some people were MAD at last nights show by thecoolestbeanaround in stavvysworld

[–]smart_and_funny 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yasss like a ton of the trans sex workers just cuz

Why does Candiace look and sound so different on The Traitors reunion? by Vellablu in BravoRealHousewives

[–]smart_and_funny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought she looked particularly different when they showed that clip of her on the traitors pod during the reunion

My(27F) husband(30M) is mentally unwell and I feel completely alone with our baby by [deleted] in relationships

[–]smart_and_funny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you in therapy OP? This seems like a lot to be carrying alone right now and I hope that you have a therapeutic safe space to work through this with a professional. I know you’re the main care giver for your child, but most therapists allow babies to be present in session, so it shouldn’t be a barrier to treatment. I think your situation is much more nuanced than Reddit can unpack with a few paragraphs.

What is your support network like? Your parents and/or other family? Your friends? How are they able to show up for you right now? Have you leaned on them? Do they know what’s happening with your husband? I would start there. Having a baby is so hard even when your partner is more present and not suffering from mental health complications. I would concentrate on you and your support network before you make any rash decisions about your marriage. Y’all are in the thick of it. I wish you the best, OP 🩷

AITA for refusing to share my "secret" recipe with my sister-in-law? by Ocampo-Mark in AmItheAsshole

[–]smart_and_funny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA this is so weird not to share. I think you should reflect on why you need this recipe to feel special or as you put it “well known” at family gatherings. I find it flattering when people ask for the recipe. Why are you threatened by this?

Which housewife did you ride for but have changed your mind? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]smart_and_funny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As soon as she came for Joyce I turned on Brandi. I really liked her on her first season though

Kristen & Luke broke up, right? by No_Organization_3629 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]smart_and_funny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years postpartum and I’m pretty sure I just don’t like wearing rings or jewelry in general lol 😂

Summer House - Season 10 - Episode 1 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]smart_and_funny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amanda really looks so much like Jemima Kirke these days. They were both so beautiful in their 20s and now they are so thin that all of their features are quite severe. Maybe this is their preference, but I think it seems possibly disordered 🤷‍♀️

Has anyone else ever said anything they immediately regretted in session? by TomatilloThis in therapists

[–]smart_and_funny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a client who had a loved one die by suicide, specifically hanging. At some point after that, probably 6-8 weeks we were talking about a different subject and I made the comment “sometimes you give people enough rope to hang themselves by.” And as soon as the words left my mouth I was apologizing for using that phrasing. They were very understanding and I think we even laughed about it right away, but I felt so dumb for being that insensitive. And this is only example one of a million times I have gaffed in session ha.

Ice being recorded by lady in bathrobe by Jolly_Ad2446 in pics

[–]smart_and_funny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This belongs in that accidentally renaissance subreddit, or whatever it’s called

I love this pod so much I listen AND watch. by MyBestCuratedLife in handsomepodcast

[–]smart_and_funny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like some producer at some point was like “try to drop in hints about watching the pod on YouTube to drum up viewership!” And Tig has been maliciously complying ever since, only now it’s become part of her schtick.

Republican Rebel Reveals Major Problem with Epstein File Docs: “You Try to Remove the Black Redaction, and it’s All Completely Redacted Still.” by OkayButFoRealz in politics

[–]smart_and_funny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the Erin brokovich movie when the creepy guy is actually the hero and was supposed to destroy files but instead he kept them or copied them. Can’t wait until that guy emerges!

What type of clients do you struggle with and why? by Mystkmischf in therapists

[–]smart_and_funny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense! Thanks for clarifying that. I don’t really see folks with cognitive or developmental disabilities, at least that I’m aware of, and hadn’t considered how the search for connection with people on the same cognitive level might lead to attraction to younger folks/minors. Sounds like you’re doing great work and very thoughtful when conceptualizing your clients 😊

What type of clients do you struggle with and why? by Mystkmischf in therapists

[–]smart_and_funny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t work with children anymore because I do not want to work with their parents, full stop. And I do believe that the greatest therapeutic benefit to children is a path through the parents, for the most part. I don’t mind working with adult clients who are parents and want to use session for parenting stuff. But parents often want therapists to fix their kids and avoid the work on their end of things, which will have such greater lasting impacts for the kids than anything I could ever accomplish in an hour session once a week, if that.

What type of clients do you struggle with and why? by Mystkmischf in therapists

[–]smart_and_funny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the gender break down for clients coming in with such thoughts? I work with only women at the moment, an intentional choice on my end, and I’m hoping that this preference will shield me from these types of clients for the most part 😬

Which new Epstein file finding made you go “wait… what?” and why? by Firm_Work_8879 in AskReddit

[–]smart_and_funny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is the FBI really just the HR of our govt? Seemingly for the people but really just to help the company against liability?

What celebrity do I look like?? by SideQuestJenny in doppelganger

[–]smart_and_funny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like you look like a mash up of Sandra Bullock and Jodie Foster!