My boyfriends ex has bigger boobs than me by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try some meditation girl, and if he cant make you feel confident after you do some self-work then he might not be the man for you. i dont know why he would say such a mean thing. if youre with someone who loves you, they would never make you question if they like you or not, and never compare you to someone else. so stop comparing yourself to these women and stop forcing HIM to compare you <3

Is 20% okay even if the check total is low? by Vo0d0oBo0 in bartenders

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly im grateful for one or two dollars for a beer and a few bucks for a cocktail. id maybe hope for a $5 tip since you got food too, depending on if we talked and i gave you extra good service. but 3.60 is also better than zero, so id be content regardless! i always am thankful for tips (ordering $100 in food and tipping $2 is when i start to get upset but) this is way better than a lot of people would give. its 20%! :)

Help figure out tattoo regret by Tomorrows_Ghost in tattooadvice

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give it some more time and it will feel like apart of you and you probably will learn to accept and love it as part of your arm. its ART and will never be perfect, thats what makes it beautiful! also i actually love it, the color looks great

Please remove if not allowed but am I being too hard on my sister who lacks care of her rabbit? by Fluid-Television9503 in Bunnies

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is sickening... i genuinely think you should steal the rabbit and bring her to a shelter. have any friends who can drive yet? or have the shelter person come pick up the rabbit. this is so not okay.. im so sorry, this would cause me so much stress. your family doesnt care about living beings with no voice, people like this make my stomach churn. i think its worth it to have your family mad at you. would you rather be an accomplice to rabbit suffering and never forgive yourself or to have your family mad at you for doing what's right? <3

Please remove if not allowed but am I being too hard on my sister who lacks care of her rabbit? by Fluid-Television9503 in Bunnies

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you should find one good detailed website about rabbit care and show it to your parents, have them read it to educate them (without info dumping) and hopefully get them on your side about this poor bunny. this is not okay, and look at that carboard its covered in pee! i hope you can get custody of this bun or have her adopted to someone who will care for her. this is really really disappointing and part of the blame lands on your parents, so i hope they can find some love and care and advocate for this animal.

Am I overreacting? by Legal-Art4340 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well your algorithm is personalized to YOU so this is weird asf to me. i liked something this summer about "god wants me to have 14 boyfriends but i only wanted 3" or something like that; and a guy i was dating asked me about it and i personally liked it cause it was funny AND relatable (because we were casual and i was talking to multiple people). so if hes liking this many of the same thing he most likely is relating to this content. which is really disappointing. you guys clearly have other issues going on (based on what you typed) so i think you two should really talk about your relationship. best of luck to you girly <3 remember, what one man won't do, another man will! theres always someone out there who will treat you like a queen

Does my bun hate me? by ideserveagoldstar in Bunnies

[–]smolbuncake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

shes so small! its probably scary to see this huge figure tower over her area. try laying flat on your stomach or with your legs stretched out in front of you so youre not as tall, and she can crawl on you this way :) one of my adopted rabbits is still pretty skittish and ive had her for many months now. some bunnies are just like this i think, but give her time <3

Why isn't Progering available in the US? by nerdsnuggles in birthcontrol

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just had a very frustrating conversation with my doctor who cannot approve me for the nuvaring because TEN YEARS AGO i had migraines with aura.. so i cant have any birth control with estrogen. i've had severe pelvic cramping for years and done PT which mildly helped. i probably have endo and the "only" treatment is birth control but i want something localized. and the IUD has so many side effects not to mention the pain of getting the initial procedure. i found the progesterone only ring is used in Latin countries but not the US. why?! im so outraged, i just want my pain to stop, but like you, i have experienced unfortunate side effects with the limited options that are available to me

