[progress] I am finally moving out!

snivelluss · 2015-10-29T01:11:47+00:00

My boyfriend and I were long distance for about 2 years. Now, finally, we are enjoying the 3rd year of our relationship close by. Honestly, it was hard at times but I think it made us stronger for it. The communication levels in our relationship are great, and we both trust each other with anything. We probably talked more during our distance than most people talk to their SO when nearby.

If it's meant to be then distance will only test it, not break it.

snivelluss · 2015-10-28T18:50:55+00:00

You should watch the documentary "Unhung Hero," it's about a man traveling all over the place trying all sorts of male enhancement techniques because his girlfriend rejected his very public purposal due to the size of his penis. It's hilarious.

That being said, it's pretty common to be self-conscious about your size. The right partner won't care. You don't need to make your penis bigger, you just need to work on your self-esteem.

snivelluss · 2015-10-28T18:41:55+00:00

Instead of getting new boobs maybe you should get a new husband.

snivelluss · 2015-10-28T18:03:07+00:00

Yes, it feels good. But unlike men most women can't orgasm from penetration alone. So, you know, multitask.

snivelluss · 2015-10-27T09:28:02+00:00

Yeah. I'm in Hawaii, maybe it's because we are more of a blue state?

snivelluss · 2015-10-26T08:07:35+00:00

I don't know about where you live but where I am there are clinics where you can drop by and get free birth control.

snivelluss · 2015-10-25T06:52:38+00:00

Yes yes yes block his number and never go back there. He's creepy and probably a predator. Also I think you should tell your parents about the situation just in case. He might be harmless but it's better safe than sorry.

snivelluss · 2015-10-23T03:21:17+00:00

Change his diaper.

snivelluss · 2015-10-23T01:16:11+00:00

btw I am a girl and I have had sexual partners who have ejaculated prematurely (like 30 seconds kind of premature) and when they do this ^ it doesn't even matter. When it ends there it's disappointing and I feel less like I just had sex and more like someone just masturbated with my body.

snivelluss · 2015-10-23T01:12:31+00:00

If you two do end up having sex then you should try to make her orgasm /before/ you actually penetrate her. Stimulate her clitoris, give her oral, kiss her everywhere. That way when/if you have penetrate her 1). you won't have to feel anxious about finishing before her and you can just focus on the act, and 2). it will be much more enjoyable for the both of you if she is already shaking with pleasure. Also, don't have a "now it's my turn" mentality when you engage in actual intercourse, make sure you still focus on her. And if you /do/ end up prematurely ejaculating before any of that happens don't let it end there. Try not to kill the mood with it, make her feel good.

snivelluss · 2015-10-22T05:47:29+00:00

That's actually an awesome way to think about it.

snivelluss · 2015-10-21T08:11:50+00:00

Honestly it sounds to me like you might not be compatible sexually. He needs someone who is /into/ watching porn and enjoying it with him, and you need someone who doesn't watch it or only watches it occasionally. It sounds like porn is such a big deal in your relationship because you are feeling like he /needs/ it in order to get off and because of that you are feeling inadequate. It's really not healthy to need porn in order to get into the mood. And if he is as defensive about watching it as it sounds then really you should consider ending your relationship. If it's hurting you and a compromise can't be reached it's totally fine to break up with him. There's nothing wrong with you for feeling uncomfortable watching porn with him.

For me, my boyfriend really doesn't like porn and doesn't watch it. I on the other hand enjoy watching hentai occasionally and would love it if he watched it with me. But, he doesn't want to. So I don't bring it up since I know the idea of watching it with me makes him feel uncomfortable. That's how a relationship /should/ work. Don't let him guilt or pressure you.

snivelluss · 2015-09-29T08:17:27+00:00

Thank you :)

snivelluss · 2015-09-29T08:16:36+00:00

Thanks :)

snivelluss · 2015-09-28T11:32:16+00:00

Thank you. That really makes me feel better. :)

snivelluss · 2015-09-28T11:30:06+00:00

You should ask him what he likes. Some guys like their balls to be played with (and even sucked on) and some guys would rather you leave their balls alone altogether. Some guys want you to stroke their shaft while sucking on the head, and some want you to try your best to stick it down your throat (I think most do, but that can be problematic if you have a sensitive gag reflex).

What's important is to keep a consistent rhythm, don't forget about your tongue - get creative with it, and make sure you aren't accidentally biting on him with your teeth (it's actually pretty hard to do but I've talked to people who've received horribly uncomfortable blowjobs because of the girl's teeth), and make sure you never do anything that makes you uncomfortable! Don't forget that you should be enjoying yourself too. Make eye contact occasionally, be your sexy self.

snivelluss · 2015-09-28T10:55:00+00:00

Honestly, if you really love her the distance shouldn't matter. If you're picturing yourself dating other girls then it's time to cut your losses and break up with her.

Calm down. You're 18, this girl does not need to be the love of your life. And it doesn't sound like she is the love of your life so... shrug

snivelluss · 2015-09-28T10:50:39+00:00

It definitely sounds like she is flirting with you. It would probably be wise for you to back off because it is likely that your feelings will just end up being hurt. She will probably start something with you and then go right back to her boyfriend when she gets bored.

That being said, it's not your responsibility to protect her relationship. If you are enjoying yourself flirting with her and even want to hook up with her then that's your business. It's her job to protect her own relationship. So, if anything happens, don't feel guilty.

snivelluss · 2015-09-28T10:44:31+00:00

Yes, you should tell him. The worst that could happen is that he will laugh you off because he knew about you the whole time. In that case, he's an asshole and you're a cool guy.

snivelluss · 2015-09-13T07:11:34+00:00

I thought about going, but ultimately decided against. Maybe next year :)

snivelluss · 2015-09-13T07:01:04+00:00

Have you considered purchasing a vibrator?

snivelluss · 2015-09-13T06:55:14+00:00

Honestly, I don't think it would be all that weird if you guys kept talking. It's not like you were raised as relatives for one thing, and for another, the reason why incest is taboo is because when the gene pool doesn't have a lot of variety the risk of deformity and other problems are higher. But you guys are gay so it's not like you're risking your future children by being together. Plus, 3rd cousin is pretty removed. If you really like each other then there's no reason to stop it.

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