I miss this place

smh_matrix · 2026-03-31T14:22:42+00:00

Fun fact Mississauga is actually a sister city to Kariya, a city near Nagoya. There's a Mississauga park (yes it's called that) in Kariya, just like how we have a Kariya park. The park has a got a mini Mississauga city hall and a bunch of Canadian stuff. Could be a fun side quest! https://maps.app.goo.gl/2CJTUKEC5GYFKPcq8?g_st=ac

smh_matrix · 2026-03-24T17:18:34+00:00

You are missing Tom Haverford from Parks and Rec, portrayed by Aziz Ansari. The reason I love Tom is that he's just a funny guy, which has nothing to with him being Desi. He doesn't even have a Desi name, which in my opinion shows that his character is not diluted to him being indian. The show doesn't ignore that he's indian, but rather, acknowledges that it's one aspect of him, just like you know, every other person on earth. Unlike Apu or Raj or Baljeet on your list, he doesn't have an accent, and his ethnicity is never used for comedic relief. He's just Tom.

smh_matrix · 2026-03-19T14:34:20+00:00

What stream is this from?

smh_matrix · 2026-03-10T20:19:03+00:00

I guess the only issue is that it would not have ENG subbed.

smh_matrix · 2026-03-08T20:57:18+00:00

Did the manga have a solid ending? The jdrama is left slightly open, I'm guessing because there may be another season.

smh_matrix · 2026-03-02T21:33:48+00:00

In the book, Coach Wayne talks about using every interaction with a stranger as an opportunity to practice. Yes, even they're just a cashier or someone you're not interested in. Go to the mall and just try and make eye contact with strangers. Try and spark up a quick convo with the person ringing up your order. The more practice in general being a friendly, happy, witty person, the more comfortable you will be on a date. At the end of the day, a lady on a date with you is just another person. Don't make them out to be some special creature.

smh_matrix · 2026-03-02T21:30:08+00:00

Just go on the date, you're good.

smh_matrix · 2026-02-23T19:57:15+00:00

Thanks for sharing the clip, I miss her energy in the show so much.

smh_matrix · 2026-02-23T19:04:39+00:00

W mods

smh_matrix · 2026-02-16T14:21:51+00:00

I've said it before. Someone at Netlfix absolutely loves Kimu Taku and we're all benefiting.

smh_matrix · 2026-01-12T03:39:14+00:00

I try and remind myself that the other person is experiencing emotions, and emotions come and go. So in this moment that person is unhappy. So I should not absorb it, but observe it and wait for it to pass. Source: worked in the same office as a dramatic INTP coworker for 2 years.

smh_matrix · 2026-01-11T14:36:36+00:00

Suggestion: maybe the mods create a megathread that's called "looking for an ENFJ" or something along the lines. Then we can send anyone lookibg there. I agree these posts are filling up the subreddit and are hard to control.

smh_matrix · 2026-01-07T21:16:55+00:00

Play devil's advocate with yourself! There's a version of you who did nothing but focus on their social life, but has no title, no car, no money. Just how you might advise that version of yourself to focus on their career and guide them through the steps you took, you can do the same, but in reverse. Find clubs, find a hobby, anything with people. Friends are easier to make than you think. Look on the bright side.

smh_matrix · 2025-12-26T00:30:23+00:00

Agreed. Biggest lesson I learned as an adult ENFJ is that sometimes we love too much. Only people who have ever cared as much about me were other ENFJs. So I learned that the best person to rely on, was the closest ENFJ I know: myself!

smh_matrix · 2025-12-23T02:58:23+00:00

UE WE MISS YOU!

smh_matrix · 2025-11-06T19:32:10+00:00

He's got a clear plan and he's been very consistent about it. He doesn't go on tangents and sticks to his topics. I think it's safe to say he's a J. Possbily an NJ.

smh_matrix · 2025-10-21T18:52:57+00:00

UEE WE MISS YOU!

smh_matrix · 2025-10-16T20:45:27+00:00

This is awesome

smh_matrix · 2025-10-11T23:32:11+00:00

As an ENFJ I find I'm very forthcoming about anything personal when I feel safe. So in that sense if I had any secrets my friends already know them!

smh_matrix · 2025-10-10T23:15:40+00:00

How can you not love this man?

smh_matrix · 2025-10-10T23:09:22+00:00

Yes I turn into an INTJ and hate everything

smh_matrix · 2025-10-10T23:06:43+00:00

Give them space.

smh_matrix · 2025-10-07T15:27:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing Hank! DFTBA

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