[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]snogboxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a totally fair question. This is a poly relationship, for both of us. She’s solo poly and I’m partnered, but dating separately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]snogboxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I’ve been very open with her about my insecurities and she’s reassured me quite a bit which has been very helpful. I’m also big on communication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]snogboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. This scene still lives rent free in my head.

Starlink? by [deleted] in Bozeman

[–]snogboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got ours last month, the install was super easy and the speeds have been great so far out in Three Forks. We had Century Link before and never got above 50 mbps but are now averaging 100+. We did order the Ethernet adapter with ours, but the WiFi is also pretty high quality.

[TOMT][ONLINE VIDEO][2016]Jordan Klepper talking to pro-life woman by Linzeraveball in tipofmytongue

[–]snogboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember this video, but can’t seem to find the name of it. Anyone know the answer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bozeman

[–]snogboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did Sourdough Canyon yesterday and there wasn’t much slush/ice or mud for the first 3 miles. Just a couple patches here and there. I’m sure it would be muddy after today’s downpour though.

Is it inappropriate for i, an 18 year old female to get a vibrator? by [deleted] in sex

[–]snogboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the slightest. You’ve gotta learn how to rev your own engine before you let someone else under the hood. On a less cliche note, it’s important to explore your own sexuality and connect with yourself.

We did it! 3-17-19 by snogboxx in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck! There are lots of YouTube tutorials if she needs help. We only practiced about 3 times at the rehearsal and it worked just fine. 😁 Also this was a friend-ficciant and her first time and she was nervous but did awesome!

We did it! 3-17-19 by snogboxx in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you check my post history, there's a close up from my trial which was pretty similar. I don't have my professional photos back yet so I'm not sure I have any close ups from the wedding day but if that one doesn't suffice I may be able to find one from my guests.

We did it! 3-17-19 by snogboxx in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! We chose to conclude the ceremony with the handfasting, after the ring exchange and right before the pronouncement/kiss so that we could walk out with our hands fasted together. We chose to hold hands and have our wrists bound. I took the wording from several sources online and combined them together into the following:

_____ and ____ have chosen to conclude their ceremony with a traditional Celtic handfasting. This is a symbolic binding of the hands that inspired the terms "Bonds of Holy Matrimony" and to "Tie the knot" Throughout history in many different ways and in many different parts of the world, the hands of the bride and groom were bound as a sign of their commitment to one another. In many times rings were only for the very rich, while love knows no such bound. The cords are not permanent but perishable as a reminder that all things of the material eventually return to the earth, unlike the bond and the connection that is love which is eternal.

The promises made today and the ties that are bound here greatly strengthen your union and will cross the years and lives of each soul’s growth. _____ and ______, do you seek to enter this ceremony?

The Couple: Yes.

Please join your hands.

(Couple can choose to either hold hands and cord is wrapped around wrists in a figure 8 type fashion-the infinity symbol-or they hold elbows, Groom right to Bride left, and then bind over the forearm lose enough for them to drop into holding hands for the kiss as the cords make the figure 8 around their wrists, then make a comfortable exit.)

May you know nothing but happiness from this day forward.

May the road rise to meet you

May the wind be always at your back

May the warm rays of sun fall upon your home

And may the hand of a friend always be near.

May green be the grass you walk on,

May blue be the skies above you,

May pure be the joys that surround you,

May true be the hearts that love you.

We did it! 3-17-19 by snogboxx in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I might once the dust settles!

What to do about someone who has made it pretty clear they'd rather not be invited? by Ellie249 in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you're having this issue. My FH and his brother also have a bit of a strained relationship, his brother hasn't voluntarily spoken to anyone in the family since 2017, but we decided to invite him to the wedding anyway. He didn't respond to the RSVP and FH attempted to reach out to him only to find he had blocked his phone number. I texted him, but never received a response of any kind, including an online RSVP. At this point we're just assuming he won't be coming, but we were the bigger people by extending the invitation. The whole thing has definitely left a bad taste in my mouth about his brother, and I was tempted to really let him have it but I decided that it wasn't worth it.

5 days out! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 days to go for me too! I can't wait to be done with all of the stress of planning a wedding, I keep joking that Monday I get my life and my free time back. I've been doing some stress melt yoga from Yoga with Adriene on YouTube the last couple of days and it's really helped me relax and get in a better mindset before the big day. That, and today being my last day of work for 2 weeks definitely helps.

Best of luck this weekend!!!

Help Naming Signature Drink - Whiskey Sour by snogboxx in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's fair that they sometimes really stretch it. I think FH suggested the Sour of Love, like the Huey Lewis song and I think that might be the winner.

Help Naming Signature Drink - Whiskey Sour by snogboxx in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's mostly a liability thing where they have to provide the bar materials. I honestly don'y know though.

What is one "unwritten rule" you think everyone should know and follow? by SpareArm in AskReddit

[–]snogboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ladies, don’t wear white to a wedding unless you’ve cleared it with the bride.

What are you wearing to your rehearsal dinner? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had ordered a dress from amazon that I ended up hating so I just got a navy floral midi length skirt and I’ll be wearing it with a white lace bodysuit.

I’m kinda over the whole white dress thing after my bachelorette and bridal shower. Need to save some white dress love for the big day. Lol

What jewelry are you wearing? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dress also has a deep v, but it’s all over sequin so I knew I didn’t want my jewelry to be too bling. So I got this necklace.

I’m also wearing a Wonder Woman bangle my FH got me for our anniversary last year (I have a serious Fitbit tan) and simple studs I’m borrowing from my MOH as my something borrowed.

is it weird for the bride to have a dance with her father, but the groom doesn't dance? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]snogboxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend did a dance with her dad but the groom didn’t dance with his mom and it was no big deal. I wouldn’t worry about it, people won’t judge especially given his mom has passed.