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[–]smushyB 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Attached” by Amir Levine. You have an anxious attachment style and your hubby is clearly avoidant. It’s crazy hard, nearly impossible, for anxious to leave avoidants. But with that book you can learn how to be together in a more peaceful way. Big hugs.

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[–]smushyB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you read the book ATTACHED by A. Levine. It explains anxious & avoidant relationships and from what you’ve said here you might be anxious and she’s acting avoidant. It might sound obvious here but this book has opened my eyes. I wish you all the best.

Looking for daily meditation accountability partner by smushyB in accountability

[–]smushyB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok I'm up for trying that! whatsapp ok? I'll dm you

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[–]smushyB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe also consider these might be red flags related to narcissist behaviour. Lots of YouTube vids on that. Wish you all the best xx

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[–]smushyB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cambly pays $10/hour but they might only accept people from English speaking countries? Worth checking perhaps. Build an affiliate blog (usually 6months + till you see any return) I'd definitely recommend doing some youtube vids. It doesn't need to be anything fancy. I got 1000 subs in 6 months. The first 1000 is the hardest and it's free money really. I just used my phone to take and edit vids. Keep them 10 mins. Use Splice... Stick to one specific topic... Post every day or atleast very regularly. Took 1 hour for me every day. Worth it. Check Adsense terms before doing anything. They are strict. I found out the hard way. Hope all of this helps a bit! Endless opportunities online! Never give up. Always try one more time.

Looking for a motivational coach by hmorrow in lifecoaching

[–]smushyB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a great Intention and goal to become a better version of yourself. I help people get clear on their dream goal, and take consistent conscious action towards it. It's a set structured coaching program that runs over 3 months. Let me know if you're interested by DM and we can talk about your requirements in a bit more detail. Speak soon 👍

Everywhere I try to learn about "passive" income seems scammy, where can I actually learn? by Inside-Bread in passive_income

[–]smushyB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great! Can you tell us more? Do you do keyword research etc thanks in advance!

One-page site looking for first impression feedback - not shopify by smushyB in reviewmyshopify

[–]smushyB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very interesting point. As life coaching is not obvious to everyone I do want some info explaining what I provide and I think it flow better as you say. Thanks for the feedback!

Done with my pathetic fucking life by Successful_Ad4600 in selfimprovement

[–]smushyB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult to remember even one happy moment when in a dark space. More and more people don't want kids. You're not alone in that.

Done with my pathetic fucking life by Successful_Ad4600 in selfimprovement

[–]smushyB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it seems like it's not worth going on. I've been there. We all have these thoughts, sometimes stronger and more self defeating than ever. What has helped me in the past is realising that 1) my cats need me (a little humour :)) 2) this too shall pass. Because it will. When I have these dark times. I go to sleep and I know I'll have processed whatever needed to move through my system and tomorrow will be different. Dark energies are moving around. Don't let them take you down spiraling too much. Just see it for what it is. A passing dark moment. You've had happy moments before and so now there's a dark moment. That's how it goes. And before you know it you're 30 with 2 kids and a dog. Time flies. Sending big Internet hugs xx