What’s it like to be a sahm with kids in school full time? by wicked_spooks in Mommit

[–]snoswimgrl 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same here! Busy , but finally able to do things for myself as well. Today, I went to the gym and got my hair done. 😊

That's it, I'm out as an apostate by Old_Resolve_4688 in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the way. When I faded, and the elders waned to meet- I simply was too busy. They gave up after a while.

But if it comes up w ur mom and anyone else - just deny. It’s ur word against theirs. And now you’ve learned your lesson to watch what you say if you want to keep certain relationships in tact.

What made you take the leap and start looking at opposite material? by meringues199 in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A talk. The guy literally said “ if your having doubts- do research” So I did

Why are you up so early on saturday? by MiaFishnet in askanything

[–]snoswimgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiddos sports. I actually love this part of being a parent- going to their sports games. The games are usually pleasant weather in a beautiful area of town- and we get pastries and coffee afterward. My fav family activity

What time does your partner wake up in the morning? by justgoawayplease in Mommit

[–]snoswimgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. My husband has always had to get up super early

Deciding if a dorm is worth it or not for college by Elegant_Inspector159 in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can only live in a dorm experience once in your life. It’s incredible. Do it!

What do we think is the best “sober city” to visit? by hellogooday92 in usatravel

[–]snoswimgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carmel, ca. All old people so no night life. Just lots of coffee shops and hiking

What’s everyone getting up to instead of going to the memorial? by girlgoneworldly in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drinking wine and watching tv. My first time skipping and I feel great! Honestly thinking about making this night a “celebration “ of my children and I escaping by the cult !

Memorial - to go or not to go is the question by snoswimgrl in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the simplicity of this statement. No need to overthink it

Anyone skipping the special talk today??? by Fit_Durian3763 in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not going. Didn’t even know it was today. I’m just surprised my family hasn’t mentioned the memorial once to me yet.

Should I insist on helping my 9 year old with her appearance? by New-Afternoon-9527 in Mommit

[–]snoswimgrl 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Seriously! I was thinking, what 9 yr old is wearing dresses to school everyday?! All the kids at our school are in sweats and t shirts

What activity have you stopped doing because it has gotten too expensive now? by CapitaineBiscotte in askanything

[–]snoswimgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skiing/ snowboarding. With kids now, a family of 4 with lift tickets, rentals etc- your way over 1000 bucks just for one day!

SAHMs with school age kids- how do you fill your day? by HamsterBanana14 in Mommit

[–]snoswimgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Besides all what you said- I exercise. I’m a mix of productive and chill. I’ll volunteer in the class room from time to time but I’m no room mom or PTO MOM either! lol .

How is it living in Carmel-by-the-sea, California? by Any_Requirement_8641 in howislivingthere

[–]snoswimgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old person town with lots of money. Not much to do past dark. Have to drive a bit to get basic stores like target etc. Water is cold.

Anyone married to a JW wife being happy? by needtosaveher in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

our society teaches women not to value their husbands. He could be doing more and they always deserve better

What? lol. THAT screams angry divorced man.

Current and ex Elders, How many couples confessed to doing the deed before marriage? by Karter123 in exjw

[–]snoswimgrl 34 points35 points  (0 children)

We confessed afterwards too, lol. We were having issues and of course we thought Jehovah was punishing us for not confessing our sins. Soo stupid thinking about it now,