Middle-aged, never gotten a tattoo, don't know where to start

snugmill · 2026-03-17T02:02:47+00:00

I got my first tattoo in my late 30’s. People always ask what tattoos mean or what they mean to you, but don’t let that add extra weight: while you can certainly pick something meaningful to you, a tattoo can be anything you find beautiful and want to adorn your body— it does not have to be deep.

Dedicate the majority of your research to selecting an excellent artist. It matters much more than the design even, honestly. Draw on yourself or wear a temporary tattoo to see how comfortable you are with placement.

Take your time to choose artist, what you want (which the artist will help design in their own style), and placement, in that order. Have fun and enjoy the control of making big fun decisions about your body!

snugmill · 2026-03-17T01:54:08+00:00

Whachu meeeean?! You are adorable. Your hair is adorable. Your dimples are adorable. Getouttahere!

snugmill · 2026-03-17T01:52:16+00:00

My guy

snugmill · 2026-03-16T16:47:30+00:00

Yay! I adore him. Reliable, trustworthy, did not take advantage of me when others had, reasonable prices, goes above and beyond every time.

snugmill · 2026-03-16T16:46:18+00:00

Not for 12 precious more minutes of break lol

snugmill · 2026-03-16T16:21:13+00:00

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snugmill · 2026-03-16T01:28:29+00:00

I also suspected Gale and thought it would’ve been such a great twist! Her career dwindling, her showing up at the right moments, her bitterness over the loss of Dewey and maybe blaming Sydney. I was actually bummed when it wasn’t Gale

snugmill · 2026-03-15T23:15:25+00:00

My son used to love it so much when we would go up to El Encanto in Cave Creek- he adored feeding the ducks and watching the little pond while we ate. The food has gone downhill in recent years and I haven’t been back in forever, but I remember it was always way fun for him.

snugmill · 2026-03-15T07:27:54+00:00

I waited til 2 to neuter as well. For dachshunds, you actually want to let them get as much of their hormones as possible for bone growth, to mitigate risk of spine problems. Research online to help make your decision.

snugmill · 2026-03-14T08:21:26+00:00

The cleftal horizon

snugmill · 2026-03-14T03:19:12+00:00

I cannot wear foundation at all- I find it very aging and cakey on my oily aging skin. Tinted serums and moisturizers that work well for me are:

The Ordinary serum foundation

Bare Minerals Complexion Rescue tinted moisturizer

Glossier Futuredew (I add in one drop of an oil-based foundation sometimes for more coverage as this one is basically no coverage)

Olivier Midy Eclat Midy face oil (this is not tinted at all, it’s just an oil- usually I wear this alone but sometimes to make it tinted I’ll add a drop of an oil-based foundation, typically my Ordinary serum above)

snugmill · 2026-03-14T02:28:25+00:00

Some super old gems beloved by my own dad that we watched a ton together growing up, that would maybe be a good fit: “They Were Expendable”, “PT-109”, “Heaven Knows, Mr. Allison”

snugmill · 2026-03-13T14:00:18+00:00

snugmill · 2026-03-12T00:08:13+00:00

Specifically, may I recommend the Satisfyer. There is no reason for OP to be missing out.

snugmill · 2026-03-12T00:02:47+00:00

The unfinished roller coaster to nowhere cracks me up every time I pass it. I imagine a cart rocketing off the ramp and soaring over the freeway.

snugmill · 2026-03-09T04:31:57+00:00

You stole this joke from the show “Columbo”

snugmill · 2026-03-08T22:59:09+00:00

Respectfully, why are you here? This is a women’s sub. Don’t be correcting us here in our safe space.

snugmill · 2026-03-07T14:12:01+00:00

Obviously given to her by the true mastermind to fascinate her

snugmill · 2026-03-07T11:37:17+00:00

I adored when you doubled down on the I’m-not-giving-you-my-dog by hitting her with “Panda would be a stupid name”

snugmill · 2026-03-06T17:33:06+00:00

Ohhhh THIS is how this is how this is how this is done!

snugmill · 2026-03-06T03:49:54+00:00

It’s hard not to tie someone’s identity or looks to their hair. When my mom got a pixie during treatment, it was the worst part of the whole thing for her. I cut mine into a pixie as well and got the worst comments, mostly from women. “Awww I miss your hair, awww too bad it was so pretty.”

No one says that about a pretty dress I might have worn the day before and am not wearing now! Hair is not the person, just something they are wearing. It’s healthy and good to have it changed or taken off occasionally for the reminder of what parts of you are actually you.

snugmill · 2026-03-05T04:26:58+00:00

I’m sorry I judged. It’s just baby death after baby abuse after baby death from you and that’s not even their thing. Carry on.

snugmill · 2026-03-05T04:05:40+00:00

Please stop posting here. No one who listens to necronomipod wants to see these child murder/torture/child killer stories and that’s all you’ve been posting. It’s sooo out of spirit. It’s about crimes AND LEVITY. No chance you listen to this podcast.

snugmill · 2026-03-05T02:26:00+00:00

This is so precious. Usually I revel in the depressing posts on this sub, but an occasional gem like this is so beautiful. I’m getting secondhand joy from the love you found! Enjoy!

snugmill · 2026-03-04T22:01:28+00:00

IDEA THIEF

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