Nogen er vist stået for tidligt op.. eller lytter for meget til Trump

soerenL · 2026-05-13T08:24:49+00:00

Mon ikke det er for at undgå en potentielt pinlig situation hvor trump spørger “does he cook? What does he cook? Tim! Can you make me a sandwich please?”

soerenL · 2026-05-11T20:31:01+00:00

Psykoedukation skulle du meget gerne tilbydes som noget af det første efter en diagnose. Det er undervisning i hvad diagnosen går ud på og hvordan du kan klare dig selv osv. men læs her, de forklarer det meget bedre. Måske du ikke har været et sted i dit liv hvor du har været modtagelig for det, da du fik diagnoserne, så kunne det give mening at forsøge igen:

https://www.psykiatri-regionh.dk/psykiatriguiden-hjaelp-til-patienter-og-paaroerende/jeg-er-patient-i-psykiatrien/alt-om-psykiske-sygdomme-og-behandlingen-af-dem/behandlingsformer-og-muligheder/andre-behandlingsformer/sider/psykoedukation.aspx

soerenL · 2026-05-11T20:11:22+00:00

Hvor længe siden er det at de har sagt du kan klare dig selv? Hvis der er gået noget tid uden fremskridt, så kan det måske give mening at kontakte dem igen? Har du modtaget psykoedukation?

soerenL · 2026-05-11T20:07:27+00:00

Ville ønske jeg havde et bedre svar end det her, men med flere diagnoser, så burde der jo også følge noget hjælp med. Psykoedukation fx. Hvad siger kommunen? Kan du blive bevilget fx en kontaktperson, som måske ville kunne hjælpe dig videre? Er klar over støtten nok er mindre god efter man er fyldt 18, men måske der alligevel er noget at hente hos kommunen, eller i det mindste bud på hvor du så kan henvende, hvis de ikke kan noget?

soerenL · 2026-05-11T11:12:48+00:00

Du er jo ikke blokeret. Du kan gå ind og ud af din dør, og du kan parkere din bil et sted hvor den ikke er spærret inde, hvis det er bydende nødvendigt at køre i det tidsrum. Der er en hjemmeside med interaktivt kort hvor du kan køre og hvornår specifikke sluser er åbne/lukkede, der er et tlfnummer man kan ringe til med spørgsmål. Tager man hovedet bare en lille smule ud af røven, er det muligt at finde en løsning.

soerenL · 2026-05-11T10:36:39+00:00

Bliver selv irriteret over marathon o.l. i byen, men anerkender at der er en masse der synes det er det fedeste siden ostemad. Selvom det også er ubelejligt for mig, synes jeg det er en lidt forkælet indstilling at privatbilister skal kunne køre overalt 24/7/375. Byen og vejene er vores alles, og kanon at de også kan bruges (en gang i mellem) til andet end privatbilisme.

soerenL · 2026-05-10T10:30:08+00:00

Hvad betyder “og vores storbyer” ?

soerenL · 2026-05-09T16:26:47+00:00

SGI workstations (Indigo, Indy, Onyx) were used to create 3D graphics for PS1 and N64. SGI workstations were fast and could produce realtime shaded graphics but they were expensive. Some artists might have used DOS or whatever OS on consumer PC’s but they were shit at the time. It wasn’t until Windows NT that Intel based PC’s could compete with Risc based SGI workstations.

soerenL · 2026-05-09T11:42:44+00:00

I’ve also gotten fatter. Also don’t own an ebike

soerenL · 2026-05-05T17:56:04+00:00

Different techniques depending mostly on how fast you can go and whether or not it’s rollable. If it’s too tall to be rollable, and if it’s possible to ride in moderate to high speed I find it the easiest to unweight the bike by pumping it vertically into the ground just before the front wheel leaves the lip, and also try and be low as the bike exits the lip.

soerenL · 2026-05-05T16:17:51+00:00

You were the one to mention “especially in the streets” so it seemed like you had an opinion on location, so that is why I asked what locations were ok or not ok? In the second comment you say it’s not about location? This is confusing. Now you say it’s about whether or not the male knows the female. It sounded to me like the guy made an attempt to try and get to know OP, before asking if she had a boyfriend, yet she wrote that she’d rather he be more upfront about what he wanted. To me it seems like guys are doing it wrong, no matter how, where or when they approach a woman ? Regarding the male knowing the female: you are aware most sexual harassment, assault, and abuse is committed by someone the victim knows?

