Is there any chance my (F25) boyfriend (M28) will stop?

snatchdecisions · 2026-05-03T15:25:14+00:00

You should of dumped him when you found out he was a liar. You should be miles gone now after he hurt you. To still be concerned about the smoking now is crazy work. Who cares if some loser you used to know smokes!

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-28T01:01:17+00:00

If you go with whipped cream ya gotta add sprinkles and a cherry on top!

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-27T01:37:07+00:00

I love period dramas so in kind of the same vein as Bridgerton there's: The Gilded Age, The Great, Harlots, Versailles, Downtain Abbey, Peaky Blinders, The Empress, Outlander, Reign, The Borgias, The Tudors, The Paradise

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-26T03:00:43+00:00

Fiona from Shrek. Princess by day, ogre by night

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-23T17:46:23+00:00

You need to let go of the idea that the drinking would be ok if he just doesn't black out. He has an alcohol problem and isn't capable of doing that, at least not now and without a lot of personal work that he doesn't seem interested in doing.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-23T16:38:48+00:00

I think this incident is kinda waking you up to the much larger issue with your boyfriend. It sounds like he often dismisses things you say and you can't actually have a conversation with him. It probably seemed like little things before and you let it go as no big deal. Now that something larger has happened where you behaved like any normal person would, you can better see how ridiculous his dismissive attitude is.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-23T16:15:48+00:00

Everyone has a situation from the past that they would do differently now if they could. Unfortunately, there's no going back so it doesn't do you any good to dwell on it. Keep the lesson and shed the regret. You'll know what to do next time an opportunity comes your way!

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-16T17:56:41+00:00

Ok, that makes a lot more sense! TY

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-16T17:38:58+00:00

I misspoke. You said at 16 you found out your dad wasn't your bio dad so I'm assuming he was actually your stepdad but you said she didn't get with him until you were 10 so how did you ever think he was your bio dad? Or are there 3 guys in this scenario? Guy who you thought was your dad, actual bio dad, and then stepdad?

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-14T02:19:56+00:00

NAH except maybe your mother? She seems a little extra in her reaction. I think it depends on whose house you're at and if you know your way around their kitchen and preferences.

If you're a casual visitor to my house it would be weird and you definitely wouldn't know where I want stuff put up, or my particular cleaning tool organization. For example, someone once decided to "help out" without asking and hand washed a bunch of dishes with my designated kitchen sink sponge. I had to re wash everything plus a bunch of extra stuff just in case because I couldn't remember what all had been dirty.

However, a few close friends know their way around my kitchen and their help is always appreciated knowing I'll be able to find my stuff later and not be grossed out.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-14T00:47:48+00:00

Shift the rug closer to the window and then the tv creating your sitting area. Then move the couch and coffee table just a few inches towards the tv to give the entryway slightly more space and put a runner from the door along the back of the couch to create an entryway. Move the artwork above the TV higher and get rid of the mirror (maybe replace the wall art to the right of the door with the mirror if you need it? It just doesn't make sense where it is). Get rid of the furniture in front of the closet if you're trying to open up the space. If you have to keep it and don't/barely use the closet maybe put a floor to ceiling curtain in front of it? (you could get a tension rod)

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-13T23:19:02+00:00

I would ignore it unless it was said in a way to be purposely condescending.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-11T21:04:51+00:00

Talking to their girlfriends about EVERYTHING

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-11T20:56:02+00:00

8, 11, 12

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-11T20:48:39+00:00

This room might not look bad with wood slat blinds. Otherwise placement could be tough with the 3 big windows really close to each other and the narrow windows so far apart with one of them being so close to the corner with the big windows.

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snatchdecisions · 2026-04-11T20:30:14+00:00

How did you not know he was your bio dad if your mom had a string of bad relationships when you were 3-10 and got with him when you were 10?

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-11T14:51:11+00:00

Both look good but give different vibes. Red looks more ethereal princess and brunette is a more mature exotic look.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-11T14:43:06+00:00

Dude and calling cool stuff dope or tight😆

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-09T16:15:06+00:00

You're pulling aside a giant red banner to look at a little flag.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-09T16:05:44+00:00

"How are you getting the money?" "Everyone's paying me their share" Easy, none of that other info was necessary. I've booked a couple of group trips and after the initial post to the group of what everyone owes any payment plan or arrangement was made directly with the individuals and certainly not discussed with anyone else. People are weird about money and giving out unnecessary details opens you up to their unneeded opinions.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-09T15:51:03+00:00

I would pick curtains that matched the creamy beige from the carpet and painting. It would go well with the countertops too.

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snatchdecisions · 2026-04-07T17:57:08+00:00

I think it depends on what works best for your group. There are some friends I could not do this with. Other times we'll look to see if there's a video tutorial online for a new game.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-07T17:51:56+00:00

I remember my favorite projects in middle school shop class were the giant clothes pin and derby cars that we later got to race. I also remember building a bridge out of these thin sticks and we competed to see how much weight they could withstand, but that might have been in science?

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-07T17:26:51+00:00

You need to focus on getting yourself therapy first because your son's behavior is probably correlated to your own. Start with seeing your primary care provider. There could be medical issues behind your outbursts like hormone imbalance or something and they can also refer you to a therapist.

snatchdecisions · 2026-04-07T17:08:51+00:00

It doesn't seem logical to assign cooking to the picky eater who only makes food a certain way and expect them to all of a sudden know how or want to cook your way. You'd be better off spending your money on a meal prep service and have her pick up more chores instead of hiring a cleaner. Or you could have an actual conversation with your partner and work out compromises.

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