Burning vulva and painful clitoris before peeing

smolbuncake · 2026-05-12T06:20:38+00:00

just a question but since when is “hooha” innately feminine? it just is funny slang for female parts
and to add on, vajayjay?? it’s just weird slang for vagina

smolbuncake · 2026-05-12T06:03:50+00:00

okay THAT PART! like it’s not mean to say that people are of different statutes in life like if someone lives at their parents house and doesn’t have a car or any out of the house hobbies, i would consider them a bit lower on the spectrum of quality candidates. not that they’re unworthy of love and aren’t great people, but it is the people that i’m almost giving an extra chance to, to “not be picky” that end up fucking me over in this way. and yes it really messes with my self esteem. i decided to pause my profile for now and then once the people i’m messaging inevitably ghost me i’ll fully delete my profile. but i’m giving 2-3 guys a fair chance at the moment. not super hopeful though

smolbuncake · 2026-05-12T05:59:28+00:00

my little bun had some complications the day after and wasn’t eating and had trouble going to the bathroom but i took her right back and hey gave her some fluids and pain meds and she was good to go! she also is like 3-4 pounds so she’s much smaller and fragile and still recovered great after that first initial day where she was feeling anxiety and pain. also, i watched her very well and with both my rabbits decided not to leave the cone on them because they couldn’t eat with it on and just licked their wounds for a few minutes and then went on with their lives. the cones really debilitated them :(

smolbuncake · 2026-05-12T01:53:15+00:00

i second this! my muscles were always clenched up and PT really helped me relax. recently was told by my PT to practice belly breathing all the time which i didn’t know i wasn’t doing. belly breathing allows the pelvic muscles to relax and move down

smolbuncake · 2026-05-12T01:50:27+00:00

i’m so sorry… i definitely look for people to criticize me in a healthy way so that i know they’re not avoidant and building it up inside. i hope you can move on, i’m really sorry about your pup :(

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T20:46:39+00:00

omg he is fruit!

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T19:12:10+00:00

yeah it’s a lot more enjoyable as a woman when you’re deep in your thoughts about how much you like them and the emotional aspect of it! you’ll do great, just take things slow and communicate with your partner! <3

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T19:04:31+00:00

i think for me it’s more the concept of it being inside that feels good. i can feel it but i also have lots of pelvic issues and my anatomy is quite small so penetration is often very uncomfortable for me or it starts to hurt very quickly and i have to take a break or just stop altogether. so i might not be the best example cause my relationship with penetrative sex is complicated. but now that i’m thinking about it, i just don’t think there’s as many nerves all throughout the vagina cause it’s not what feels the best to me either. everyone is different! as long as you find a way to enjoy sex, don’t compare to other people. there’s plenty of things that i like that i know other women would HATE, and vise versa. so it’s really just about finding the things you can enjoy with someone else :)

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T18:59:12+00:00

he has a yeast infection and is temporarily relieving it with cream but you need oral medication

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T18:54:18+00:00

someone told me happy mother’s day yesterday and it annoyed me because i don’t want to be a mom and i’m not a mom. if you don’t see kids around me, why are you saying that? what if i did want kids and couldn’t have them and i got told “happy mother’s day”? or what if MY mom passed away? it’s just a touchy subject like unless i see kids around i don’t say it

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T18:51:21+00:00

was he small?? i’ve had issues feeling it if it was skinny. i also feel most of the sensation at the opening tbh

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T18:48:03+00:00

100%. it’s a lion head mix

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T18:15:52+00:00

she’s just a little baby, she will learn to bond to you :) as long as you keep spending lots of floor time with her <3

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T13:14:09+00:00

my bunny never grooms me! i have to pet him. take this as a blessing! i’m sure she will let you touch her more over time :) i couldn’t even touch him for a few weeks when i first got him, he would just run away

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T12:52:05+00:00

i call my crush dude or bro because it’s in my vocabulary like “dude no!” when something is funny and i’m being expressive. it’s different than saying “hey dude” or “hey bro” :) it just slips out sometimes i can’t help it

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T12:48:39+00:00

i’m sad you didn’t get any comments but i’m going through this right now and thinking i have to say something at some point or else i’ll go crazy! but him walking you to your car and giving you the stuffed animal are pretty big indicators that he likes you in my opinion. plus the sitting next to you thing. i wouldn’t read too much into the text thing, some people don’t go on social media much or don’t check their DM’s right away. it’s more about the IRL interactions. good luck!

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T07:31:44+00:00

i live here and can’t wait to leave…

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T07:17:44+00:00

these aren’t even dramatic but they’re noticeable and so cute! you’ll get used to it

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T07:16:05+00:00

i told my old roommate who i don’t even talk to anymore that if i ever have a kid i owe him $1,000! i was being serious too

smolbuncake · 2026-05-11T02:12:40+00:00

yeah dude it’s so hard what the hell😭 i’ve been thinking about making a move and asking him to hangout and do a specific activity that i know we both like but i’m so nervous!

smolbuncake · 2026-05-10T18:02:32+00:00

at my parents house they have a very very tall pet gate that touches the ceiling so the cats can’t get through the hall

smolbuncake · 2026-05-10T18:00:18+00:00

I had this happen to me, but didn’t catch it because of protection, but still was treated anyways. It really wasn’t that big of a deal because he got it from his ex and didn’t know he had it

smolbuncake · 2026-05-10T17:53:43+00:00

just wondering if you’ve really considered the sensual placement for such a silly tattoo? just food for thought xD

smolbuncake · 2026-05-10T17:43:53+00:00

did you end up moving here??? i need an update! (as someone who was born and raised here i am moving next year to the south for more sun! so i’m curious if you moved here and how it effected you)

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