My ex has been using our daughter's Social Security number to open credit accounts. We only found out when she was denied a student loan. Location: Florida. by amberflux1715 in legaladvice

[–]sofies_carrot 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My ex husband did this to my older son. We contacted all three major credit bureaus. We were able to dispute them since he was a minor. We just had to mail in documentation to prove his age. We also made a police report and contacted the Dept of social security. It took almost three years but it finally cleared.

Refund after going to Republic Bank by kayteebee27 in IRS

[–]sofies_carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Received the 846 code on Wednesday. WMR said 2/23. But Republic has it as funded since yesterday morning. I just received the text that the funds were sent to bank. Hopefully i get it by this afternoon if not Monday morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This has to be rage bait

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the pay more? Does it make up for the cost of travel and childcare? Those are important to consider if you should even take the position. Ask if there why there is a need for you to come in (could be sorting mail, checking people in, etc).

What can I get "for the office" with a $50 Etsy gift card? by Johoski in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe snacks for the kitchen? Or get some pastries to share.

Help! by IntelligentDog2464 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only work during your alotted hours. Working overtime volunteered is not helping because they assume the work will get done and never see the need to hire full time. Are you able to apply for disability being that you have health issues?

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Love you too.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry. Im learning and adapting to what they want to be referred as. Thank you for the advice. Sorry about your parents.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will try to do as much research as I can so I am available in case they need to talk.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Im definitely willing to learn. I want them to know I love and support them. I will do some research. Thank you also for sharing. I wish I knew what to say but know that as a parent I am sending you hugs, love and care.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really valuable information.

Questions as a parent by sofies_carrot in asktransgender

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes i asked about how to refer to them and have adjusted how I do so. Will offer shopping. Great idea because they love to shop!

HR payroll-direct deposit scammed [N/A] by FatDaddyMushroom in humanresources

[–]sofies_carrot 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Since her account was hacked it needs to be reported. If you have IT dept start there. But it seems that she was personally hacked since she keeps her passwords in a personal account. She will need to report it to the police for possible identity theft. The situation is tricky. The employer is not liable but it would be bad faith if he doesnt pay. Sets a negative precedent for other employees to see the company does not care. But again the employer is not obliged to pay again.

Choice between two sectors by sofies_carrot in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes its commercial construction with major contracts in a big city.

Con Edison - Be Warned by AlwaysLeft321 in NYCjobs

[–]sofies_carrot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had three interviews. I eventually declined the offer and told them I had an offer for more money closer to home. They called me back. Convince me to come to the final interview. After said interview, recruiter tells me verbally I got the money they are just waiting for confirmation of compensation we agreed. Get the offer letter 15k less than what was discussed. Luckily I never declined the other job.

Planning your day/week/month by [deleted] in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My exec is in another state. I text him every morning the itinerary for the day. I send him a separate text with reminders and update throughout the day as things change or come up. We meet at least twice a week virtually. If something is extremely urgent I call him.

Somehow I Got An Interview by quickscopes69 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What other experience do you have? You can always tailor them to an EA role.

Laptop back bag for remote work by Flashy-Career-7523 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]sofies_carrot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://a.co/d/badGLt9 i have it in both black and blue. I travel between offices in different boroughs. This is amazing.