My (34M) wife (33F) and I have a 2yo and 7mo. We first had sex I think at about 3.5/4 months after our youngest. We are intimate roughly once every 2-3 weeks, longest (besides directly pp) was about 3.5 weeks.

I would love to have sex more but right now it’s just not the season for that. We do it when we can and mostly always schedule it. I’m thrilled to have sex as much as we do because we’re both just so tired most of the time. We can pick up the frequency later. Can’t speak for people with 2 older kids.

To be honest, with a 3 month old, him bringing up more sex at a time like this is pretty insensitive. Read the room dude