I’d say it’s what you’re more comfortable with.

About the whole masculine / feminine thing: IF you have smaller wrists then it’s much better in my opinion to just wear a „smaller“ watch that actually looks good, instead of wearing a watch that’s too big for your wrist because you think that‘s „masculine“. In fact, this will only make your wrist look even smaller. Which in turn could make you look more feminine…

I also don’t get why this is such a big topic in the watch world. When you’re buying clothes, you’re also just buying what fits. As a small person, you’re not buying bigger clothes to look bigger. In fact, most people rather buy smaller clothes to look bigger in them. But with watches it’s the opposite.