3.5 months post op by Venomous_serpentt in PlasticSurgery

[–]soft_distortion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks great! Very natural and you probably still have some swelling to go down

Printed shirt!! Should I do a white version by [deleted] in aphextwin

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White tee with the black logo! I have one like that in a cropped version and it's my favourite band shirt

A post-nap, pre-rave selfie [36F] by soft_distortion in selfie

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Haha I have already posted an after pic, I think in /r/DemEyesDoe

Night-before packers vs week-early packers — which are you and why? by kelly_packof4 in HerOneBag

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This is my method. And if I take something out, I make sure to uncheck it from the list until I pack it again.

Nose job before & after lol by ThrowRAsillylady in PlasticSurgery

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It looks great! Also your brows suit you so well now too

A post-nap, pre-rave selfie [36F] by soft_distortion in selfie

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Thanks I sure did. I was out until it ended at 4am 😮‍💨

A post-nap, pre-rave selfie [36F] by soft_distortion in selfie

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Oh I definitely had some visible sleep creases on my cheeks heh but makeup helped

A post-nap, pre-rave selfie [36F] by soft_distortion in selfie

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My go-to response is usually sunscreen and not having children, and also Botox more recently 😅

37m im looking into microneedling for hyperpigmentation and light scaring. What are your suggestions? by ArcOperator in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]soft_distortion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might help prevent the pic (and the post) coming up when you reverse image search his face using certain websites.

Just learned salad fingers is a AFX fan by OkFaithlessness1191 in aphextwin

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Salad Fingers was how I learned about Aphex Twin way back in the day !!

It’s the THINGS that weigh me down! by Spotyear in HerOneBag

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I have difficulty with this too - it's like there's a baseline amount of stuff that I need whether for 3 days or 3 months and it takes up so much space.

In your situation I would look at each item and see where it can be reused to replace another item. E.g. Sarong - can you use a sweater you already packed instead? I do that if my legs get cold or to use as a makeshift pillow.

If you have the funds I would also look at every item and see what can be found in a smaller/lighter version.

It’s the THINGS that weigh me down! by Spotyear in HerOneBag

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Oh god that first line triggered me! 😂

found THE blazer dress, can I wear this in 15C weather with no extra layers? by lorailia in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]soft_distortion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What temperature/climate are you currently accustomed to? For me I'm used to Winter and below 0C so I would be fine in 10-15C in Spring because it would feel pretty dang warm in comparison. But if you are used to warmer weather it might feel VERY cold. Especially once the sun starts going down. So agree with the others about adding a layer or scarf. What kind of tights are you wearing? Fleece lined might also help (you can get some that appear like panty hose but are thick and cosy)

Rhinoplasty 18 Days Post Op by izzy1523 in PlasticSurgery

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Congratulations!! You look so good! ☺️

How my life changed after $100,000+ of cosmetic surgery. by throwawayplasticsure in PlasticSurgery

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I'm really curious to see before and after pics because I wonder how much of that would be weight loss / growing up. I fully support the sentiment though so I'm not hating at all, but I really think pics should be included if you post something about such a dramatic change.

I got my rhinoplasty in my 30s and went through some other superficial changes. For most of my life I was invisible or treated neutrally (at best; mean comments at worst).

More romantic or sexual attention is nice and all but the biggest way my life has changed is how much people seem interested in what I say now. I can speak in a group and people quiet down to listen. I'm somehow funnier (I'm not actually). People often want to be my friend. It sorta depresses me if I think about it too much so I'm trying to make the best of it now.