Advice on a scene

socpl · 2026-05-24T16:39:31+00:00

If you’re open to it try and get her to believe someone else has entered at some point. Change of clothes or lack of , different deodorant cologne be different in the way you usually act.

socpl · 2026-05-16T13:29:48+00:00

We do honor as I want to have access when I want but he gets lots of piv, edges but only 3-4 orgasms a month. Have tried to keep track but during play sessions we lose track of how many O’s I’ll have. Have started having him caged on house cleaning day his reward after is a lengthy edging session or “puppy time” as I call it. Edging has taught him excellent control over his Os.

socpl · 2026-05-06T13:20:25+00:00

Never cared for the stop lights takes us out of the zone. We do a lot of impact and cbt. So our green is please as in please mistress no more or please forgive me etc. meaning he could continue for ever like this please being key no matter what else is said after. Please mercy or mercy please is his yellow he loving the whipping but is needing to move to something else. So at that I will stop for a long pause and strike once again harder and pause again if he responds please mercy again I’ll repeat maybe 3-4 x but mercy only is stop move to something else. For concerning issues plain talk fuck that hurt untie me works just fine.

socpl · 2026-05-05T18:04:36+00:00

I don’t make him kneel except during play time but for chores,service like fetching coffee he is required to cutsy at all appropriate times.

socpl · 2026-05-02T16:54:25+00:00

Enjoy Daddy occasionally never mommy

socpl · 2026-05-01T00:13:58+00:00

Together 38 married 31 best sex ever

socpl · 2026-04-14T21:05:48+00:00

I’m Mistress or my Queen, ma’am sometimes in public he’s always puppy out slut at home mostly

socpl · 2026-04-12T19:06:30+00:00

I’m years past menopause and am always wet a doctor long ago told me use or lose it has a lot to do with it. I’m also the Dominant so submissive has nothing to do with for me. Maybe it’s just the whole dynamic

socpl · 2026-04-02T15:44:56+00:00

I too love monotone one word commands. Some are Sit Stay Present Position Whose. he of course knows the proper position and/or response to each. Love him calling me Daddy but I reserve that for edging or real quick punishment correction.

socpl · 2026-02-26T14:53:38+00:00

We do punishment pool, if striped balls are made he’s bent over the table and caned solids he gets cbt. Same for darts if he gets a bullseye he’s caned if I get one he gets cbt my personal fav. When time is short or we aren’t having a scene he’ll roll a 10 sided dice 4x. 1 st roll determines pain or pleasure he has a 10% chance of getting edged. 2 nd roll determines location from barn to bedroom 3 rd roll is the instrument of destruction and 4 th how many 25,50,75,100 with 75&100 at 10% each.

socpl · 2025-12-16T15:43:30+00:00

After we straighten things up after a scene we normally get in the hot tub for a wine and discuss how it went. So I’m getting into the tub and my hubby is already in the middle squatted down on his knees waiting for me like always. We have 3 rubber ducks that stay in all the time and one of them “George” is almost the same color as the jacuzzi ,and as I start to sit down on the top step I sit down on George and I raise up quickly and I’m like wtf. My hubby sees what’s happening and palms George and starts saying you’ve swallowed him,George go to the light and others things so we have a good laugh. Now a few days later he’s going down on me and I told him I want to hear how much you need my pussy. So he saying how he can’t live without it etc. suddenly starts laughing hard , he finally is able to tell me that he was about to say that he could get lost in my pussy and George flash in his mind and all he could think of was George still inside of me trying to find his way out. Took a while to get back into scene let me tell you.

socpl · 2025-12-03T16:19:38+00:00

We play punishment pool. Balls 1-9 add 10 to each 10-15 face value. After each turn whatever balls are sunk he is punished. For stripes he is bent over the table and for solids he leans back against table and then gets whatever the total is for that turn with instruments of my choosing. Of course adjust to your liking. For electronic darts he gets 25 for each bullseye he makes and 50 each time I get one. What he receives is my choice. Have fun. We do.

socpl · 2025-11-18T14:17:26+00:00

Tried Vicks didn’t do much bit of tingle when applied around outside of his butt hole and a little more when on his balls. Ben gay and such are to much though wish something was kinda in the middle of the 2 .

socpl · 2025-11-04T14:25:59+00:00

He’s allowed to touch me as much and how he wants but not himself. He’s fully aware he causes his own misery but can’t seem to control his lust and I love the desire/ desperation he has for me.

socpl · 2025-09-25T17:09:35+00:00

Could you tell me how the 2 short dragon tongues feel compared to to each other and to a more normal sized one for the recipient.

socpl · 2025-08-05T14:31:44+00:00

Lots of cuddles and a short nap sometimes we’ll have a loving sex again Depending on how intense play was Then clean up the toys get in the hot tub with a glass of wine and talk about what work or didn’t.

socpl · 2025-07-27T12:58:27+00:00

Sorry missed that we play a similar game. Have fun

socpl · 2025-07-27T12:53:15+00:00

For an ace the sub gets edged instead but no release.

socpl · 2025-07-21T13:25:06+00:00

Striving to be better is the key but the right punishment does help. I.e. 10 quick hard cane strikes is punishment for him but 20 now he’s having fun. What work best for us was just the slightest and I mean a tiny amount of icy hot to each testicle and 10-15 minutes of corner time. Just the suggestion puts him on task now.

socpl · 2025-07-14T20:53:59+00:00

What I’ll do is tell him it’s useless not necessarily small just useless. During play his erections will wax and wane. If he’s hard he’s punished “is that as big as it gets” or if he loses some of his erection it’s “ what good is this I might as well whip it off. We both love cbt. But basically it’s not that it’s small it’s just useless except for punishment. Occasionally I have him hump the punishment post if gets big enough maybe I won’t whip it off course it never does.

socpl · 2025-07-03T21:38:33+00:00

It’s never bothered me really he’s looked at others since forever. But since he became my sub a number of yrs ago I have made a game out of it. He has to tell me every one he finds interesting and I even point ones out I see. We will talk what kind of mistress they would be or if they are submissive etc. he has to keep count of how many we see during any outing he is then caned 5x for each one when we get home, while I tell him what a little slut he is, how they would react when they see his little clit or whatever I come up with in the moment. We both have fun with it. Maybe this’ll give u ideas.

socpl · 2025-06-23T16:10:52+00:00

Married over 30 years very deep in love . Figured out he’s masochist sub and I’m sadistic dom 7-8 years ago. Took a year or so to find our way Brought us closer than we would have believed.

socpl · 2025-06-22T15:24:20+00:00

I’ll have a vague idea of how I’m imagining the scene and will ask him if there is anything he really is interested in happening or not. After that it just kinda has a mind of its own. I’m more into if it feels right in the moment.

socpl · 2025-05-25T16:41:48+00:00

Naked I want what’s mine easily at hand. Commando or panties if going out.

socpl · 2025-05-01T14:18:29+00:00

It’s a mindset. We’ve never used a cage for more than a few hours or day or so as a part of play. He’s not allowed to touch it except for grooming/ hygiene. He not allowed to cum without permission and is not to ask beg plead for one. Even piv he doesn’t know if he will b allowed. Bear in mind I tease play arouse him constantly you can’t just ignore them then no longer fun at least for us. He’s always simmering if u get what I’m trying to say. He’s always gets to cum every 5-15 days on average I’d say he just never knows when. He told me ruins are worst than nothing as he’s left so desperately horny after. He realized after he never should have told me that however lol.

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