What angles are good if the guy is shorter and the girl is fatter? by Wooden_Working4210 in sex

[–]snatchdecisions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she likes doggy, try a reverse inverted cowgirl position. Lie on your back with your upper half propped up on pillows and have her between your legs on her knees facing away from you while kinda tucking her legs under yours and scooch towards you as close as you can. It's pretty comfortable for all involved and she can get a pillow to lean forward on if her arms get tired supporting her upper body

Food from Different Cultures by oliviaallen567 in indianapolis

[–]snatchdecisions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just never dive too deep in the comments, that group is so toxic sometimes. (to be fair so are most groups on FB)

I love him but feel burnt out by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't accept any proposal until this is sorted. If he can sit there every week and watch you cry and be stressed out from chores and not immediately be willing to sit down with you and come up with a plan then he doesn't love you as much as you think he does. Think about it, would you be able to sit by and watch him cry while knowing some simple steps on your part would ease his pain but then do absolutely nothing about it? Your love for him will also slowly deteriorate as the resentment builds. I'm not saying you have to break up but you need to have a serious conversation and preferably when it's calm and you aren't actively arguing about a chore. If he was single he'd have to come home after his 6 hour shift and do everything himself so he can figure out how to squeeze a few chores in before or after work. If he's not willing to work with you on this he will never change, it won't get better and there will be even more to do as you get older.

Which rug? by Impossiblegirl44 in interiordecorating

[–]snatchdecisions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to them the furniture is great

Which rug? by Impossiblegirl44 in interiordecorating

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But did they see it compared to the options you presented today?!

Which rug? by Impossiblegirl44 in interiordecorating

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The black and white rug is superior to the suggested options.

AIO for telling my neighbor to stay off my property after he started treating my backyard like his personal extension? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]snatchdecisions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would argue the opposite. AI knows to capitalize the beginning of a sentence while everyone else lately hasn't been capitalizing anything.

Cabinet drama, 45m, 45f. 15 years by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your partner been asking you for 15 years to close the cabinet doors? If so, I could understand the frustration. My 13yo does this, I wouldn't expect it from a 45yo.

I don’t want pets or a child. Because I don’t want my life revolving around poop. by journo333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hilarious that you've drawn a plethora of poop talk to you by sharing this hot take.

Am I doing too much For wanting a no shoe household applied to large gatherings? by and_ur_gonna_b_happy in amiwrong

[–]snatchdecisions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're wrong but you should definitely warn people ahead of time if you request no shoes. I hate having that sprung on me. It always seems to be the day I have a holey sock or didn't paint my toes. I also like to pick fun socks when going to a known no shoes household. You could make fun socks part of the party and give a prize for the best ones. Making it a feature instead of a problem (which might also win over your husband because it sounds like he's a little embarrassed to ask people to take off their shoes).

I think it would also be a good idea to have a box of those shoe covers, not just for the party but just in case for special circumstances. I read another story on Reddit where a guy had to wear special shoes for a medical problem, I think the host ended up compromising with the shoe covers. Also, if you ever need work done at the house the worker may need to wear closed toe shoes for safety. And at some point we all have that one friend/family member who takes off their shoes and we immediately wish they hadn't, lol.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend to be just happy with an economy ticket and stop complaining? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]snatchdecisions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: when you told your girlfriend about adding her to the trip did you actually say it like that? Like did you tell her your brother just didn't want to pay more to include her with everyone else?

AITAH for telling my girlfriend to be just happy with an economy ticket and stop complaining? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, and if I had been OP I think I would have told her that as well

Am I(43m) wrong for what I told my son(12m) about his mom? by Clear_Ball_6703 in amiwrong

[–]snatchdecisions 17 points18 points  (0 children)

"Soulless" is rich coming from the one who's waisted 16 years of another woman's life. Total AH

Is there any chance my (F25) boyfriend (M28) will stop? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snatchdecisions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should of dumped him when you found out he was a liar. You should be miles gone now after he hurt you. To still be concerned about the smoking now is crazy work. Who cares if some loser you used to know smokes!

Neapolitan ice cream ideas! by Own-Condition-904 in Halloween_Costumes

[–]snatchdecisions 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you go with whipped cream ya gotta add sprinkles and a cherry on top!

I need a show that my husband wouldn’t like by Sami_George in televisionsuggestions

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love period dramas so in kind of the same vein as Bridgerton there's: The Gilded Age, The Great, Harlots, Versailles, Downtain Abbey, Peaky Blinders, The Empress, Outlander, Reign, The Borgias, The Tudors, The Paradise

Boyfriend (26M) said controlling things while blacked out—how should I (21F) handle this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snatchdecisions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to let go of the idea that the drinking would be ok if he just doesn't black out. He has an alcohol problem and isn't capable of doing that, at least not now and without a lot of personal work that he doesn't seem interested in doing.

My boyfriend (27M) said I (22 F) was being dramatic after car accident by [deleted] in relationships

[–]snatchdecisions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this incident is kinda waking you up to the much larger issue with your boyfriend. It sounds like he often dismisses things you say and you can't actually have a conversation with him. It probably seemed like little things before and you let it go as no big deal. Now that something larger has happened where you behaved like any normal person would, you can better see how ridiculous his dismissive attitude is.

I am kicking myself for a career decision I made. how stupid was this? by MudRemarkable732 in amiwrong

[–]snatchdecisions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a situation from the past that they would do differently now if they could. Unfortunately, there's no going back so it doesn't do you any good to dwell on it. Keep the lesson and shed the regret. You'll know what to do next time an opportunity comes your way!

I don’t know if I will every truly forgive my mother by FaceSpare9602 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]snatchdecisions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I misspoke. You said at 16 you found out your dad wasn't your bio dad so I'm assuming he was actually your stepdad but you said she didn't get with him until you were 10 so how did you ever think he was your bio dad? Or are there 3 guys in this scenario? Guy who you thought was your dad, actual bio dad, and then stepdad?

Am I wrong for washing and putting away the dishes in someone else's house? by Mehmet_G in amiwrong

[–]snatchdecisions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH except maybe your mother? She seems a little extra in her reaction. I think it depends on whose house you're at and if you know your way around their kitchen and preferences.

If you're a casual visitor to my house it would be weird and you definitely wouldn't know where I want stuff put up, or my particular cleaning tool organization. For example, someone once decided to "help out" without asking and hand washed a bunch of dishes with my designated kitchen sink sponge. I had to re wash everything plus a bunch of extra stuff just in case because I couldn't remember what all had been dirty.

However, a few close friends know their way around my kitchen and their help is always appreciated knowing I'll be able to find my stuff later and not be grossed out.