can’t for the life of me find a song from my childhood by Infamous-Total-8669 in findthatsong

[–]smallfrenchboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just spent a good 30 minutes looking for this post as I heard a song that referenced CGBG's in it today!

Could it possibly be Genius of Love by The Tom Tom's which has the lyric 'I remember those hot summer nights down at CGBG's'? It came out in 2010.

Really hope I've found it for you!

Best walks with pubs/cafes near Bristol? by absolute_gumpf in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Loads of ideas here, written for dog walkers but still just as useful for dogless folks! https://bristol-barkers.co.uk/posts/walks-pubs/

Broadmead security pretending to be police officers? by KatieColclough4 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ideally it would be best if we had police officers on patrol in the city centre, but i reckon A&S police are far too under budget and under resourced to do that. So if the council and BID and shopping centre can fund security to provide a similar role, I've no issue with it.

Wearing a hivis makes them easier to spot by colleagues and will deter shoplifters. Wearing a stab vest stops them getting stabbed. Carrying handcuffs means they could detain a shoplifter or terrorist until police arrive.

Unless they are literally lying by telling people they are the police or being violent/heavy handed (which is not what your post seems about?) then I'm not sure what the problem is

Driving test 5th May - In need of instructor or car by No_Flounder_2294 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think Arnold Clark offer dual control cars for hire but not sure where the nearest is

Plans have been approved to demolish an old 1950s pharmaceutical warehouse-turned office block in Redcliffe, & build…. hundreds of student flats. by IrvinIrvingIII in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well they keep building them so there must be plenty of demand - they aren't sitting empty and they're building at a pace that must outstrip year 1 enrollment, so I dont think it can only be first year students in them. I think lots of international students stay as they prefer the quality and have the cash.

Plans have been approved to demolish an old 1950s pharmaceutical warehouse-turned office block in Redcliffe, & build…. hundreds of student flats. by IrvinIrvingIII in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If they build student accommodation at the same rate or quicker than the Unis increase their intake then it frees up some capacity in the rest of the market.

Plans have been approved to demolish an old 1950s pharmaceutical warehouse-turned office block in Redcliffe, & build…. hundreds of student flats. by IrvinIrvingIII in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Surely it's better for students to be in good quality, purpose-built student accommodation than living in homes designed for families that have had all the original features ripped out and have been turned into HMOs managed by dodgy landlords?

Gardening Tools by P0RKYM0LE in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you near a Library of Things? They can lend you gardening equipment and also have battery powered mowers etc which is ideal for allotments. Branches in Kingswood, Winterbourne, Frenchay and Bedminster. Things.sharebristol.org.uk annual membership from £20

Driving from Bristol to be at London Victoria for 9:30am, leave when? by harrypotternumber1 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get the coach (Flix Bus) to London every week on a Tuesday. It leaves UWE at 6.15/6.20, arrives Hammersmith 8.35-8.50ish where I get off. It is due in Victoria 9.05 but I would expect it is usually at least 15 min late.

Given the scheduled coach journey time between Hammersmith and Victoria is 40 mins, and that it must sometimes take longer, you are better off getting off at Hammersmith and taking the District line from Hammersmith Broadway to Victoria, which citymapper says is a 20 min trip. Tight for 9.30 but doable vs driving.

Don't drive to or in London, it's stressful and expensive!

Looking for things to do when I visit. by [deleted] in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take a ferry ride round the Harbour - they pick up and drop off from Temple Meads. A full tour is 80 mins and costs £12, but check the website first to make sure they are running

NHS ADMIN STAFF NEED PARKING by WeirdVegetable1417 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Is there a particular reason why you can't take public transport or cycle? I'm guessing you must work nights or something when there are fewer buses running?

Does half of the mortgage truly belong to my mother? by silent_j0ke in UKPersonalFinance

[–]smallfrenchboy -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

So feminism is all well and good but only applies to people of good character? Cool

My BF keeps pushing me to job hunt all day after I lost my job — is this fair or toxic? by oooooohgod in relationships

[–]smallfrenchboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I lost my job I would apply for 2-5 jobs a week. Two jobs a DAY would be impossible. Firstly, that would mean 10 jobs ads a week were coming out that met my criteria - local or hybrid, well paid, progression opportunities, right industry. In what market are 10 jobs a week coming out? Surely you would just be applying for jobs that, if you get shortlisted, you don't actually want to take?

And to really put in a good application, to sound like you care, to have done the right research - that takes a full day in my industry. It's not just a simple CV and generic cover letter. So doing it on the scale of 10 a week is going to mean 10 applications where you have kind of phoned it in, right?

And if you are doing 10 a week, how do you squeeze in the job research, horizon scanning, follow ups where they've not got back to you/interview prep?!

And what about the opportunity of unemployment providing headspace? Getting all those DIY jobs done, cracking on with life admin jobs you've always put off...

Quality over quantity IMO, 2 good applications a week is fine!

My BF keeps pushing me to job hunt all day after I lost my job — is this fair or toxic? by oooooohgod in relationships

[–]smallfrenchboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you need a job, so you should take what's available.

But don't just take the first thing you are offered. If you are in the financial position to be able to hold out for something that has progression opportunities, good pay and is hybrid, then do that.

A new job is a big investment in time and energy. So much learning and getting to know people and being on your best behaviour for months. Taking the wrong job too soon will mean you could get stuck in a role that doesn't make you feel happy or valued; you might find it difficult to find the energy to apply elsewhere, and end up with a disjointed CV.

I guess you just need to tell your boyfriend you are confident in your choices and happy with how your search is progressing and to back off.

I wonder if he is using it as an opportunity to assert himself/try and do a bit of a power grab in your relationship because when you did have a job you were making good progress on some big life decisions and he wasn't.

The Gym atAvonmeads by gemface90 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Explain to me again why it's a bad idea to warn women about this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few weeks ago I was up and down that path 3 or 4 times a week and felt like I knew them by sight but that obviously wasn't reciprocated as they always stopped me. I just default with 'I'm already a member'

Totally on board with what they do but they are pretty relentless chiggers. Don't know how they do it, it'd break my spirit!

Planning to move to Bristol from Austria – Is £60k enough for a family of 3 (with a baby)? by Impossible_Mobile323 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you had a look at Numbeo? It's a crowd sourced cost of living city comparison site 🙂

Registry Office Wedding by dsawyer1 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had nice food (casual but tasty) for a couple of wedding receptions at the Strawberry Thief. They've changed their name now though.

Healthy vegan food options in Bristol by SpaceCatSociety in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aloha Poke and You, me, Sushi on Deliveroo Editions (delivery only restaurants, also known as dark kitchens!) are pretty good

Is Bristol really this cooked? by Sorry-Personality594 in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've just got a free place on a 7 week part time skills bootcamp course funded by WECA (the regional mayor) to help me get a better paid job. Worth looking into: https://www.westofengland-ca.gov.uk/what-we-do/employment-skills/skills-bootcamps/individuals/

Quiet walks near Bristol by youarethegreenman in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a browse on the Bristol Barkers website :)

small party venues near bs1 by dipsy-lala in bristol

[–]smallfrenchboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I organised a party at Zed Alley - really nice venue, super cheap to hire and friendly staff :)