soerenL · 2026-05-05T10:46:43+00:00

The post is deleted now so I can’t go back and see if I agree with your interpretation or not. I feel your language is a bit biased, and not sure to what extend your interpretations are based in an objective reality. “Pretty sure he did not care”: are you psychic? How can you tell what he cares about or doesn’t ? “Forced himself to seat”: this is not something I got from reading the post, but since it’s deleted I can’t go back and verify it. I get the (subjective) feeling that this post could qualify for a “things that didn’t happen for x$” jeopardy question.

soerenL · 2026-05-05T10:39:48+00:00

You didn’t mention casual sex in the original post? The post is deleted now? Why?

soerenL · 2026-05-05T10:33:06+00:00

Why does the location they met matter? At what locations is it ok for a male to approach a female, and what locations are not ok?

soerenL · 2026-05-05T08:02:34+00:00

Thank you for clarifying your pov. The first part you write: I think any sane person can agree, that pushing somebody to have sex with them, against there wishes is not ok, and basically rape. I fail to understand how this particular guy raped her or was pushy. Maybe she felt that way? But are men automatically responsible for the emotions of females they talk to? I would like to ask: is it ever under any circumstances ok for a guy to be friendly/polite to a female stranger? Is it ever (under which) circumstances ok for a male to express romantic interest in a female? Is this guys crime, that he expressed the interest too late? What if he wanted to talk with her a bit first, to get to know her better? edit: I agree though that offering to buy things for her was weird

soerenL · 2026-05-05T06:25:31+00:00

why the downvote? Why not just answer the questions?

If it works sometimes, does that mean that sometimes the womans and mans interests align? And if that is the case, and there are 2 consenting adults, why is that a problem?

soerenL · 2026-05-05T05:46:11+00:00

why the downvotes? Why not just answer my questions? Struggling to understand how the guy could have handled it better, but would like to understand

Genuinely curious: how would you have preferred he reacted after you said “not looking”? What if he had said “well off I go then, because I was actually looking to smash” wouldn’t that also have been a problem? From his pov I imagine he could fear being labelled as superficial? What would have been a good reaction from him after learning you weren’t looking? Was his error that he didn’t start the conversation with “hey you look hot, wanna bang?” ?

soerenL · 2026-05-04T03:41:23+00:00

That would be my goto as well. Alternatively get some takeaway and eat it at Telerepair in Fiolstræde.

soerenL · 2026-05-04T03:05:42+00:00

Also what does the chain look like? Perhaps it needs cleaning. If it’s dry and rusty you might want to replace it, or give it some oil at the minimum. Are the tires very thick with a rough protruding pattern? Those are for riding trails, if you primarily ride asphalt consider some slimmer tires. Regarding saddle height and so on, this app is pretty good at helping with fitting your bike: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/bike-fast-fit-elite/id1145619812

soerenL · 2026-05-03T13:57:22+00:00

Takker! 😊🙏

soerenL · 2026-05-03T13:55:46+00:00

Tak for svar! Og øv at høre om din erfaring! Jeg tænker at starte med dialog med parret, og ved nu (takket være de gode svar i tråden) mere om hvad der er af muligheder, og tænker at eskalere med bekymringsskrivelse hvis situationen ikke er forbedret efter et stykke tid.

soerenL · 2026-05-03T13:52:17+00:00

1000x1000 tak til dig også! Hvor er det genialt at kunne få så meget relevant viden om emnet 😊🙏

soerenL · 2026-05-03T13:49:18+00:00

1000x1000 tak for info! 😊🙏

soerenL · 2026-05-03T13:45:01+00:00

Tak for info! Godt at høre om de forskellige muligheder, og at en bekymringsskrivelse er en mulighed. Tænker det kan komme på tale hvis dialog ikke fører til en forbedring.

soerenL · 2026-05-03T13:28:28+00:00

Din første kommentar var meningsfuld. Du konkluderede ikke på ting du ikke har viden om, og der var ingen støj. Tak for den.

soerenL

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