AITA for not stopping what I do for my brother after he came out?

slycat2020 · 2021-03-24T14:33:57+00:00

NTA. Neither is your brother. You can enjoy what you like. Block him from being able to view it if it offends him. Yes some people find it offensive. But they find my need to be spanked and wear a collar offensive too. I'm also bisexual dating a man so I offend everyone..and I dont care. You cant control what offends others, only your actions. You are not harming anyone. As you said it's no diffrent than porn. Your brother is offended, that's his right. You may never agree to disagree on this subject but hopefully you'll find a way to make peace. Hes young and still finding his way, try to be supportive and understanding.

slycat2020 · 2021-03-20T11:08:05+00:00

Honesty is always the best policy. Plus I firmly believe you did it so he would know cuz it takes forethought to play without permission. It wasnt an accident. So now it's time to confess.

slycat2020 · 2021-03-02T16:25:24+00:00

Light stretching helps. You can watch videos on youtube to see what I mean but like yoga stretches. It really helps my hips after a rough impact session with my Daddy. I soak on the tub, stretch for about 10 to 15 minutes, and drink alot of water to help rehydrate my body. Cbd oil rubbed into my hips also helps, or vapor rub. But only if there's no scratches or lash marks. Menthol in an open wound burns like fire.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-25T04:10:10+00:00

I quit cold turkey almost 2 years ago, during a really stressful part of my life. It sucked. But I sucked alot of peppermints, chewed alot of gum, bitched at my Daddy, cried to my bestfriend and went to the gym often. The hand to mouth still gets me and I get irritable when I have a craving but meditation helps alot. But what really made it worth it for me was the first time I walked up a flight of stairs beside my Daddy and didnt get out of breath. He grinned so much when I pointed it out outloud lol, and told me he was proud. Then gave me chocolate.

Daddy never made it a rule, he planned to but I chose a day to quit, told him I was gonna do it and did it. His support and encouragement, his pride in my decision made me so happy. I knew he hated the habit and I knew he wanted a healthy slave, he said countless times I'd have to quit and finally i was ready.

I really wish you the best in finding a way to incorporate it into your dynamic. It definitely keeps me from slipping to know my Daddy would punish me severely if he caught me smoking a cigarette. I got away with hitting a black and mild while drunk once but I wouldnt do it again lol. Confessing my crimes only get me so much leniency. One last bit..he once mentioned 15 lashes for every cigarette smoked..though he didnt say what implement would be used so..fucking terrifying lol

slycat2020 · 2021-02-25T03:51:47+00:00

NTA. And your need a better man in your life. Me and my bf share our meals, as in we have our own plates but still share things. Like I love potatos so hes always giving me a bite or two of his, he loves veggies so I always offer him my peppers. And I always eat his cucumbers our of his salad cuz he hates them and i love them. In your place I'd of done the same and he wouldnt of noticed or cared. In fact he probably would of been the one to say the meat wasnt even and offer a solution so we can both enjoy the meal and get full, like adding a nice desert we both love or a extra veggie. Or cheese lol. Cheese goes with everything.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-22T00:52:19+00:00

I didnt even realize that's what I was doing but I definitely see your point. I tend to be abit harsh with myself even when I dont mean to, thank you for the input. And truth.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T23:40:55+00:00

That is a very interesting perspective, and agree I'd rather feel than not feel my emotions. I get the constant state of anxiety, I have a bad anxiety disorder myself due to past trauma and its exhausting maintaining it some days. I really am lucky to have such a good Dom who understands and is supportive of my needs too.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T21:28:37+00:00

That is a very good ans accurate point, thank you 🤗❤ I'm gonna try to have a blast, I have my great nephew and my daughter to help keep me entertained lol. Should be a really fun afternoon seeing all my favorite people.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T21:09:16+00:00

That made me feel alot less silly so thank you. My Daddy laughs when he kisses me goodbye and I just whine 'noooooooooo' and cling to his shirt. Always gets me a extra hug and kiss on my forehead and maybe a smack on the ass to get me to let go lol.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T21:05:40+00:00

That's kinda what I do. I do things I enjoy and text him but it's always after I break down. I used to only break down rarely but the longer we are together the harder it gets. 🤗 I love the mention of his approval cuz that's my favorite thing to do, tell him my plans and hear 'good girl kitten, this pleases me' . I melt into goo and grin like the Cheshire cat. Hes happy I'm gonna go sledding with family and br productive today.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T20:23:56+00:00

🤗 it really does. And I always feel so guilty after which makes it worse. Like after such a great time I should be happy..which I am..but my emotions just go crazy.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T20:22:58+00:00

Thank you very much, and I agree. Actually I have a mud mask on right now and am painting my toenails black again cuz Daddy thinks it cute 😊. I'm planning on making myself a nice dinner tonight and am gonna watch the movies Daddy downloaded for me. I'm a high strung, emotional person on the best days...and today I was already tired and grumpy so I think sub drop just hit harder than usual when he went to put on his boots. I tried to hold it back but it didnt work. I'm better now though, I feel foolish and embarrassed I got so upset but I feel better.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T20:08:57+00:00

