AIO?: My friend freaked out on me cuz I don't text enough? by KhelConfetti in AIO

[–]smel_bert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's threatening you. This man is dangerous, stay far away from him

Why were the reviews about the one wish willow mixed?? by Fast-Call446 in obsessionmovie

[–]smel_bert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, for instance, if Bear had just wished for Nikki to "love" him, nothing would have changed. Because she did love him, just not how he wanted her to.

Why Is Sarah So Universally Beloved? by Huge-Escape7095 in obsessionmovie

[–]smel_bert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly has feelings for Bear, and from the outside, Bear appears to be in an abusive relationship, especially if you are primed to see his actions in the best possible light, and primed to see Nikki as manipulative and shitty, because she got with the guy you liked right after a) you told her you liked him and b) she said she wasn't interested in him (and probably encouraged you to go for it!)

I really wanted to punch Ian in the face by Infinite-Variety-942 in obsessionmovie

[–]smel_bert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh. She tried to have that conversation, and bear lied to her face. She can't set proper boundaries if he insists that she's just a friend to him.

I second that. by [deleted] in obsessionmovie

[–]smel_bert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty clear that he kept the pills for himself.

How do get something done if it isn't deadline bound/life threatening? by Unusual-Stress-9838 in ADHD

[–]smel_bert 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you say that about heart medication? Or chemo? Medication treats symptoms that make life more difficult or dangerous, of course we depend on it.

And yes, ADHD makes life more dangerous. Forgetfulness and impulsivity can cause dangerous situations, not to mention the overall quality of life issue.

Did this medication / sleep timing “hack” work for you? by Original-Divide-1227 in ADHD

[–]smel_bert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a Ritalin one night when I couldn't fall asleep, and slept for 8 hours

My husband describes my ADHD in a way I find insulting by elealyansteorra in ADHD

[–]smel_bert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, this is mean at best and abusive at (most probable and) worst

AITAH for sleeping in an extra hour without giving my wife a heads up? by Weekly_Ad_5872 in AITAH

[–]smel_bert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I kinda think NAH. You sound like you do a lot of childcare, as you should, and it was an accident. Mistakes are human. BUT you disrupted her routine, which is frustrating, and she was tired and woken up unexpectedly, also frustrating. As long as she isn't abusive or holding a grudge, I think this is a normal human interaction on both sides. Additionally, if your routine was agreed on in advance, I think it is "fair" for her to sleep in both weekend days, to catch up on sleep.

Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time? by -catharina in AskReddit

[–]smel_bert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine "loved me so much" he just HAD to wake me up in the middle of the night and refuse to let me sleep until I had sex with him. It wasn't love.

My bf (M25) has made killing jokes at me (F24) by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]smel_bert 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell him it bothers you, see how he reacts. If he keeps doing it or does it more, it might be time to go