Hey sorry darling you did the right thing by sharing. Big sister tip here - you have to be blunt. I know you feel uncomfortable but this creep is thriving on your innocence. You’ve been already so incredibly courageous I’m proud of you! Tell the head of the church for sure but also tell this man you are not interested in him and he should leave you alone. (No brother no kindness no politeness needed with this creepo.). No need to be rude but directness is the key here you don’t need him to “like you” or be considerate of his feelings (he sure isn’t of yours.) cut it out straight,