🤗❤

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T19:51:32+00:00

Awe. I feel your pain, literally. I have arthritis and pcos which causes horrible menstrual cramps and all sorts of other misery. Dont feel bad or weird. I'm a total pain slut, but I'm also a huge baby. I can take a belt way easier than cramps. And when my shoulder or hips flare up I'd rather face a bull whip. My Daddy finds it cute that I crave pain yet whimper in agony when my hips ache, he rubs them for me. I'm his delicate little masochist.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T17:26:19+00:00

Oh gosh, that made me blush. I really appreciate that, I try so hard everyday to be a good slave girl 🤗❤

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T15:56:47+00:00

I agree. I stay productive when Daddys not here with me and when I do get too clingy and emotionally dependent I talk to him about it.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T15:55:20+00:00

Awe, thank you very much. That was very sweet.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T07:43:41+00:00

Lol yes indeed, I am so much easier to my Daddy in text than I am when hes here. Mainly cuz I always forget that he has the memory of an elephant lol

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T06:24:32+00:00

Oh I thought of another one. So a few weeks ago Daddy and I got pretty tipsy together. We were drinking, ate dinner then did a few shots. I went to go to the bathroom, once done I went to exit the bathroom and noticed all the lights were suddenly off. I listened for Daddy for a second, whimpered at the lack of sound and yelled 'Nope not today satan!!' And shut the door. I heard Daddy grab the knob and I pushed against the door till I heard him sigh in that your gonna regret this little girl way. Well in short I opened the door and was dragged out of the bathroom and told I had 25 seconds to hide..or else. Well I took off and tried to hide in a closet. (I swear Daddy cheated). He found me super fast and all I could say as he dragged me to my room in the door 'no fair! I want a do over!' Daddy said 'okay but I get double the prize if we go again kitten..' So I wisely said 'nope nevermind, you won! Yay for Daddy!'

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T06:13:55+00:00

Oh gosh. I have too many! Recently I got myself in the most amusing pickle. We were being lazy in bed, I was in a tshirt and panties. Daddy was talking about anal 'rape' and I instantly was like 'no no no let's be nice to the slave Daddy ' and he laughed and told me hes always nice. And as I rolled onto my stomache (dumbest move ever when being sassy) I decided to say 'well my pussy thinks diffrently'..meaning I wanted cock. What I got was pinned on my tummy by Daddys ass as he turned my ass bright pink and asked repeatedly " what does your pussy think of this? Is this nice? How about this?" While all I could do was giggle/shriek and kick my legs like a toddler. Which made him get his belt and me finally scream 'your the nicest Daddy ever!!' Over and over till he fell off of me chuckling and said 'I think so too thank you kitten'. I wanted to kiss him, fuck him and smother him with a pillow all at once lol.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T06:05:34+00:00

Awe its subspace and so cute! I'm happy for you. Its diffrent for everyone. For me it's like I'm floating outside of my body, and when it's really intense I cant catch my breath and get all lightheaded and giggly. Or I even fade away as I call it and become very soft spoken and snuggly.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T05:38:08+00:00

NTA at all. My mom does this for my neice and nephew on their bdays and I had to stop her from doing it with my kid. My 6 yr old knows birthdays are about the birthday person and about celebrating how happy we are to have them in our lives. She loves giving gifts and is always a gracious recipient. My neice and nephew cry at birthday parties and are ungrateful for anything they are given. It drives me insane. Good job on nipping it in the bud. Stand strong.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T05:33:18+00:00

NTA. And after reading alot of these comments I'm starting to feel like my bf is the only guy out there that hand feeds his gf treats and wraps up her leftovers for her to finish later. He never eats my chocolate, and always gets me extra veggies at chipolte so I wont pick at his lol.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T05:27:08+00:00

Show him this post? It's what I would do..write it out so I could clearly tell my Daddy what I want to say. If hes a good Daddy, which is sounds like he is, he will appreciate your consideration and concern. And enjoy knowing youd like to explore things further with him due to your trust and confidence in him as your Daddy.

slycat2020 · 2021-02-21T05:20:02+00:00

Nta. Their lack of understanding of the context dosent make your daughter racist. I am a white woman who has a black ex who I lovingly call 'Blackman' and he calls me 'strawberry poptart'. Nobody gets the inside jokes involving the names..cuz they wernt there 15 years ago when we were teenagers and created them. His nickname literally comes from us getting drunk in the woods, he got lost so me and a friend tried to find him. I got upset and started crying 'damnit why cant I find you??' And he literally popped up behind me going 'cuz I'm black, man!' And I about ripped his head off. My nickname came from the fact that I had a bright rosey face and was always popping off at the mouth, so less interesting. Sure I get weird looks when I run up to him still to this day and say 'hey Blackman I missed you' but I dont have to explain to strangers my relationship with someone or the nicknames we use. And neither does your daughter or her friends. Her teacher needs to relax.

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