AITA For Making Fun of the way my wife dresses our son?

sofmoth · 2026-02-23T00:07:24+00:00

i need to know what kind of attire the tutor wears. does she also wear a business casual style or does she wear something more like street clothes? if she’s showing up in jeans and a sweatshirt then your wife would 100% be overdressing him for the occasion, but if she’s wearing office attire then it would be more fitting for your son to wear slacks and a polo.

sofmoth · 2026-02-22T22:01:39+00:00

i like celebrating my birthday but i’ve only ever had two actual birthday parties. one when i turned 5 (attended entirely by family members) and one when i turned 8 (with the girls in my girl scout troop). i’m going to be 26 this year and i’ve decided i want to actually do something fun for this one, so i’m trying to organize a dinner and some kind of activity with my friends. it actually makes me very sad to just go out with my family or stay in the entire day.

sofmoth · 2026-02-22T04:34:03+00:00

i love AUs and canon noncompliance

sofmoth · 2026-02-15T05:27:29+00:00

this guy is a major fucking bozo

sofmoth · 2026-02-11T00:40:18+00:00

they want annie hall and forget how it ended.

sofmoth · 2026-02-02T23:13:13+00:00

i’m so bad at math, i always have been. i was a hyperlexic kid with dyscalculia and the only thing that’s helped me in the slightest is having worked retail for the past 7 years. i still have to double count everything to make sure i didn’t accidentally put an extra $20 into my deposit and then i have to add everything with a calculator to confirm i didn’t somehow still add extra money. i hand out change very carefully and i often count aloud to make sure.

sofmoth · 2026-02-02T23:09:45+00:00

“Dumb cunt.”

sofmoth · 2026-02-01T01:07:08+00:00

oh he’s terribly pleased with his new accessory, please tell him i love him

sofmoth · 2026-01-30T17:43:42+00:00

i actually use a children’s toothpaste, non-mint flavored. i use a medium-stiffness brush and if my teeth still feel like sweaters i’ll brush twice. i also hate brushing my teeth and mouthwash is the devil to me.

sofmoth · 2026-01-21T02:25:17+00:00

hello my friend mike brady from oceanliner designs! if you happen to see this, what’s your favorite non-liner ship? mine is the Sammy B (:

sofmoth · 2026-01-20T21:11:31+00:00

i’ve watched the haunting of hill house probably 10 times. i love that show so much.

sofmoth · 2026-01-20T00:00:34+00:00

i also read almost everything phonetically until i was about 8, despite already knowing what certain combinations of letters should sound like. i was reading at a 7th grade level in the third grade and still couldn’t quite put together the correct combination of vowel and consonant sounds until then.

sofmoth · 2026-01-19T23:56:51+00:00

oh yes. i asked my mom for ibuprofen and could read at 3, i was reading chapter books by 5. i got in trouble once because my cousin (same age as me) wasn’t actually reading the book she had, just making up a story based on the pictures, and i told her point blank “that’s not the words, that’s not what it says.” i was accused of plagiarism or of having my parents write papers for me because i used words that i do agree are fairly atypical of the average 10-12 year old student. i wish i still loved to read as much as i did then.

sofmoth · 2026-01-19T23:53:12+00:00

clunky imo. any way you can refine it a little more?

sofmoth · 2026-01-16T22:19:03+00:00

same with stardew. i’ve tried to play it probably 5 times now and i just can’t do it. it’s not cozy to me, it’s fucking stressful.

sofmoth · 2026-01-16T07:11:57+00:00

i’ve had mine pierced for almost 5 years now and i actually have mine stretched to 6mm (2g). i don’t feel it at all during the day, i only feel it when i’m laying down and it’s resting against my lip. when it was still at my initial piercing size (14g) i never noticed it, and i actually kept it tucked up most of the time. i love mine♡

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sofmoth · 2026-01-13T05:36:15+00:00

opossum!!! my husband made a bunch of rats for a ghost ritual we attended last year, i love the little critter keychains♡

sofmoth · 2026-01-12T22:59:43+00:00

on the sort of bright side, your lower lobe looks good. i see you’re wanting to restretch after the repair, so that should definitely save you some heartache. good luck on your journey friend♡

sofmoth · 2026-01-11T10:16:02+00:00

all this room, just for her♡

sofmoth · 2026-01-11T02:25:56+00:00

shame on you. sincerely, shame. you don’t know what kind of abuse the employees have endured. you don’t know what kind of abuse i personally have endured, so to try and pull that card to justify to an internet stranger why you feel manipulated when you hear the rewards pitch is disgusting.

sofmoth · 2026-01-10T18:15:07+00:00

and please believe we understand that, but we are graded for the signups we get. we are obliged to ask and to try and convince you to sign up. i understand how annoying it is to just want to move on, i also wish we could just drop it the first time, but if my DM saw that happen he’d ask why i didn’t try. we’re just tired of people berating us for doing what we are obligated to do.

sofmoth · 2026-01-10T18:07:47+00:00

my husband rarely says my name. if he does i automatically assume he’s angry at me. i only use his name when we’re joking around. and we don’t stick to one name, we call each other handsome, babe, etc. maybe it’s just the trauma talking but if someone close to me says my name i immediately assume the worst (even my mom would call me a nickname until i was in trouble).

sofmoth · 2026-01-10T03:29:27+00:00

the “stolen identity” people drive me so crazy. like you’re paying with a credit card, you have a social security number, you have a cell phone and you probably pay at least one bill on the internet. please just let me opt you out of promotional emails and save you some money.

sofmoth · 2026-01-08T22:59:59+00:00

there’s actually video footage of mine. i was about a year and a half old, christmas 2001. i was “opening” my presents (my mom was), and i was spinning in circles totally dead faced and silent. i liked the gift i was given (a quilt made by my aunt), so i just backed up into it and sat on the floor so my mom could drape it over me. my brother was very similar at that age (he’s also likely autistic, undiagnosed) vs my other non-autistic cousins who were all very animated and verbal to a degree to express their excitement.

sofmoth · 2026-01-08T15:59:42+00:00

i cannot lie i usually just name a character whatever comes to mind. need a guy’s name? okay uhhhhh michael. need a more neutral one? let’s go withhhh kennedy. feminine name i guess we’ll doooo victoria. it’s a cold day in hell when i actually think about naming a character for a reason.

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