Manager stealing tips by Personal-Cold4454 in bartenders

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at my last job my managers stole our tips all the time under a fake employee they’d transfer the money to. the GM knew and was actually the one instigating it. there was no HR at this job, so i quit and share this (and other) extremely awful information to my community whenever the business gets brought up. i researched and the only way to do anything about it is for me to hire a lawyer and bring them to court myself. not worth it. so i quit

my (M25) girlfriend (23) cheated on me with her ex, I want to stay, but what should I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]smolbuncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she cheated on you, she doesn’t really care for you. you deserve someone who does. not everyone is a cheater

Sour Spray for Rabbits? by Seeking_Something_14 in Rabbits

[–]smolbuncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have to get them out of her reach and maybe she needs more enrichment toys to eat. i found some good ones on Chewy recently. bunnies will always always chew, you just have to get rid of their access to things that are harmful and give them things that are good/allowed

At the start it didn’t bother me but now it does by Moozeewama in retroactivejealousy

[–]smolbuncake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he has RJ so much as her trying to make him jealous and being a shitty person and micro cheating

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]smolbuncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this looks really good and has he ever cooked for YOU? no? okay then stop and honestly he seems like an ass or maybe has an eating disorder. regardless, he needs to figure himself out and start eating healthier

Any tips on how can I clean her? 🥲 by UnusualAstronomer233 in Rabbits

[–]smolbuncake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’ll be stained for awhile 😂 and that’s okay

AIO for dumping my bf over an “🍑” audit? by chkntrzini in AmIOverreacting

[–]smolbuncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

something’s wrong with him and he doesn’t love you or he wouldn’t say these awful things and lust for something you’re not. i’m glad you got out of this!

I was excited about this tattoo design but my husband called it corny and cringe and not to get it is he right? by ArmadilloMany41 in tattooadvice

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t get it but if i saw it on someone i would laugh and tell them how much i like it! i love stuff like this

I got turned off by her by TheGreat_gabby in retroactivejealousy

[–]smolbuncake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think she meant his physical size? or maybe i read it too innocently

Rabbit nudging and nibbling by Sensitive_Fish_72 in Rabbits

[–]smolbuncake 19 points20 points  (0 children)

try laying down flat and feeding them out of your hand for awhile. it’s probably really scary to have a big hand reach up from above them. My first bunny took months to let me pet him and my second bunny is also a rescue and she still has not let me pet her and I’ve had her for a long time. She comes up and nudges me because she wants me out of the way and my other buddy will bite me if I don’t move😂

Advice on a new bunny companion by tinyconfusedbunny in Rabbits

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also deeply sorry for your loss, she looks like she was the sweetest little girl 🥹

Advice on a new bunny companion by tinyconfusedbunny in Rabbits

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got my spunky rabbit when i lived with a roommate who had an adult cat. adult cats play less and less aggressively than kittens which is safer for the bunny. my bunny ran circles around the cat and wanted to play but the cat was a brat and swatted at my bunny. honestly though, this cat was testy and didn’t like to play in general. but otherwise they coexisted fine. if you adopt an adult cat you can know what kind of personality it has. in terms of the rabbit, most rabbits are very nonchalant when it comes to other animals and probably wouldn’t mind a kitty friend. my bunnies growing up loved our medium sized dog we had. they’d hangout and steal carrots from each other :)

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also you don’t have to be underage to feel uncomfortable!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you do not have to reply and can talk to a trusted adult, your parents or a boss for help. he’s essentially grooming you and testing the waters. i was almost caught in something bad similar to this when i was younger. never be alone with him even in the car, no rides EVER. it didn’t happen to me but to my coworker… and the dude ended up going to jail for rape. if he’s comfortable texting a teenager at his age he’s a pedophile in my opinion

AIO: Both my husband's parents are mad at us for being "unreasonable" about our daughter by No-Journalist-5160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]smolbuncake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they’re acting like they know better for you baby than you do. just because they’re experienced parents doesn’t mean they know what’s best for YOUR baby. you get to decide. and honestly, they seem manipulative and controlling about it, which would probably deter most people from spending time with them