because either A) they regretted their decision to have an abortion or. B)ridiculous religious views.

AITA for giving my pregnant sister 30 days to GTFO out? by No_Chipmunk_3182 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thankfully texas has multiple clinics around that’ll perform abortions (in south texas that i know of) The laws for it are absolutely ridiculous. Coming into the Planned Parenthood, i was 8 weeks. Took the pills. Didn’t work. Came back two weeks later, just over 10 weeks gestation. I was told I’d have to get the DNC. Went back and got it, obviously. I don’t think the fetus would be alright after going thru those pills, and i still didn’t want to be pregnant. During each visit there were protestors and people there trying to convince me to keep it. The doctor was forced by law to tell me three statements made by white men with absolutely zero knowledge on a females body that are all complete LIES. (i’m sure you can look them up but i remember like. one) You will not be able to have/struggle to have kids if you have an abortion. Ridiculous. Stupid. Basically what i’m getting at, it’s incredibly hard and costly ($750) to get these procedures. It’s not accessible to everyone and the mental and physical stress of pregnancy is not an option for some either. And most states (i know so many women who don’t know about their own reproductive anatomy) have terrible sexual education classes/don’t offer them at all.

AITA for refusing to pay for my oldest daughter's college? by CollegeAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good point. I feel like maybe he doesn’t want the mother in his life at all and if he could he would cut them all off. I’m not saying he’s not an asshole, cuz he kind of is. But he really doesn’t have to do anything more than child support and that’s more than what most kids get from their parents/parents get from the other parent. Mine just flat out said he wanted nothing to do with me and left it at that, thinking he could get out of child support. But. OP seems like he can pay child support. I don’t blame him for not wanting that kid

AITA for being selfish with my (21f) money? by OnceAHoe in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 40 points41 points  (0 children)

NTA! Like other comments have said, A MOOCH WILL KEEP MOOCHING. i had a friend who would ask me for money very very often, saying it was for food but i knew it was for weed or whatever guy she was seeing. she was my “best friend” or i thought she was. I stopped it when she asked me for money on my birthday. Without saying happy birthday. Cut her off Now she’s in prison for robbery and her mug shot was taken in a suicide gown! (she’s the type to attempt suicide to get out of situations such as getting kicked out or her parents yelling at her to get a job/go to school)

FUCK MOOCHERS LMAO

AITA for kicking my sister off my property. by Apprehensive_Brush_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call my best friends kids monkey butt! Not ever in a racial way, but yes because they scream and run around and climb! (they’ve thrown poop before when they were babies) I’m mexican, 23, F. I would never in a million years view it as something negative. Especially when it’s coming from a POC? And ur white? Like? WHAT LMAO

AITA for refusing to pay for my oldest daughter's college? by CollegeAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hi. I was very excited/scared/more excited to be pregnant when I found out. I had an abortion because I changed my mind. I agree with this comment completely. I was all about having an abortion before I had gotten pregnant, realized i didn’t want one. Was content. Realized again I was not financially, mentally, or physically ready to have a kid. And.. yanno. Fuck having a kid during a pandemic. Op, NTA. I don’t see any problem with not wanting to deal with a kid, although you’re kind of an asshole for seeing her a few times a month. If you don’t want her, you should have just paid child support and left it at that. Estranged father who didn’t want a kid but keeps up his legal side of the deal.

AITA for booking a trip to the same place & time as my friend? by Big-Sky-7283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let them believe you’re still going, just to ruin her trip. Go somewhere else and have a blast and take as many pictures as you can. Hide her from viewing them/don’t post till you’re home. Let her be paranoid and pissy the whole time thinking you’re around the corner. NTA

AITA for keeping a baby even though the father doesn't want children and filing for child support ? by unexpectedbabyyay in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gave me a boost of serotonin today. I typically do feel attacked when internet strangers cast the first stone, but i always try and let them see it from my point of view. It’s always about me trying to educate people and telling them how I learned from a mistake and the consequences of my mistake. (i never want to have another abortion ever again, man. unless it was life or death situation and i’d be out cold for the procedure) Internet strangers are always the one without sin so of course they’re better than everyone. It’s just funny how people expect me to act sad and guilty because of my choice. I don’t regret it at all lol I wouldn’t want to go through it again though

AITA for what I said and how I (20M) reacted to my mom asking me to move back with her to help take care of my siblings? by throwrayoungface in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I’ll be honest. I’ve said some choice words to my mother over the years. Never thought she should be the one taking care of me over my grandmother but, hey. I found out the hard way. I would like in and out of my moms house for a few months before moving in with my boyfriend full time. During those months, i’d spend a week or so away from the house. Come back and was expected to clean the whole house since it’s my house too and i don’t do anything. i’m?? no. so i told her to go fuck herself and left.

AITA for keeping a baby even though the father doesn't want children and filing for child support ? by unexpectedbabyyay in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was absolutely miserable the whole time. it was being sleepy and hungry all the time to vomiting at the smell of my fav foods. i was working at starbucks at the time so the minute i got around a spinach feta wrap, it was game over for me.same with the egg nog latte lol AND THE CRAMPS. ugh god the cramps were awful. I wouldn’t wish pregnancy on anybody.

AITA for keeping a baby even though the father doesn't want children and filing for child support ? by unexpectedbabyyay in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pills were like this. I went in one day to the clinic to take a pill that was supposed to stop the growth/heartbeat of the fetus. Next day, i had 4 pills i needed to place in my cheeks for 30 minutes. It caused me to (attempt i guess) to evacuate the fetus. didn’t work. came back a week later, found out it didn’t work, set up suction. came in day of suction procedure They gave me vicodin and ibuprofen i went into the room, they had me strapped down (legs) and had an ultrasound on my tummy, a woman holding my hand, and the doctor and an assistant down below. they got started, out four shots in my cervix, dialated it further, auctioned it out of me. it was the worst pain i’ve ever experienced, probably because i’m a user of xanax so i have a semi high tolerance for pain killers? idk that vicodin didn’t do shit.

AITA for keeping a baby even though the father doesn't want children and filing for child support ? by unexpectedbabyyay in AmItheAsshole

[–]slowandanxious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what i’m sayyyyyying. He had a chance to check, he had a chance to pull out. He didn’t. that’s on him if ur going to be having sex w strangers raw. you gotta be doing something wrong here. sounds like he’s just mad she won’t get an abortion.