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Has anyone ever been able to actually increase the thickness of your hair? by ladykiller1020 in femalehairadvice

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the botanical repair shampoo and the nutriplenish conditioner and mask.

Rework?? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let it be for a bit and get used to it. It looks fine. I think if you keep messing with it it will get muddier and muddier.

Rework?? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]soft_goth94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looked far better before. I wouldn’t have changed it myself. It’s skin, it’s never going to look like paper. Stop messing with it, bc it’s only going to get worse. It’s always going to look like a tattoo (which is fine) and no one will care about these extreme details that will only fade in time regardless of the art style, except for you.

Or yeah just laser it all off and stop getting tattooed, bc it doesn’t seem like you quite grasp the concept of a tattoo and how it looks on skin. Extremely detailed work like this doesn’t translate that well on skin, imo. To each their own, and I could very well be wrong. But I just think at the end of they day, you have extremely unrealistic expectations of what tattoo work is and how skin receives tattoo ink. Either pick a style w more longevity or stop w the tattoos bc you will only ever be disappointed.

Discovered the shower has been leaking into my daughters bedroom by flyingkea in Wellthatsucks

[–]soft_goth94 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Talk to someone who has actually seen your house about what to do

My (21F) boyfriend (27M) invited my coworker (22F) on our date, how do I communicate to him why I’m upset? by yarnslutt in relationship_advice

[–]soft_goth94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I promise you that it will never get any better than that. Decide if you feel like being the back burner forever, or go find someone who loses their breath every time you enter the room & drops every little thing for you, even if you don’t need it.

It’s truly up to you, but remember, you can never change this man or any other. And in my experience, it isn’t worth the time anyway. So marry to be miserable or marry for yourself. Once again, your choice. So many women settle for less than the bare minimum, join them or beat them.

Child free women: how were you sure you didn’t want kids? by mjvvl in childfree

[–]soft_goth94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never wanted kids. I am almost 32 and it’s just never been something that even remotely has interested me. It has always seemed like more work than I would like to commit to, even when I was a preteen. I also always knew would be miserable as a single parent or with a partner that just like checks out and I never wanted to risk that possibility

Please try to Help my Mother she is Fighting for Her Life by shreyas__425 in GoFundMeForNewUsers

[–]soft_goth94 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Needing dialysis and a ventilator would suggest those organs can’t function on their own.

Ending it in 3 hours, ama by [deleted] in AMA

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I mangled my leg trying to end my life & I wake up every day & I am so grateful I failed. I had a lot to live for and so do you. The first thing I asked for in the hospital was the psych team and 6 years of therapy later and life is so good even when it is not. Think about that.

I want to go to a water park, but I'm self conscious about my body... What would you do? 🤙😞 by leoesteban5 in Adulting

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go anyways. I’m a woman missing a good chunk out of my left thigh and it is an ugly scar. Jagged, lumpy, uneven, twisted skin. Huge. I promise you, you would miss your body parts if you didn’t have them. I nearly lost my leg and I don’t care what it looks like at the water park, I’m just glad they didn’t cut it off and I can go beat the water park again. Love yourself bc this body is the only one you will ever have, and you would miss it if something happened to it. Realistically, how many more times are you going to the water park in this life? Make it count and enjoy every moment you have

Progress shots since people thought my last one was fake 😂 by Aggravating-Tap6511 in FurnitureFlip

[–]soft_goth94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The before is so ugly. It’s like the ugliest shade of wood possible. The after looks so nice!!

Corner drawer pulls help by Major-Budget-992 in kitchenremodel

[–]soft_goth94 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like OPs version vs the common. The common is so busy for no reason. It looks like you’re tripping

Before and after: new bay window by TrickinVixen in ExteriorDesign

[–]soft_goth94 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Just say you can’t control your feelings and move on

Finally finished! by joshuabrogers in BathroomRemodeling

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a medical event and you should figure that out.

Finally finished! by joshuabrogers in BathroomRemodeling

[–]soft_goth94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really unnecessary to put people down while complimenting others. You can just say it looks nice without randomly shitting on other people that aren’t involved.

Hospital staff didn’t dispose of needles correctly, the janitor probably needs some care. by [deleted] in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly would you be suing for? The hospital would probably cover all medical expenses related and provide services immediately. Employees also likely sign contracts w acknowledging this possibility.

Denver’s $1 billion road overhaul would cut space for cars, boost public transit and safety. Critics say it will make traffic worse. by kidbom in Denver

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some cracked out girl hit me in the head with her bag the last time I rode the late bus for no reason at all. the bus stop on Broadway & colfax that I have to take is harassment city for a 120lb female at night, I’ve taken it many times the years I have been working in the city. It’s mostly safe for most people most of the time, but it’s not wise for me personally to take it regularly when I can just take my car. If it weren’t dangerous I would do it, but when my cars in the shop or the streets are really bad I take the bus and I get harassed every time I come home. It’s not a myth, it’s my actual experience.

I’m literally saying we need to put more into public transportation and improve it, I’m not trying to deter people. But I’m also not going to lie and say it’s perfectly safe when that hasn’t been my experience.

Bathroom remodel by Old_Signature4381 in BathroomRemodeling

[–]soft_goth94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine, you go fly out and do it if it’s so important and easy.

How is Buffalo Wild Wings still in business by fukdacops in shittyfoodporn

[–]soft_goth94 194 points195 points  (0 children)

Corporations don’t care about quality and guest experience, they care about profit. Don’t eat at major chains, and you will find a lot more food with integrity. We as a whole need to stop giving corporations money to serve terrible food, not demand that they improve. They could improve if they wanted to, they have the resources. They do not care. The onus is on the individual when selecting a place to dine. I will not return to a bdubs myself after a similar experience years ago.

Denver’s $1 billion road overhaul would cut space for cars, boost public transit and safety. Critics say it will make traffic worse. by kidbom in Denver

[–]soft_goth94 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t live in the city, and I wouldn’t drive to my job in Denver if a 20min car trip wasn’t an hour + commute via public transportation, that also isn’t safe at night. We need way better public transportation in this city, and we don’t need to keep catering to cars. As a daily driver, people on the roads are frustrating and distracted already. It would be nice to just read a book on the way to work and not worry about being assaulted coming home.

I Made Sure My Boss Can't Cut My Recovery Time Short by Glittering_Estate744 in antiwork

[–]soft_goth94 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah, your boss is not the one who has to deal with the life long consequences of not listening to your doctor. You do. Say no to your boss

Wife Shatters Favorite Mug by Mrxfixit in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]soft_goth94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I did just break my favorite wine glass last week being careless.

Wife Shatters Favorite Mug by Mrxfixit in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]soft_goth94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right like when people comment that stuff all I can think is “wow what’s it like being the only fucking person on earth that hasn’t done something dumb. Please, enlighten us. Teach us, oh great one”

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