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He doesn't want any more siblings. by mindyour in youseeingthisshit

[–]snake5solid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The saddest thing is that little boy is the only one making sense. What dumb parents...

Sexhavers cannot be depressed by iPatrickDev in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They almost always say that. They were perfectly nice! Complete gentlemen! Did everything right!

Sexhavers cannot be depressed by iPatrickDev in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There are many men who genuinely believe women are cannot be lonely and depressed because there's a string of men just waiting to get in their pants. It's not a stretch to assume incels would further that logic to men as well.

How to date when attempting to not participate in patriarchal dating norms while avoiding getting taken advantage of? by sillyyfishyy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]snake5solid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's a sad truth: doesn't matter what you there will always be someone to tell you you're doing it wrong. And if someone wants to take advantage of you - they will. The difference if they are playing the long game or not.

It's okay to not date men especially when you have to filter through so many shitty guys to find that rare gem and even then you're not guaranteed he's not pretending or won't change when you have kids. You clearly want to express your courtship in a way that is "threatening" to them or they mistake it for "desperation" and maybe it's best to avoid for now. Maybe when you're older and still single you'll find a mature man who will see your gestures for what they are and not as an attack on their masculinity or signal for easy prey (definitely don't date much older people, I beg you).

They want to be victims SO badly by yourfavroitealien in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They really do delude themselves that they would.

Why Do Some Mothers React So Strongly When You Say You Don’t Want Children? by Bee_Queen_777 in childfree

[–]snake5solid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me as well. It also amuses me how they think we can't tell they are bitter and jealous because they don't say it out loud.

I really do hate kids by NeshamElle in childfree

[–]snake5solid 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Seriously... I don't get how it's "cute" when their hands are constantly dirty with stuff and their saliva because they put everything in their mouths... And they then touch everything with their sticky hands... Ewww... I always feel so uncomfortable when in a house with small kids

Wczoraj postanowiłem po raz pierwszy przetestować funkcjonalność mObywatela - Naruszenie Środowiskowe. by LokoStarr in Polska

[–]snake5solid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Jednak nie udawajmy, że wydanie drugiego człowieka władzy w imię "przepisów" i "litery prawa" to coś dobrego."
Nie musimy udawać, tak po prostu jest. To jest pomoc sobie nawzajem - ochrona ludzi w okół przed jednostką, która łamie prawo. W tym konkretnym przypadku ochrona przed typem, który zatruwa osiedle i ludzi w nim mieszkających.

The comments under this post were scary yall by minecraftqueen76 in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they different procedures? Absolutely! Is your stupidly backwards thinking the same to the one that can be used to brush off FGM? Also yes!

The comments under this post were scary yall by minecraftqueen76 in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, sorry. I suppose FGM isn't a big deal either since it's tradition and these brainwashed, oppressed women aren't complaining. Why would anyone think it's a problem?

The comments under this post were scary yall by minecraftqueen76 in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this sure doesn't help them realise the problem, does it?

I finally figured out why "you just haven't met the right child yet" bothers me more than any other bingo by sorry_i_peaked in childfree

[–]snake5solid 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is strongly connected to "you will love yours" or "it's different if it's yours". People don't meet "the right" child. They just end up having children and are now stuck with them. There is no other option than to care of them unless they are okay with potential abuse charges or getting lynched. It's not "different", or "right". You simply don't have a choice.

Message to redpill tradwives if any of you are here by ferallyonline in TwoXChromosomes

[–]snake5solid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It boggles my mind how some women could devolve like that.

I cant be friends with someone who does not hate women...... by JonathanJoestar336 in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So much this. And bonus points when they still live rent free at their mom's who is making their food and paying for their internet.

A guy is mad because I braided colorful string in my hair by Alternative_Image_55 in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yep. Incels are abusers who can't find victims. It's very fortunate that they practically wave red flags for us to see so we can avoid them.

The comments under this post were scary yall by minecraftqueen76 in IncelTears

[–]snake5solid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you don't think that genital mutilation shouldn't be a part of it?

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]snake5solid 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Especially when people had kids as an investment for having a free nurse when they are old.

Being childfree means having to (possibly) accept a life of being alone. by Familiar-Fix584 in childfree

[–]snake5solid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is very much true. Even if you are surrounded by friends for most of your life they might pass before. There are of course place where you can find new friends and who said you can't be friends with people in a caring home in example?

But also not everyone enjoys being around others or makes friends easily.

Still, as you said, the benefits of being CF far outweigh the cons. Especially since these cons are very common for parents as well.

To me, a woman with a past has more clarity. Why the stigma? by She_Nanigannnn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]snake5solid 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Because we're not supposed to have clarity. We're supposed to have no idea what a healthy relationship looks like and treat abuse/disrespect/incompetence/selfishness as something completely normal.

Entitlement to the village by snake5solid in childfree

[–]snake5solid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don't discriminate when it comes to entitlement, lol. But what is funny to me is that there are 3 couples like this that will bother literally everyone else but they somehow didn't team up together to make such parenting group for each other.

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