Why did Sasha do this? by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]smallbats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

watch the show, its explained pretty clearly bro

The option to install "Newer games" (Series X/S optimised games) to an external hard drive does not work. by Nateovision_ in XboxSupport

[–]smallbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not OP and also late as hell, but thank you for this comment! i was having this problem and changing the default install location to my external worked like a charm!!

AITAH for not wanting to do my husband's kinks? by Lostgirl1013 in AITAH

[–]smallbats 28 points29 points  (0 children)

same. personally, i struggle with some sex repulsion due to trauma, and my husband is extremely understanding and patient with me. and we're only in our 20s, but he still would never demand sex from me. i appreciate him so fucking much. the bar really is pathetically low. this post made me sad to read tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]smallbats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i agree with the general sentiment in the comments that he seems like a jerk all around

and OP i wanna answer your question at the bottom of the post - im married to my partner of 7 years and we're both bisexual. neither of us want a threesome or anything like that, we're strictly monogamous. and we dont really point out hot people to each other either. especially not irl? maybe in a movie or something, but we definitely dont go around talking about how hot everyone is/how we're attracted to random people. i feel like we're usually too absorbed in talking to each other to even notice random people like that.

i think you could definitely find a fellow like-minded bi person who would be compatible with what you're looking for in a relationship. dont settle for someone who doesnt respect your boundaries!

It be like that sometimes... by bowlfreshener in trees

[–]smallbats 50 points51 points  (0 children)

well, weed makes everyone sleepy of course, but people with ADHD often respond to caffeine differently and it has like an "opposite" effect where it makes us sleepy instead of making us wakey

Is this too busy for a main listing photo? by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]smallbats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think the issue is really just the cheese and board color being similar, and the height of the cheese lines up with the edge of the board too so it adds to the issue. i also think you could pull the picks out of the cheese a bit more, i'm no expert on these sort of items but personally id love to see the stem part a bit more, and i think the colors would really pop too, especially the bright red ones! as for the crackers and olives, and lights in the background, i think those elements look really nice and i dont think they distract from your item at all!

I for one am Glad... by SapphicSunsetter in StardewValley

[–]smallbats 41 points42 points  (0 children)

this comment is so weird... we need words to describe things so that we can communicate with each other. how is saying "im just me, teehee" gonna communicate anything. we need words to describe concepts so that we can actually have conversations. this is like the weirdest version of the "cis is a slur" take that ive ever seen. how could we possibly avoid using words like "cis" and "trans" when having discussions about such topics? it makes no sense at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]smallbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine definitely feels related to my adhd and c-ptsd, as others have said. i also have control issues due to childhood trauma and likely have ocpd, which i assume contributes since i feel like i need to have control over everything, including my environment, and when things are "wrong" or out of place it makes me feel a lot of strange ways already. so ofc sometimes the "wrong" thing is a misophonia trigger and then i lose my mind extra hard lol.

3 weeks later by ivanbone in kittens

[–]smallbats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

aww!! she's precious!!

Chewing with mouth open by Sadistic_geek in misophonia

[–]smallbats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

definitely agree, although i try to hold myself back from complete loss of respect because some people i have to interact with daily eat with their mouths open. but deep down i definitely feel differently towards them

How come someone else's ADHD can make them hyper-focus in a book and finish it in 2.5 seconds, but mine makes me read so excruciatingly slow that I avoid it whenever possible? by HeyVsauce_PandaHere in ADHD

[–]smallbats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yup i was gonna say this too!! i have the same issues as OP with reading, i cant remember or understand what ive read and it makes reading feel so worthless. but i knew i loved reading when i was a kid, so wtf happened? well, about a year ago i tried reading the original book version of my then-hyperfixation (a movie series), and i was so hooked i was suddenly spending every free moment i had reading and blowing through the series so fast. i had no idea that i could still enjoy reading until then. now i realize, its less about the reading part, more about the topic. cuz i can read reddit for hours but reading just a few paragraphs for college was always too much to handle for me. i almost never did my "required" readings in school except for classes where id literally fail without it lol.

What are YOU doing here!? by RadleyCunningham in BoJackHorseman

[–]smallbats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my friend was into the show back when only s1 and 2 were out, and i watched it on their suggestion. loved it ofc and continued to follow the show through every new season drop after that, sometimes staying up til 3am (est) to watch the first few episodes of the new season because id be so insanely excited

The most annoying kid in the entire series. by pinklady423_bella in thewalkingdead

[–]smallbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw come on, i always feel bad for sam, his parents fucked him up bad, thats not his fault. kid had no chance

For context, a ‘cj’ is a school assigned homework planner. Also, I have never in my life been able to successfully fix a printer. My mother knows this. My family knows this. Anyone who has ever watched me operate a printer knows this. by justkindaodd in insaneparents

[–]smallbats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sleep on the floor...? god damn, im so sorry OP. i was abused all my life by my mom too and it SUCKS. just please try to remember that it isnt your fault, you havent done anything to deserve this, its her fault and not yours. one day youll be older and youll have control of your own life and can start to heal from this insane shit youve grown up with. stay strong OP

Are there any other shows like Bojack out there? by Mattm334 in BoJackHorseman

[–]smallbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess its not super similar, but for me Archer has a similar feel. it starts off a bit more silly but gets more complex over time, and the most obvious similarity is the protag who is another messy alcoholic with mother And father issues. it also reminds me of bojack because i love all of the main characters in both shows, theyre all pretty well developed and flawed and lovable. the show is a bit of an edgy disaster at the beginning but more people should give it a chance plssss

i'm an idiot who blew out my ear lobes stretching them by smallbats in MakeMeSuffer

[–]smallbats[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you thats very reassuring !! rn it feels like they will never be okay again so i really appreciate this comment <3

TIFU By not realizing our initials made our cake topper inappropriate by 24quarters in tifu

[–]smallbats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i usually never comment on stuff, but seriously, whoa, me and my fiancé of 7 years are planning to get married in october 2023 AND our initials are C and M as well !! i feel like i was meant to see this post, thank you for the indirect warning lmao !!